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I actually don't know anything about my date tonight, and it's kind of freaking me out.
其實我對我今晚的約會一無所知,這讓我很抓狂。
Supposed to go get food.
應該去拿食物。
But plans change.
但計劃有變。
She was wearing a dress, a lot of bling as I got to my whole being kissed.
她穿著一件衣服,很多金光閃閃的東西,因為我到了我的整個被吻。
My name is Daniel and I'm 27.
我叫丹尼爾,27歲。
My name is Sarah and I am 28 years.
我叫莎拉,今年28歲。
I wrote a start up based in San Francisco and in New York.
我寫了一個在舊金山和紐約的創業。
I am an assistant for an investment bank.
我是一家投資銀行的助理。
My family is originally from Iran, but I was born in Paris and moved to New York when I was one, but grew up here in New York.
我的家人原本來自伊朗,但我出生在巴黎,一歲的時候搬到了紐約,但在紐約這裡長大。
I moved to near City 2.5 years ago because I wanted to follow my dreams.
2年半前我搬到了近城,因為我想追尋自己的夢想。
I actually don't go go on day.
其實我不去日。
It's very often once every 4 to 6 weeks.
很經常是4到6週一次。
I've been single since 2015 1.5 year.
我從2015年1.5年開始單身。
Now I have not made it a priority to not be single.
現在我還沒有把不單身作為首要任務。
Maybe my expectations are too high.
也許我的期望值太高了。
Also haven't found the right person.
也沒有找到合適的人。
I actually don't know anything about my date tonight and it's kind of freaking me out, really.
其實我對我今晚的約會一無所知,這讓我有點抓狂,真的。
I have no information.
我沒有任何資訊。
I just showed up here.
我只是出現在這裡。
That's my mom saying, Can you then Daniel, Middle Eastern looking or Italian looking?
這是我媽說的,那你能不能丹尼爾,中東人長得好看還是意大利人長得好看?
We can say someone was confident with someone who would give me feedback Tall because I'm kind of tall and I like my heels.
我們可以說,有人對一個會給我反饋的人很有信心 高個子,因為我有點高,我喜歡我的高跟鞋。
I mean, she's pretty.
我的意思是,她很漂亮。
Let me that.
讓我說。
It's also pretty ambitious and successful.
這也是相當有野心和成功的。
I would say my age ranges between 19 28/35 younger than my parents.
我想說的是,我的年齡在19歲28/35歲之間,比我的父母年輕。
I don't think I would be willing to compromise on type and age.
我想我不會願意在類型和年齡上妥協。
I would consider voting somebody younger.
我會考慮投給更年輕的人。
We could never say never, though, that the president of France wife's like 20 years old.
我們不能說永遠,雖然, 法國總統夫人的像20歲。
I'm wearing chinos and a shirt with flowers on that I bought two hours ago for the state.
我穿的是兩小時前為州政府買的斜紋布鞋和一件帶花的襯衫。
I chose this because, you know, it's when you dress.
我選擇這個是因為,你知道,這是你穿衣服的時候。
He makes me feel good.
他讓我感覺很好。
I was at the gym, so I'm still wearing my running shoes.
我是在健身房,所以我還穿著跑鞋。
I didn't find the date tonight, so hopefully he did were supposed to go get food, but the plan could change.
我沒有找到今晚的約會,所以希望他確實是應該去買吃的,但計劃可能會改變。
I'm also doing intermittent fasting and like so I don't have a heart.
我也在做間歇性斷食,喜歡這樣的我沒有心動。
Amal Clooney.
Amal Clooney
I look like I'm all Clooney.
我看起來就像我的克魯尼。
Apparently she looks like me.
顯然,她看起來像我。
George Clooney, of course.
當然,喬治-克魯尼。
Somewhat.
有點。
Mom, says Jessica Biel, Justin Timberlake's wife, Josh to Hamel.
媽媽,賈斯汀-汀布萊克的妻子傑西卡-比爾對哈梅爾說。
I speak four languages.
我會說四種語言。
I speak English, Farsi, French and Spanish.
我會說英語、波斯語、法語和西班牙語。
And English is my third language.
而英語是我的第三語言。
I speak Italian, French, English and Spanish.
我會說意大利語、法語、英語和西班牙語。
I wish I spoke Italian.
我希望我會說意大利語。
And that's next at a few long term relationships.
而這是接下來在幾個長期關係。
A few flings.
