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  • What I want to do this afternoon

  • is something a little different than what's scheduled.

  • Foreign policy, you can figure that out

  • by watching, I don't know, Rachel Maddow or somebody,

  • but — (Laughter) —

  • I want to talk about young people and structure,

  • young people and structure.

  • This was last Wednesday afternoon

  • at a school in Brooklyn, New York,

  • at Cristo Rey High School, run by the Jesuits.

  • And I was talking to this group of students, and take a look at them.

  • They were around me in three directions.

  • You'll noticed that almost all of them are minority.

  • You'll notice that the building is rather austere.

  • It's an old New York school building, nothing fancy.

  • They still have old blackboards and whatnot.

  • And there are about 300 kids in this school,

  • and the school's been going now for four years,

  • and they're about to graduate their first class.

  • Twenty-two people are graduating,

  • and all 22 are going to college.

  • They all come from homes where there is, for the most part,

  • just one person in the home,

  • usually the mother or the grandmother, and that's it,

  • and they come here for their education

  • and for their structure.

  • Now I had this picture taken, and it was put up

  • on my Facebook page last week,

  • and somebody wrote in,

  • "Huh, why does he have him standing at attention like that?"

  • And then they said, "But he looks good." (Laughter)

  • He does look good, because kids need structure,

  • and the trick I play in all of my school appearances

  • is that when I get through with my little homily to the kids,

  • I then invite them to ask questions,

  • and when they raise their hands, I say, "Come up,"

  • and I make them come up and stand in front of me.

  • I make them stand at attention like a soldier.

  • Put your arms straight down at your side,

  • look up, open your eyes, stare straight ahead,

  • and speak out your question loudly so everybody can hear.

  • No slouching, no pants hanging down, none of that stuff.

  • (Laughter)

  • And this young man, his name is -- his last name Cruz --

  • he loved it. That's all over his Facebook page and it's gone viral.

  • (Laughter)

  • So people think I'm being unkind to this kid.

  • No, we're having a little fun.

  • And the thing about it, I've done this for years,

  • the younger they are, the more fun it is.

  • When I get six- and seven-year-olds in a group,

  • I have to figure out how to keep them quiet.

  • You know that they'll always start yakking.

  • And so I play a little game with them

  • before I make them stand at attention.

  • I say, "Now listen. In the army,

  • when we want you to pay attention,

  • we have a command. It's called 'at ease.'

  • It means everybody be quiet and pay attention. Listen up.

  • Do you understand?"

  • "Uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh." "Let's practice. Everybody start chatting."

  • And I let them go for about 10 seconds, then I go, "At ease!"

  • "Huh!" (Laughter)

  • "Yes, General. Yes, General."

  • Try it with your kids. See if it works. (Laughter)

  • I don't think so.

  • But anyway, it's a game I play, and it comes obviously

  • from my military experience.

  • Because for the majority of my adult life,

  • I worked with young kids, teenagers with guns, I call them.

  • And we would bring them into the army,

  • and the first thing we would do is to put them

  • in an environment of structure, put them in ranks,

  • make them all wear the same clothes,

  • cut all their hair off so they look alike,

  • make sure that they are standing in ranks.

  • We teach them how to go right face, left face,

  • so they can obey instructions and know

  • the consequences of not obeying instructions.

  • It gives them structure.

  • And then we introduce them to somebody who they come to hate immediately, the drill sergeant.

  • And they hate him.

  • And the drill sergeant starts screaming at them,

  • and telling them to do all kinds of awful things.

  • But then the most amazing thing happens over time.

  • Once that structure is developed,

  • once they understand the reason for something,

  • once they understand, "Mama ain't here, son.

  • I'm your worst nightmare. I'm your daddy and your mommy.

  • And that's just the way it is. You got that, son?

  • Yeah, and then when I ask you a question, there are only three possible answers:

  • yes, sir; no, sir; and no excuse, sir.

  • Don't start telling me why you didn't do something.

  • It's yes, sir; no, sir; no excuse, sir."

  • "You didn't shave." "But sir —"

  • "No, don't tell me how often you scraped your face this morning.

  • I'm telling you you didn't shave."

  • "No excuse, sir." "Attaboy, you're learning fast."

  • But you'd be amazed at what you can do with them

  • once you put them in that structure.

  • In 18 weeks, they have a skill. They are mature.

  • And you know what, they come to admire the drill sergeant

  • and they never forget the drill sergeant.

  • They come to respect him.

  • And so we need more of this kind of structure and respect

  • in the lives of our children.

  • I spend a lot of time with youth groups,

  • and I say to people, "When does the education process begin?"

  • We're always talking about, "Let's fix the schools.

  • Let's do more for our teachers. Let's put more computers in our schools.

  • Let's get it all online."

  • That isn't the whole answer. It's part of the answer.

  • But the real answer begins with bringing a child to the school

  • with structure in that child's heart and soul to begin with.

  • When does the learning process begin? Does it begin in first grade?

  • No, no, it begins the first time

  • a child in a mother's arms

  • looks up at the mother

  • and says, "Oh, this must be my mother.

  • She's the one who feeds me.

