Have bigger boobs.

Some random people sometimes missunderstand that I am pregnant

*gasps*

They asked me if Japanese guys would love to lick.... ours.....

They tweeted on their Twitter like "oh my god I can die for this anime" or something

Hey guys and girls it's CathyCat and today I'm joined by my friend

Hiroko from HirokoTV

YES and today we are gonna play another game of the Japanese girl Mythbusters

I picked up some Japanese girl myths on the internet and

I would like you to tell me whether they are true or wrong in your opinion so

let's start - Yay let's start.

Japanese girls are all very shy

- Ah - What do you think?

It's kind of true I think - Ok

So that one is actually true?!

I t's true I mean like it's also changing and it depends on the person

of course so not everyone is too shy but I also feel like when I speak in

Japanese I feel more shy.

Ah so you personality changes when you speak in Japanese. Is it's just because the language is also changing between girls and boys?

And also like the way we talk grammatically because we don't tell

people from the result when we speaking Japanese right? In English let's say

"hey I can't come to the party sorry because my my wife is pregnant" in English.

But let's say it in Japanese "hey I would really really love

to join your party it sounds amazing but I'm afraid I might not able to come

because my wife is pregnant" this is Japanese

In a roundabout way.

"But please invite me again" that's another thing I got told to always add then. - It's so tricky you know!

"Did he mean that or not?" It's so tricky.

Coming back to Japanese girls so how do you think they are more shy compared to

for example some of your friends from other countries?

I found out about that when we were you know drinking together, when I was

doing girls night. And I was talking to Swedish girls... and me as a Japanese girl

and some other girls from other countries and we were talking about love life....

They asked me about "hey how about love life with Japanese boys"

but I couldn't really tell them..... to me they were really really aggressive

Ah that's very forward that kind of talk right?

Or do you mean they were aggressive in their stories?

Oh no no talking about that is not aggressive to me it's just fun but

when it comes to like ....how much detail should I just tell you?

Aah.....?

Because you know like they asked me if Japanese guys would love to lick ours ...

* I did not expect this answer *

I am not sure if we can put that in but keep talking.

We wouldn't say "hey please do this do that" to our partners.

Japanese girls can't really say that. We we could if we wanted...

but we feel shy so I wouldn't say that.... I would say that in my brain like

"Go down go down!" or like you know "please do this next!!" or "Oh please don't stop"

I can't just say that to my partner. I'm always just wishing that he wouldn't

stop or yeah ....

I think that that's a difficult one though... it's one thing

between male pride of their pride getting hurt when you're

telling them "Can you please do this" because then they feel like they might

have done something wrong ... and the other part is ... well there is male pride there

You don't want to hurt that person's pride but at the same time...

If they don't know what they're doing....

Then you know...

not a bad thing to tell them "hey I prefer it a little bit more like that"

I mean like it's always nice to tell what we like truly... It's not about them doing a bad or something.

They are doing great BUT...

They also ask girls like "hey how do you want it to be done?"

"What kind of stuff do you like?!"

But we can't really answer in general ... I will just be like oh

Aha.

I will just be like "Oh that's really great ...!" that's it

I'm sorry this is totally going really into detail now I think this might become it's own video in a way...

But HOW? It seems like both genders walk past each other

the boys don't know what the girls will like and the girls will not

be able to tell the boys what they like.

Right? - True

But it will be really too much details but...

there are a few ways (to tell them) I think... yeah

But let's not get into that.

So Japanese girls are shy...

in all areas then it seems like even when you're intimate with someone

Japanese girls are still very very shy?

I'm also shy so I was really surprised

that my girlfriend's from abroad they would say to their partners to do this

and that in the bedroom.

I was like "Wow seriously how do you do that!?"

In a way isn't it better if the partner says "Great now I know what to do!!"

Isn't that better? The whole... sexlife goes a lot better then right!?

I know but...

I don't know ... why I can't just do that. But after talking to the girlfriends from abroad

I couldn't really tell all of my ex-boyfriends but... a few of my ex-boyfriend I could tell them honestly

"hey to be honest I like this style I like this and that" so yeah thanks to the advices yeah ...

Oh so you learned from the foreign girls to voice a couple of your opinions now?

Yeah but I am not really a master of it.

Try it little by little year... it improves like everything ...

So Japanese girls are so shy to almost a flaw that they can't express the things

they really want in different areas of life then? - I think so.

How is that... everyone keeps mentioning

when we interview people with "Shoutaimen"

People you meet for the the first time. They're super shy with people

they meet for the first time as well then?

I mean ... we call that kind of people "Hitomishiri"

That's a different type of shyness right? - yeah

That kind of people also exist because I'm not at all (hitomishiri)

I don't feel shy I can hug like "hey nice meeting you! Let's hug!"