幾次調情。
I have had two boyfriends in the past.
我過去有兩個男朋友。
My longest relationship.
我最長的關係。
Waas.
模糊。
3.5 years, Three years.
3.5年,3年。
Probably a nice girl, but maybe too much that I'm extremely corny that I spent too much time with my family.
可能是個不錯的女孩,但可能是我極度老土,和家人相處的時間太多。
But at the end of the day that I'm a good person with good intentions.
但在最後我是一個善良的人,用心良苦。
I think too much is not enough personally.
我個人認為太多了還不夠。
But I've said I love you twice.
但我已經說了兩次我愛你。
First person.
第一人稱。
I was young, so I don't really know.
我當時還小,所以我不太清楚。
But the second person, I'm pretty damn sure.
但第二個人,我非常確定。
Yes, I did love them.
是的,我確實喜歡他們。
No, I have never cheated.
不,我從未出軌過。
I don't think so.
我不這麼認為。
No, I have.
不,我有。
Yeah, Everybody gets the occasional ghost.
是啊,每個人都會偶爾遇到鬼。
Even George Clooney.
只是喬治-克魯尼。
I don't think so.
我不這麼認為。
No, the hair flip that I think people like let me pull out my go to move e really work.
不,我想大家喜歡的頭髮翻轉讓我掏出我的去動e真的很管用。
Is that a fair answer?
這是一個公平的答案嗎?
Probably their eyes.
可能是他們的眼睛。
I like a beard.
我喜歡鬍子。
Definitely eyes under percent.
絕對是眼下百分之。
My hair, my lips, my legs.
我的頭髮,我的嘴脣,我的腿。
Right.
好吧,我知道了
I would say my height six to I was not was the captain of basketball team Mallon's.
我想說我的身高六到我不是是籃球隊馬龍的隊長。
Which time?
哪個時間?
Time?
時間?
Morning.
早晨。
Why now?
為什麼是現在?
All.
所有。
I don't know who's who.
我不知道誰是誰。
But the billionaire props to her.
但億萬富翁道具她。
She made it.
她做到了。
What's lace?
花邊是什麼?
I have no idea.
我不知道。
What laces?
什麼花邊?
Weather waste?
天氣浪費?
No, please.
不,拜託
IPhone life.
IPhone生活。
No, I get no, no, no.
不,我得到了沒有,沒有,沒有。
Moist, moist chocolate Both.
溼潤,溼潤的巧克力都有。
And on the stuff inside.
而在裡面的東西。
Scrambled.
炒。
Wish me luck, guys.
祝我好運,夥計們。
Very first impression Waas beautiful.
第一印象華斯非常漂亮。
And she were nice.
而且她人很好。
Dress on.
穿上衣服。
Uh, she had a nice smile.
呃,她笑起來很好看。
My first impression.
我的第一印象。
Waas.
模糊。
He looks like a really nerdy cute guy.
他看起來是個很宅的可愛的傢伙。
Now, you should be my type, but he was really nice.
現在,你應該是我喜歡的類型,但他真的很好。
She was wearing a dress, high heels, a small bag hearings, three bracelets, four rings and six bedazzled nails, floral shirt and jeez, way got So the restaurant were a few minutes late for a reservation, but we got a nice table, sat next to each other.
她穿著一件衣服,高跟鞋,一個小包聽證會,三個手鐲,四個戒指和六個床頭裝飾的指甲,花襯衫和jeez,方式得到了So餐廳都遲到了幾分鐘的預訂,但我們得到了一個不錯的表,坐在旁邊的對方。
We started taking a look at the menu, but we finally decided that he was gonna do all the ordering, which I was all four she started looking over the menu.
我們開始看菜單,但我們最後決定,他要做所有的訂購,我是所有四個她開始看菜單。
I told her to hold off, and I'll take care of it, even though I have no idea what's on the menu.
我告訴她先別急,我會處理好的,雖然我不知道菜單上有什麼。
Our wing bit.
我們的翼位。
She says she doesn't drink alcohol.
她說她不喝酒。
So which I was fine in the middle of our date.
所以,我在我們的約會中,哪怕是很好的。
Um, some random girl started talking to us asking if it was our first date and I look over and I noticed this woman is looking dead at me, and she just yells first date.
