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Hi! I'm Kimberly Seltzer, a dating and
makeover expert. In today's topic, I'm going to get
a little provocative.
I want to find out whether a man or a woman is
more visual when it comes to attraction.
So, what do you think? I can hear you guys talking already!
But I promise you - and look, I get to work with
both men and women, whether its coaching, matchmaking,
going shopping with them, and I'm constantly surveying them: "What do you find sexy?"
Now, the thing is that this is with that first
thirty seconds. Remember, I talked in the other video about first impressions.
I'm not talking about getting to know someone, but in that first moment,
who is more visual, men or women? Ready? The answer: both.
Yeah, I swear to God that is true, but I'm going to tell you, there are
differences. Okay, so men - when they look at a woman, whether its in
a picture, if its online, if you're meeting her for the first time,
they look at her, and they think whether or not they want to have sex with her.
It may sound shallow, but its true.
You look in the animal kingdom, and its no different. So we just have to accept it,
Ladies, that's why we always want to look and feel our best if we're trying to attract that man.
Okay, so women, we're no better. We're visual too. But we look at things
a little bit differently.
If we look at a man, we'll be a little more forgiving,
if he has a little belly, or he's balding, but if he's dressed well,
and he looks successful, we'll give him a chance.
So, in summary, men look at sex,
and women look at success. That's it, that's the difference. Now again, this is within that
first 30 seconds. I want to stress that, because obviously once you get to know
each other, there's
much more when it comes to attraction and chemistry.
Anyway, I just wanted to tell you my philosophy on that
'cause it is all about looking and feeling your best. And again, at the end of the day
its feeling good about yourself. So, if you want to know more,
make sure you read below, my blog, and go to EliteImakeMakeovers.com
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