  • Oh yeah, when I don't feel so good down there,

  • she takes care of me.

  • It's her language I will learn."

  • And at that moment they shut out all the other languages

  • that they could be learning at that age,

  • but by three months, that's her.

  • And if the person doing it, whether it's the mother

  • or grandmother, whoever's doing it,

  • that is when the education process begins.

  • That's when language begins.

  • That's when love begins. That's when structure begins.

  • That's when you start to imprint on the child

  • that "you are special,

  • you are different from every other child in the world.

  • And we're going to read to you."

  • A child who has not been read to

  • is in danger when that child gets to school.

  • A child who doesn't know his or her colors

  • or doesn't know how to tell time, doesn't know how to tie shoes,

  • doesn't know how to do those things,

  • and doesn't know how to do something that

  • goes by a word that was drilled into me as a kid: mind.

  • Mind your manners! Mind your adults! Mind what you're saying!

  • This is the way children are raised properly.

  • And I watched my own young grandchildren now come along

  • and they're, much to the distress of my children,

  • they are acting just like we did. You know? You imprint them.

  • And that's what you have to do to prepare children for education and for school.

  • And I'm working at all the energy I have

  • to sort of communicate this message that

  • we need preschool, we need Head Start,

  • we need prenatal care.

  • The education process begins even before the child is born,

  • and if you don't do that, you're going to have difficulty.

  • And we are having difficulties in so many of our communities

  • and so many of our schools where kids are coming

  • to first grade and their eyes are blazing,

  • they've got their little knapsack on and they're ready to go,

  • and then they realize they're not like the other first graders

  • who know books, have been read to, can do their alphabet.

  • And by the third grade, the kids who didn't have

  • that structure and minding in the beginning

  • start to realize they're behind, and what do they do?

  • They act it out. They act it out, and they're on their way

  • to jail or they're on their way to being dropouts.

  • It's predictable.

  • If you're not at the right reading level at third grade,

  • you are a candidate for jail at age 18,

  • and we have the highest incarceration rate

  • because we're not getting our kids the proper start in life.

  • The last chapter in my book is called

  • "The Gift of a Good Start."

  • The gift of a good start. Every child ought to have a good start in life.

  • I was privileged to have that kind of good start.

  • I was not a great student.

  • I was a public school kid in New York City,

  • and I didn't do well at all.

  • I have my entire New York City Board of Education transcript

  • from kindergarten through college.

  • I wanted it when I was writing my first book.

  • I wanted to see if my memory was correct,

  • and, my God, it was. (Laughter)

  • Straight C everywhere.

  • And I finally bounced through high school,

  • got into the City College of New York

  • with a 78.3 average, which I shouldn't have been allowed in with,

  • and then I started out in engineering,

  • and that only lasted six months. (Laughter)

  • And then I went into geology, "rocks for jocks." This is easy.

  • And then I found ROTC.

  • I found something that I did well and something that I loved doing,

  • and I found a group of youngsters like me who felt the same way.

  • And so my whole life then was dedicated to ROTC and the military.

  • And I say to young kids everywhere, as you're growing up

  • and as this structure is being developed inside of you,

  • always be looking for that which you do well and that which you love doing,

  • and when you find those two things together, man, you got it.

  • That's what's going on. And that's what I found.

  • Now the authorities at CCNY were getting tired of me being there.

  • I'd been there four and a half going on five years,

  • and my grades were not doing particularly well,

  • and I was in occasional difficulties with the administration.

  • And so they said, "But he does so well in ROTC.

  • Look, he gets straight A's in that but not in anything else."

  • And so they said, "Look, let's take his ROTC grades

  • and roll them into his overall GPA and see what happens."

  • And they did, and it brought me up to 2.0. (Laughter)

  • Yep. (Laughter) (Applause)

  • They said, "It's good enough for government work.

  • Give him to the army. We'll never see him again. We'll never see him again."

  • So they shipped me off to the army,

  • and lo and behold, many years later,

  • I'm considered one of the greatest sons the City College of New York has ever had. (Laughter)

  • So, I tell young people everywhere,

  • it ain't where you start in life, it's what you do with life

  • that determines where you end up in life,

  • and you are blessed to be living in a country that,

  • no matter where you start, you have opportunities

  • so long as you believe in yourself,

  • you believe in the society and the country,

  • and you believe that you can self-improve

  • and educate yourself as you go along.

  • And that's the key to success.

  • But it begins with the gift of a good start.

  • If we don't give that gift to each and every one of our kids,

  • if we don't invest at the earliest age,

  • we're going to be running into difficulties.

  • It's why we have a dropout rate of roughly 25 percent overall

  • and almost 50 percent of our minority population

  • living in low-income areas,

  • because they're not getting the gift of a good start.

  • My gift of a good start was not only being in a nice family,

  • a good family, but having a family that said to me,

  • "Now listen, we came to this country in banana boats

  • in 1920 and 1924.

  • We worked like dogs down in the garment industry every single day.

  • We're not doing it so that you can stick something up your nose

  • or get in trouble. And don't even think about dropping out."