嗯,一些隨機的女孩開始跟我們說話,問我們是不是第一次約會,我看了看,發現這個女人正死死地看著我,她就大喊第一次約會。
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
是啊,是啊,是啊。
First days, like I could tell, I could tell.
最初的日子,就像我能告訴,我能告訴。
And then she starts complimenting.
然後她開始讚美。
Sarah, you're hot.
莎拉,你真性感
You're so gorgeous.
你真漂亮
You're so engaged in the conversation.
你是如此的參與談話。
You brought a tonight girl, you brought it.
你帶來了一個今晚的女孩,你帶來了它。
And then she looks over to me and says, You you're good looking to, you know, But you got to step it up tonight.
然後她看向我說,你... ...你很好看,你知道,但你今晚得加把勁。
He told him to step it up that, um, a girl that looks like me probably has a lot of offer in the seedy so that he has to deliver, even though it's a first date.
他讓他加緊說,嗯,像我這樣的女孩,可能在苗頭上有很多優惠,所以他必須要提供,雖然是第一次約會。
I found that hilarious.
我覺得很搞笑。
I would say about three hours before two hours, 2.5 hours long, I was physically attracted to Daniel as the game went on.
我想說的是,大約三個小時前兩個小時,2.5小時長,隨著遊戲的進行,我被丹尼爾的身體所吸引。
As the date went on, I became more physically attractive.
隨著約會的進行,我的身體越來越有魅力。
Her I mean, I'm all Clooney.
她... ...我的意思是,我是克魯尼。
Come on, then.
來吧,那麼。
You'll be for today.
你會為今天。
You already know $230.
你已經知道了230元。
Uh, glamour is gonna pay for it.
呃,魅力是要去支付它。
Right?
對吧?
Way got water.
途徑有水。
And 11 it was $230.
而11日是230元。
Imagine.
想象一下
We got drinks right off the bed.
我們在床上就買了飲料。
He asked me about my imperfections and what I thought was least attractive about me.
他問我的不完美,我認為我最不吸引人的地方是什麼。
I was stunned.
我驚呆了。
But it's a pretty good question, I think.
但我覺得這是個很好的問題。
No, she didn't ask me an uncomfortable questions.
不,她沒有問我一個不舒服的問題。
I don't think she did.
我不認為她有。
Definitely.
絕對是
When they're girl seating next to us started giving him advice.
當他們的女孩坐在我們旁邊開始給他建議。
That woman, that woman she keeps coming back.
那個女人,那個女人她一直回來。
If she made it awkward for a split second for me at the a Daft and react in the moment.
如果她讓我在a大夫的一瞬間感到尷尬,並在當下做出反應。
It was funny, but it's definitely a little awkward.
這很有趣,但肯定有點尷尬。
Yes, Daniel actually said that he only owns 150 things as he is embracing a more minimalistic lifestyle.
是的,丹尼爾其實說過,他只擁有150件東西,因為他正在接受一種更簡約的生活方式。
And I told him I am maybe 3000.
我告訴他我可能是3000。
Yeah, she has a lot of stuff.
是啊,她有很多東西。
We definitely have different perspectives on stuff she really wanted to tear me sue, but they only had a giant tear me sue cake.
我們對東西的看法肯定是不一樣的,她真的很想撕我告,但他們只有一個巨大的撕我告蛋糕。
Luckily, there was a gelato shop was still open and saved the day at the end of our date.
幸運的是,有一家冰淇淋店還在營業,在我們約會結束時救了我們一命。
He called me a car.
他給我打了一輛車。
But he insisted to calm drop me off even though she doesn't leave anywhere near where I live.
但他堅持要冷靜地送我,儘管她不離開我住的地方附近。
But I thought it was really sweet.
但我覺得這真的很甜蜜。
When we pulled up outside her place, I realized I don't have her number.
當我們把車停在她家門口的時候,我發現我沒有她的號碼。
All right is she realized that so we exchanged phone numbers.
好吧是她意識到,所以我們交換了電話號碼。
As I got to my building.
當我到了我的大樓。
We kissed and we exchanged numbers because we did not have each other's numbers and they just left.
我們接吻了,我們交換了號碼,因為我們沒有對方的號碼,他們就這樣離開了。
Yes, there was a kiss.
是的,有一個吻。
So our first kiss waas right in front of the gelato shop.
所以我們的初吻就在冰淇淋店門口。
It was a great kiss.
這是一個偉大的吻。
I even told him how impressed I waas.
