So, youalwayswanttohavesomekindofexcuseastowhyyouhavetoleave.
So, innumberone, weextricate, whichmeansfind a wayoutoftheconversation, bysayingthatwefeelbad, wefeelguilty, thatwehaven't spentenoughtimewithotherpeople.
There's nowaythattheycanfeelbadaboutthat.
Ofcourse, theywantyoutobepolitetoeverybody, sothisis a greatwaytogetoutoftheconversation.
Soyoucansay, 'Wow, that's sointeresting, I reallyenjoyedhearingaboutit.
'Couldyoutellmetherestlater?'
'I justfeelreallybadthat I haven't spentanytimewiththiscolleagueyetor I haven't talkedtomyauntyet - thiskindofthing.'
Andthenyoucansay, 'Well, we'llcatchupagainlater.'
Evenifyoudon't intendtodothat, it's a nicewaytoroundofftheconversation.
Numbertwo: It's a clichedexcuseguys, butitstillworks.
Youcansaythatyou, you'veseen a callthatyouneedtorespondtoor a messageoranemailitstillworks.
Evenifpeoplemightbe a littlesuspicious, it's still a goodexcuse
Soyoucansay, 'Ohit's beenreallygreattalking, but I'vejustseenanemailandmustrespondtoit, it's a reallyimportantone, or I'vejusthad a textmessage I needtoreplyto.'