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- Yes.

- They are priorities in how you give and receive affection.

- What makes you feel loved.

- I think I do know about love languages.

- Words of affirmation, I need compliments all the time.

- Quality time is important, but not too much quality time.

- When someone like, looks out for me,

like, that's definitely something that means a lot to me.

- I'm a "toucher".

- Being able to connect without words is very important.

- I love giving people gifts, and writing people notes.

- I don't know if there's necessarily one

that I would relate to the most.

I need everything, and more.

- Oh.

- Someone could say they love you or give you compliments

that's cute and cool, but the way I feel love is

when you do something that I wasn't even thinking about,

but you knew that I would appreciate it.

- Yeah.

- So.

- Hmm.

- I am a giver.

So I'm definitely one to give touch

and I'm definitely one to give words of affirmation.

I'm quick to say "I love you."

You look awesome today.

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- It's more about knowing that they are thinking of you.

I think I give love the way I receive it.

And I actually had this ever-standing problem

with my ex about this, it's like he didn't grasp it.

- That's not good.

- Um.

- I was always like, doing nice things for him

when I didn't feel like that was getting reciprocated

so I think that became like a problem.

- Those are more substantial ways to realize

that someone cares beyond, you know,

something as superficial as a gift

or something as fleeting as touch.

- Yeah.

- From my previous relationship, I would say

it went bad because he didn't give me time.

I think maybe that was my love language,

I wasn't getting fed.

- That's crazy.

- Om.

- It's not on a can you impress me,

can I impress you kind of thing,

but it's more of how are we the same as human beings?

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