Before this Covid19 situation I could do that ....

BEFORE that we could...

Because I am like this my friends are really open in general

so we don't really feel shy but there are of course

those kind of (hitomishiri) people exist in Japan so it's true

You know know what I find really interesting right now is that you're generally one

one of the more outgoing Japanese girls that I know - True.

When it goes to the more private parts you were actually super shy I didn't expect that.

Before I learned how to speak in English how to communicate in English I couldn't really

express how I truly felt to people... like if someone say something bad to me I was

like "ah yeah... it's ok..." kind of girl before.

But now if someone pisses me off I would say like "hey why did you do that

to me I don't like it" because blah blah blah "if you could do this way then I

would appreciate it" ... "let's talk about it" I can say that now

but deep down true Hiroko is like "should I say that I feel sky"

You're overcoming that shy voice now - Yeah

Oh what would you say like....

helped you to be a bit less shy was that like advice from international girls?

Actually yes! I mean it's only for you know bedtime stuff though...

Aaah!

With other yeah other stuff I'm not really shy you know so I can just ask boys how

they feel about me or when I need to ask them I can just confirm them...

Good, right. Thank you so much. - I know I am sorry!

I hope I didn't cut one of your parts. I think this in itself is already...

pretty rounded for a video.

The next myth is... Japanese girls all know famous characters from anime manga or

games true or false?

False. Aha

not everyone is into anime or manga.

It seems to be that some people especially online seem to be thinking that...

Japan is the country of anime, manga and games because this is where they are made but

people think that everyone is like watching and everyone is seeing it kind of thing

But it's not true many of my girlfriends they don't really watch anime at all

Some of their girls party girls would see you know people who would love

anime or watch anime or love mangas... they see them as nerds.

Because I love watching anime and I love reading manga ... they sometimes called me

a nerd "otaku"

Otaku as a nerd. So the otaku image has gone a little bit better over the last years

though hasn't it? - oh yeah they are, I agree with that.

I find it interesting like the girls who were actually into anime and manga

that you see who are very open about it tend to also be the ones who have like their own little

groups off Otome stuff so actually anime and manga that they like that are aimed

towards girls stuff... like sexy boys and stuff so they don't necessarily watch

the same stuff that a guy would be watching. It's kind of what I felt...

do you think that's like that?

Well I am into animes for guys in general though...

I love Daemon Slayers, Slam Dunk, One piece, that kind of. - The classics.

Yeah so lots of Shonen in there!

Yes I'm more into like nerdy anime series these days and I think so many of the good-looking guys for example

um like

after popular actor guy they they tweet it on their Twitter like "oh my god I

can die for this anime" or something ... sometimes so many take to Social Media

so people can know that " oh my God my favorite prince loves anime?!"

" Maybe anime is not uncool stuff anymore" or something I think

It's kind of the image has gotten better since then!

Because of people's personal tweets and live-streaming about what they like

or something I think

Yeah I mean like I've been watching anime manga a lot and

I think... that kind of anime manga world ... it's done so much good as wel

it helps people study, it helps helps you get motivated or get

interested in like a sport or an art watching anime so ...

I was surprised when I was here how little of Japanese girls ...

...the average Japanese girl in our interviews actually watches it or at least tells that she's watching

it you know I mean. I think they're couple of people like "no no I don't play

games" like especially when you're in a group with lots of girls and you kind

of think like "at least that one girl over there she might be big geeky I can see

a bit of geek in there" but she'll be there like "no no no no"

I wonder whether it is peer pressure's also there because it's still kind of still seen as

a little bit geeky for some girls and they don't dare to actually say

"yes I love this"

I don't know I mean maybe but many of my girlfriend's tell me

that they are not into manga but I'm sending them my favorite anime series links

like spam! "You need to watch this! That!!!" - Yes send me!!!

Send me recommendations too! Especially right now when we're all stuck inside it's good to find out what everyone

watching I'm gonna send you my list too. I'll send you my list.

To wrap this video up Japanese girls are shy true or false true?

TRUE!

True in your opinion - good one well everyone learnt something

thank you so much for sharing your stories with us and and don't forget to

also head over to Hiroko TV to her own channel she's doing a challenge right

now and even though you're shy you're trying really really hard but see you're

trying really hard to make this happen so good luck fingers crossed. Give her some

extra support and guys thank you all for tuning in and watching this channel. Hope

you enjoyed this. There is gonna be more so don't forget to subscribe to this

channel too and I catch you soon for more stuff on Ask Japanese

Byeee and thank youuuu!

They are seeing Asian girls as easy girls I think ...

yeah I don't know where that image is coming from

especially with Japanese girls I'm like WHAT? - true