You see, what the car looks like matters to a degree: the condition that it's in how fashionable it is how expensive it is.

汽車的外觀在程度上是很重要的，像是它的時尚程度和昂貴程度。

All of these are factors.

這些都是要素。

Just like how the way you dress, your personal hygiene and your physique are important factors that women like in men.

就像你穿著的方式、個人衛生和體格一樣，都是女人喜歡男人的重要因素。

However the most important thing to a woman is not the car itself.

然而對女人來說最重要的不是車子本身，

Because if you have a nice car and just sits in the garage all day it's nowhere nearly as exciting as an average car that travels to many different places.

因為假如你有一輛好車，但只是整天放在車庫裡，那比能開去各個地方的普通車子還要不刺激。

The excitement, which is the most appealing factor, lies in the journey that you take her on in your car.

最吸引人的刺激因素在於，你開車載著她的旅程。

That's why you see tons of men out there who are good-looking, who have decent amount of money, they have a nice car, but they find that very few women stay interested in them.

這就是為什麼你看到有很多男人長得帥、很多錢、有一輛好車，但是卻發現很少有女人對他們感興趣。

And they wonder: Why? I have everything a woman could want why do they keep leaving me?

然後他們就想知道到底為什麼？ 我擁有女人想要的一切，為什麼她們還是會不停離開我？

Well, it's because although they do have a nice car they're not doing anything with it.

這是因為雖然他們有好車，但是他們卻沒有任何作為。

What women really want is to experience a ride.

女人真正想要的是體驗一趟旅程。

This means having a destination.

這表示有目的地。

This means having a goal that you are constantly pursuing, constantly driving towards.

這表示有一個你持續追求、持續開往的目標。

Because no woman wants to sit in a nice car and ask: "Hey, what's your goal, where we going?" and hear: "Well, I don't really have a goal so we can just park here and admire this car."

因為沒有女人會想要坐在好車裡面問說：「嘿，你的目標是什麼，我們要去哪？」然後聽到：「我其實沒有一個目標，所以我們可以停在這然後欣賞這輛車。」這種回答。

And often times guys will make the mistake of making woman their destination in life.

通常，男人會做出把女生當作人生中的目的地的錯誤。

They try so hard to get girls to like them. They dedicate more time and effort to doing this, then they do towards improving their own lives.

他們非常努力地讓女孩喜歡他們，他們花了更多的時間和精力來做到這一點，然後才致力於改善自己的生活。

So when they finally do convince a girl to sit in their car, they find that she'll leave rather quickly.

所以當他們最終說服一個女孩上車時，他們會發現她很快就離開了。

The relationship doesn't go well.

這段感情走的並不順。

She breaks up with you or she mentions divorce.

她跟你分手或是她提到離婚。

Because once she realizes that your car isn't going anywhere, that your destination in life turned out to be her,

因為一旦她意識到你的車不會行駛到任何地方，你生活中的目的地就是她，

she will lose all interest.

她就會完全失去興趣。

This is why it's so important to have some sort of destination some sort of dream it doesn't matter what it is.

這就是為什麼擁有某種目的地和夢想是如此重要的原因，無論它是什麼。

It could be about saving the world's population of turtles or it could be about inspiring others with your banjo music.

它可以是有關拯救世界上的海龜，或者用你的班卓琴音樂一起啟發他人。

It really doesn't matter what it is. As long as you believe in it and as long as you're constantly chasing after it.

到底是什麼真的不重要，只要你相信它，並且一直不斷地追求它。

That's what's important.

那才是重要的地方。

That's why you'll see people like starving rock band members or broke hippies having tons of beautiful women in their lives.

這就是為什麼像快餓死的搖滾樂隊成員，或是像貧窮的嬉皮士那樣的人在生活中有成千上萬的美女。

Because they have an extremely vivid dream that they are constantly pursuing.

因為他們有一個不斷追求，極其鮮明的夢想。

The musician may never become a famous rock star and the hippie may never change the government's policies but they don't stop believing.

音樂家可能永遠不會成為著名的搖滾明星，嬉皮士可能永遠不會改變政府的政策，但他們不會停止相信。

No matter what, they're still driving toward their destination at top speeds.

不論如何，他們仍會高速開往他們的目的地。

And it's this passionate pursuit of one's dreams that's irresistible to women.

而正是這種對夢想的熱情追求讓女人無法抗拒。

It's exciting it's like watching a movie unravel in real life.

就像在現實生活中看電影一樣刺激。

And honestly this is something that's universally attractive, not just for women.

老實說，這是一個普遍很有吸引力的東西，不僅是對於女人。

So focus on yourself, discover what your destination is and start pursuing it with a passion.

所以，專注在自己身上，發掘你的目的地並開始懷有熱忱地追求它。

Only then will you obtain the one thing that women want most.

只有這樣你才能獲得女人最想要的那個特質。