我甚至告訴他我的印象有多深刻。
He's a pretty good kisser.
他是個很好的接吻者。
Do you want to know?
你想知道嗎?
I usually kiss and tell.
我通常都是親吻著說。
You already know Daniel initiated.
你已經知道是丹尼爾發起的
The kiss is again.
吻又來了。
I don't kiss and tell.
我不親吻和告訴。
I think my favorite part of the day was just walking in the city without a plan.
我想我最喜歡的部分就是在城市裡沒有計劃的行走。
Sometimes it's good to get lost, you know, not not have toe set.
有時候,迷路是件好事,你知道,不是沒有腳趾頭。
Go by a schedule.
按照時間表走。
The fact that he had to you held my hand when we were walking around.
事實上,他不得不你牽著我的手,當我們走來走去。
I was holding her hand so she doesn't fall into the, uh, the street grids.
我握著她的手,以免她掉進,呃,街道的格子裡。
You put your heel in it, you get stuck.
你把腳後跟放進去,就會被卡住。
So we were It was fun.
所以,我們是 這很有趣。
Toe kind.
來吧,孩子。
Navigate the New York City streets.
導航紐約市的街道。
I can't even remember one.
我連一個都不記得了。
The last time is that a guy held my hand in public 323 weeks ago.
上一次是323周前,一個男人在公共場合牽我的手。
No, last month.
不,上個月。
Last month, in the June or early July, he's broken French.
上個月,在6月或7月初,他已經破了法語。
We have a bit of a conversation in French and he had the most adorable and sexiest accident.
我們用法語聊了一會兒,他就發生了最可愛最性感的意外。
I would say her accent couldn't really pinpoint where was from 100%.
我想說的是,她的口音真的不能百分百確定來自哪裡。
She laughed more.
她笑得更歡了。
She left after practically everything I said.
我說了這麼多,她就走了
I think when I pressed the button for the elevator when we go downstairs, she left.
我想我們下樓時,我按下電梯的按鈕,她就走了。
But I love to don't get me wrong But she just laughed more 70 30 outside.
但我愛別誤會我的意思,但她只是在外面笑了七十歲半。
But then after the woman told me to step it up, I laughed a little bit more.
但後來那個女人叫我加把勁後,我又笑了一下。
I'm not gonna lie.
我不會說謊
I definitely left more because Daniel is really funny.
我肯定會留下更多,因為丹尼爾真的很有趣。
I would say when she said my name, when she said my name, she said my name.
她說我的名字的時候,我會說,她說我的名字的時候,她說我的名字。
Maybe like 3/4 of the data in the way.
也許像3/4的數據在路上。
She said my name was definitely attractive.
她說我的名字絕對有吸引力。
Kind of strange answer, but I don't like the way she said it.
有點奇怪的答案,但我不喜歡她說的方式。
I was attracted to the fact that he was a real gentleman.
吸引我的是,他是一個真正的紳士。
I was least attracted to his shoes.
我最不喜歡他的鞋子。
I don't really like talking about negative stuff, so I'm not going to say, But overall, good date.
我不喜歡談論負面的東西,所以我不會說,但總的來說,很好的日期。
I knew it, Of course.
我就知道,當然
My shoes.
我的鞋
These shoes got me a kiss.
這雙鞋讓我親了一下。
So you look at that.
所以你看那。
I hope that doesn't make the cut.
我希望這不會被淘汰。
She flipped their hair a lot, so she kind of it.
她經常翻動他們的頭髮,所以她有點它。
Got a little, though.
得到了一點,但。
This a little hair flip.
這一個小小的翻發。
Hello.
你好啊
I'm Daniel.
我是丹尼爾
Sorry, then you I think my family would love Daniel wholeheartedly.
對不起,那你我想我的家人會全心全意地愛著丹尼爾。
I don't think so.
我不這麼認為。
Uh, with me in the equation without me in the equation.
呃,有我在方程中,沒有我在方程中。
Yeah.
是啊。
She's a good person.
她是個好人。
Not to say that they wouldn't like her, but like they might feel the same way I do.
不是說他們不會喜歡她,而是說他們可能會和我有同樣的感覺。
So my parents support how I feel.
所以父母支持我的感受。
So if I told them the same things that were red flags for me.
所以,如果我告訴他們同樣的事情,對我來說是危險信號。
They think they're Redflex too.
他們也認為自己是Redflex。
So I don't think I'm the best long term fit for her.
