So I thought I'd bereallyinterestingtokindoftacklethosethings.
SoifyouguysareplanningtomovetoJapan, youkindofunderstandwhere a Japanesepersoniscomingfromwhentheyact a certainway, sowe'rejustgonnajumprightintothevideo.
Butdayculture, I guessyoucouldsay, isjustthatmindsetofalways, always, alwaysdoingyourbest.
Japanhas a respectforpushingsomeonetodotheirbest.
That's gonnabeseeninthewaypeopleworkorifthey'recarryingsomethingordoingsomekindofphysicallabororwhateverelsethatinvolves a lotofthinkingorstrength, sometimesthegun.
Butthatculturecango a littlebittoofarwhereyouknow a bosswilltellsomebodytodowork, andtheymightworkovertimeorworktoomuchandthey'llsaygun.
Buttheydoyourbestandyoualwaysfeellikeyouarepressuredtodoyourbestinsteadofkindofsteppingbackandtaking a break.
TheJapaneseculturethathas a hugeworkculture, sopeoplearealwaysworking, working, working, sothere's a positivesideandthere's a negativesidetothatwayofthinkinganotherwayofthinkingissomethingcalledSheldon I.
Sopeoplewillsay, Ah, Sheldon I, whichmeansitcan't behelped.
It's a philosophythatsomethingsarejustoutofyourcontrol.
Thisis a mindsetthat's in a lotofothercultures, soit's likeyoushouldn't worryaboutit.
There's nothingyoucandoaboutitsortofthing.
Soyou'llhear.
A lotofpeoplesayAshokand I, whichmeansitjustcan't behelped.
Don't worryaboutit, butitalsocanexplain a disinterestinsomethingsolikepolitics.
Itcanalsobe a negativethingaswell, sothere's always a negativeand a positivethingwhenitcomestocertainwaysofthinkinginJapan.
Or a housewifehousewifehasthedutyoftakingcareofthekidsandcookingforthemanandallthatstuff, eveninourtime, likebackintheday.
Thatwaswhat a woman's roleis, Evenifshe's unhappyordoesn't feelgoodaboutit.
That's justthewayoflife.
SothatkindofgoeshandinhandwithSheldon I mindsetandthegun, but a mindset I thinkJapan.
It's moreof a thing.
A lotofpeoplearejustveryunhappywiththeirworkortheirjob, andthentheydon't speakuporsayanythingtotheirbosstomaketheirenvironmentortheirworkplacebetterthere, tooafraidtoquit.
So a lotofpeoplesuppresstheirfeelings, presstheiremotions.
IfyounoticewhenyoucometoJapan, a lotofpeopleareveryroboticatstoresor, youknow, whereveryougoandthere's a service, thereis a veryroboticwayoftalkingandcommunicatingwiththecustomer.
There's setthingsthattheyhavetosay, andevenifthey'rehaving a reallybadday, they'realwaystheynevershowit.
Andyou'llneverrealizeInJapan I feellikethey'rereallygoodathidingtheiremotionshere.
Okay, thisissomethingthat's goingtocomeup a lotinJapan.
It's calledmultinight, somultimultinimeanswhat a waste.
It's a feelingofregretaboutwastingsomethinginJapan.
Soifyousee a lotofpeopledressedincutecolorsordressedverychildlikesometimesoryousee a lotofcartoonsatthetrainstationoronadvertisementsorsomething, it's justthatCoemindsetandcultureinJapan.
Thisisanotherwayofthinkingthatgoeshandinhandwithsomeothermindsetsandwaysofthinkingthat I mentionedbefore.
Theywillnotdirectlytellyouifyou'redoingsomethingwrongorcriticizeyouin a verystraightforwardway.
They'renotverystraightforwardinJapan, sotheykindoftriedtoexplaintoyouthatyou'redoingsomethingwrongin a differentway.
Thatdoesn't makeanysense.
So I thinkthat's a bigproblemforpeoplethatlivehere, especiallyforeigners.
Theydon't understandthat.
Thatisjust a hugewayofthinkingand a wayofexplainingthings.
HereinJapan, I usedtoworkat a boardofeducationoffice, andthat's justhowtheydealtwiththings.
Andah, lotofthetimesitwaswouldcause a lotofconfusion.
Peoplewouldn't reallyspeakupiftheyhavequestions.
I justfeellikeit's It's a verybigissueandcauses a lotofmisunderstandingsinJapan, butthat's justhowtheyworkandhowtheydothings.
MuldanoAwadaistheideathatthingsaremoreattractiveorbeautifulwhentheydon't last, sothingslikecherryblossomstheyonlybloomonce a yearin a certaintimeofyears, sothey'reveryattractiveandverybeautiful.
Andit's justthatideathatthethingsthatdon't lastfor a longtimeoryoudon't thatareveryraretoseeisverybeautiful.
A lotofpeopledon't talktootherpeopleorstrangers, whereas, likeinAmerica, you'llsee a lotofotherpeoplechattingwhilethey'rewaitingis a couplewaysthatJapanesepeopletendtoexpresstheirownpersonalbubble, onewithmasks.
SowearingMaso.
A lotofpeoplewearmasks, notevenwhenthey'resick, butwhentheywanttohidetheirface.
Somegirlswearitwhentheydon't wearmakeup, somasksare a hugeindicationthatpersonneedssomepersonalspace.
Mangacafes.
There's a lotof, um, comicbookcafesthatpeopleyouknowtakenapsinorneedsometimealoneandgothereandspendlike 1000 yearsor $10 justtohavesomealonetimeorspace.
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TheJapanesereallydefinitelyhave a differentmindsetandwayofthinkinganddoingthings, andyoujusthavetobeveryacceptingandcarryinganunderstandingifyouwanttoliveherebecauseit's gonnabe a wholedifferentballgame.
Whenyoumovetothiscountry, it's goingtobeverydifferentfromyourownculture, and I feellikewhen I movedhere, that's exactlyhow I felt.