  • If I had ever gone home and told those immigrant people

  • that, "You know, I'm tired of school and I'm dropping out,"

  • they'd said, "We're dropping you out. We'll get another kid."

  • (Laughter)

  • They had expectations for all of the cousins

  • and the extended family of immigrants that lived in the South Bronx,

  • but they had more than just expectations for us.

  • They stuck into our hearts like a dagger

  • a sense of shame: "Don't you shame this family."

  • Sometimes I would get in trouble,

  • and my parents were coming home,

  • and I was in my room waiting for what's going to happen,

  • and I would sit there saying to myself, "Okay, look,

  • take the belt and hit me, but, God, don't give me that 'shame the family' bit again."

  • It devastated me when my mother did that to me.

  • And I also had this extended network.

  • Children need a network. Children need to be part of a tribe,

  • a family, a community.

  • In my case it was aunts who lived in all of these tenement buildings.

  • I don't know how many of you are New Yorkers,

  • but there were these tenement buildings,

  • and these women were always hanging out one of the windows,

  • leaning on a pillow.

  • They never left. (Laughter)

  • I, so help me God, I grew up walking those streets,

  • and they were always there.

  • They never went to the bathroom. They never cooked. (Laughter)

  • They never did anything.

  • But what they did was keep us in play.

  • They kept us in play.

  • And they didn't care

  • whether you became a doctor or a lawyer or a general,

  • and they never expected any generals in the family,

  • as long as you got an education and then you got a job.

  • "Don't give us any of that self-actualization stuff.

  • You get a job and get out of the house.

  • We don't have time to waste for that.

  • And then you can support us. That's the role of you guys."

  • And so, it's so essential that we kind of put this culture

  • back into our families, all families.

  • And it is so important that all of you here today

  • who are successful people,

  • and I'm sure have wonderful families and children and grandchildren,

  • it's not enough. You've got to reach out and back

  • and find kids like Mr. Cruz

  • who can make it if you give them the structure,

  • if you reach back and help, if you mentor,

  • if you invest in boys and girls clubs,

  • if you work with your school system,

  • make sure it's the best school system,

  • and not just your kid's school, but the school uptown in Harlem,

  • not just downtown Montessori on the West Side.

  • All of us have to have a commitment to do that.

  • And we're not just investing in the kids.

  • We're investing in our future.

  • We're going to be a minority-majority country

  • in one more generation.

  • Those that we call minorities now are going to be the majority.

  • And we have to make sure that they are ready to be the majority.

  • We have to make sure they're ready to be the leaders

  • of this great country of ours,

  • a country that is like no other,

  • a country that amazes me every single day,

  • a country that's fractious. We're always arguing with each other.

  • That's how the system's supposed to work.

  • It's a country of such contrasts, but it's a nation of nations.

  • We touch every nation. Every nation touches us.

  • We are a nation of immigrants.

  • That's why we need sound immigration policy.

  • It's ridiculous not to have a sound immigration policy

  • to welcome those who want to come here and be part of this great nation,

  • or we can send back home with an education

  • to help their people rise up out of poverty.

  • One of the great stories I love to tell is about my love

  • of going to my hometown of New York

  • and walking up Park Avenue on a beautiful day

  • and admiring everything and seeing all the people go by

  • from all over the world.

  • But what I always have to do is stop at one of the corners

  • and get a hot dog from the immigrant pushcart peddler.

  • Gotta have a dirty water dog. (Laughter)

  • And no matter where I am or what I'm doing,

  • I've got to do that.

  • I even did it when I was Secretary of State.

  • I'd come out of my suite at the Waldorf Astoria

  • — (Laughter) —

  • be walking up the street, and I would hit around 55th Street

  • looking for the immigrant pushcart peddler.

  • In those days, I had five bodyguards around me

  • and three New York City police cars would roll alongside

  • to make sure nobody whacked me while I was going up Park Avenue. (Laughter)

  • And I would order the hot dog from the guy,

  • and he'd start to fix it, and then he'd look around

  • at the bodyguards and the police cars --

  • "I've got a green card! I've got a green card!" (Laughter)

  • "It's okay, it's okay."

  • But now I'm alone. I'm alone.

  • I've got no bodyguards, I've got no police cars. I've got nothing.

  • But I gotta have my hot dog.

  • I did it just last week. It was on a Tuesday evening

  • down by Columbus Circle.

  • And the scene repeats itself so often.

  • I'll go up and ask for my hot dog,

  • and the guy will fix it, and as he's finishing,

  • he'll say, "I know you. I see you on television.

  • You're, well, you're General Powell."

  • "Yes, yes." "Oh ... "

  • I hand him the money.

  • "No, General. You can't pay me. I've been paid.

  • America has paid me. I never forget where I came from.

  • But now I'm an American. Sir, thank you."

  • I accept the generosity, continue up the street,

  • and it washes over me, my God,

  • it's the same country that greeted my parents this way 90 years ago.

  • So we are still that magnificent country,

  • but we are fueled by young people coming up

  • from every land in the world,

  • and it is our obligation as contributing citizens

  • to this wonderful country of ours

  • to make sure that no child gets left behind.

  • Thank you very much.

  • (Applause)

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