所以我不認為我是最適合她的長期人選。
So I do respect for her.
所以我是很尊重她的。
I think it would make sense of we just stayed friends.
我想,我們只是做朋友的意義。
I texted Daniel good night last night and thinking him for everything.
我昨晚給丹尼爾發了晚安簡訊,想他的一切。
And he texted back saying that it was a pleasure and good night.
而他回簡訊說,很高興,晚安。
He called me Queen.
他叫我女王。
There's the short little hope You made it home safe.
有一個短暫的小希望 你能安全回家。
And I responded, Sleep well.
而我的回答是,好好睡吧。
I was gonna say sweet dreams, but she doesn't dream.
我本來想說做個好夢,但她不做夢。
So I just said, sleep well.
所以我就說,好好睡吧。
I'm very glad I went on this date.
我很高興我去參加了這次約會。
Yeah, definitely.
是的,絕對的。
I mean, I learned I learned more about myself.
我的意思是,我學會了我更瞭解自己。
I had a good time.
我有一個很好的時間。
I made someone else feel good.
我讓別人感覺很好。
And I hope she had a good time to being Ryan.
我希望她有一個很好的時間被萊恩。
How Conversation?
如何對話?
Five.
五是
4.5 was good.
4.5是好的。
How much do you for?
你要多少錢?
4.53 Free five.
4.53免費五。
Three.
三號
Short term 54 You enjoyed a 4.5 five.
短線54你享受了4.5個5。
How would you go?
你會怎麼走?
55?
55?
I got a second, I think part of me that wants to go on a second.
我有一秒鐘的時間,我想我的一部分,想去一秒鐘。
Natives, You know, just we had a great a great time meeting people that you could have a good time with who you're compatible with is not common, but because of some things that aren't gonna work long term, I wouldn't wanna start something that's ultimately gonna lead us toe being disappointed.
本地人,你知道,只是我們有一個偉大的偉大的時間 遇到的人,你可以有一個很好的時間 與誰你是兼容的是不常見的,但由於一些事情 是不是要去工作的長期, 我不想開始的東西 這最終會導致我們的腳趾是失望。
Although we did have many things in common, they were just certain.
雖然我們確實有很多共同點,但他們只是確定。
Certain things that I don't think will be ableto modify about one another.
某些事情,我想是無法修改彼此的。
I wouldn't want somebody to change exactly for me on day one.
我不希望有人在第一天就為我改變。
In terms of their core values and also for me, I'm not going to change as well on certain things.
就他們的核心價值觀而言,也對我而言,我不會在某些事情上改變以及。
So that's why wouldn't work long term.
所以這就是為什麼不會長期工作的原因。
But in a different life, Maybe it would.
但在不同的生活中,也許會這樣。
I could be friends with them.
我可以和他們做朋友。
So I'm not gonna be like friends like Hey, like, you know, she says, Hey, you wanna hang out?
所以,我不會像朋友一樣 嘿,喜歡,你知道,她說,嘿,你想掛出?
I'll hang out that.
我會掛出來的。
No.
不知道
When you see this, I want you to know because your since you found this funny is yet to tell Sarah.
當你看到這一點,我想讓你知道,因為你既然發現這個有趣的是尚未告訴莎拉。
When you when you see this, I want you to know that you're amazing.
當你... ...當你看到這個,我想讓你知道,你是驚人的。
Your You know exactly what you want, what you're up to and have your head on your shoulders.
你的你很清楚自己想要什麼,要做什麼,有自己的想法。
You're confident you're beautiful and had a great time and hope you did, too.
你自信你很美,玩得很開心,希望你也是。
I enjoyed our conversation and the time that we spent together.
我很享受我們的談話和我們在一起的時間。
And if you ever wanna hang out again, you just let me know.
如果你還想再出去玩,就告訴我。
My advice to other women that we'll go on dates with Daniel is don't be scared because he's gonna ask you with the uncomfortable question.
我給其他女人的建議是,我們會去約會與丹尼爾 是不要害怕,因為他的會問你 與不舒服的問題。
Just be honest and experience and you'll have a great time.
只要老老實實地去體驗,你會很開心的。
Be curious.
好奇點吧
Be curious about what?
對什麼感到好奇?
What she enjoys and just be yourself.
她喜歡什麼,就做自己。
You got this.
你能做到這一點。
Thanks, guys.
謝謝,夥計們。