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  • Writer, cookbook author and TV personalityNigella Lawson, has built an empire around  

  • her domestic goddess lifestyle. Known  for her recipe books and cooking shows,  

  • Lawson found fame with her picture-perfect  kitchen and her relatable personality. Curious  

  • about how she rose to the top? Here's  why Nigella Lawson is turning heads.  

  • Lawson wasn't born into a family of foodiesbut she certainly had a leg up from the very  

  • beginning. Her dad, Nigel Lawson, was a well-known  conservative politician, and her mother,  

  • Vanessa Salmon, was a popular British socialite  and heir to an enormous food industry dynasty.  

  • But despite having access to the finer things in  life, Nigella and her three siblings didn't appear  

  • to enjoy a peaceful home life. When Lawson  described her mother, she told The Guardian,

  • "She was one of those people who  was full of stress and anxiety.  

  • You know, if you knock something over  it will be difficult, and I'm clumsy."

  • Lawson also seemed to note that her childhood  may have been an unhappy one, adding,

  • "I don't think any of us [siblings] would regard  it as a childhood we would want to return to."

  • "I feel that my way of describing the past  is probably too violent. In a way, I feel,  

  • I have a scorched-earth policy."

  • While some chefs take their inspiration  from their family's love of food,  

  • for Lawson it was a very different  story. As AnOther magazine explained,  

  • the budding chef didn't exactly grow up  in a household that fostered a healthy  

  • relationship with food. In fact, her mom  Vanessa reportedly struggled with various  

  • eating disorders throughout her life and even  admitted to being afraid of certain foods.

  • "One of the things about coming from  a Jewish family, is that I think  

  • whatever kind of business you're infood is always, y'know, central."

  • But it appears that witnessing her  mother's difficult relationship with  

  • food was what inspired Lawson to do the  exact opposite. She told The Guardian,

  • "My attitude towards food is such a repudiation  of her, a triumph over her, thinking,  

  • 'I'm not going to play that game.  I'm not going to be that thin.'"

  • Lawson's relaxed and joyful approach to  eating would later become the basis of  

  • the chef's successful career. According to the star herself,  

  • Lawson was actually very shy aschild. While this personality trait  

  • may seem like the polar opposite of her  outgoing TV persona, Lawson has admitted  

  • that her introverted nature still affects  her as an adult. She explained to the BBC,

  • "I don't think being shy and being on television  

  • are opposites actually. […] When  I have a purpose I can do it."

  • "I don't know that I've ever  thought, 'Oh I need to cook to  

  • make myself feel better,' but I certainly  think cooking does make me feel better."

  • It turns out that Lawson's quieter nature  might have actually led to the star that we  

  • know and love today. As the chef  explained to the New Zealand Herald,  

  • she actually developed her seemingly innately warm  hosting persona as a way to deal with her shyness.

  • When Lawson was 19, she and her family spentyear in Italy that would impact Nigella for life.  

  • She explained to Grub Street just  how informative that chapter was,  

  • both in regards to her approach to food, as well  as her sense of culture, telling the outlet,

  • "My personality changed somewhat. Whenspoke Italian, I became more voluble and  

  • less reserved. […] [My] sense of becoming  a person is inextricably linked with Italy,  

  • and becoming Italian. Or attempting to."

  • It's also clear that the exposure to  vibrant local cuisine inspired the  

  • chef as well. In her Italian cookbookNigellissima, Lawson got the chance to  

  • explore her fascination with the country's  food culture. She told Fine Dining Lovers,

  • "Italian food has always been a huge influence.  […] In this book I found myself writing about  

  • the influence Italy has had on my cooking, as  an English cook. For me, Italyand Italian  

  • foodhave both been the most enduring  inspirations of my life, and my cooking."  

  • After spending time in Italy, Lawson enrolled  at the prestigious University of Oxford to study  

  • medieval and modern languages. But she claims  the most important thing she learned during her  

  • time as a student was just how much she loved to  cook for others. She recalled to the Oxford Mail,

  • "I would go to the Covered Market a lot to buy  onions and sausages. I cooked an awful lot. French  

  • onion soup was my speciality. […] That's whenrealized I was someone who liked feeding people."

  • "I have emotional connections to all  sorts of food, but it's more to do with  

  • what I've eaten, when."

  • But she wasn't just wow-ing her  friends with some home-cooked meals.  

  • She was also making a bit of a splash in  the media, and was frequently photographed  

  • for society magazines. It's clear  that even during her college years,  

  • she was already beginning to  show signs of a star-making turn.

  • After graduating college, Lawson landed her first  jobas a journalist. And it seems that at the  

  • time, working as a TV personality and cookbook  writer wasn't even in her plans. Lawson was  

  • soon tapped as the deputy literary editor of The  Sunday Times, after which she became a freelance  

  • journalist, writing for The Guardian and the  Daily Telegraph. Lawson also appeared on TV as  

  • a presenter and reporter, even covering Princess  Diana's tragic death for Newsnight, in 1997.

  • "Not all the strands of her life could come  together and she didn't always seem to get  

  • everything right. Which is why, perhaps, ordinary  women felt such a sense of connection with her."

  • It wasn't until 1985, when Lawson landed a food  column for The Spectator, that she began to cross  

  • over into her true passion. She went on to pen  another food column for British Vogue in 1995,  

  • and by that point, it was becoming clear  that food writing was Lawson's specialty.  

  • In 1992, Lawson married fellow journalist  John Diamond who also worked for The  

  • Sunday Times. The couple went on to have two  children, Bruno and "Mimi." And for Lawson,  

  • starting a family was a life-changing  experience. She revealed to Radio Times,

  • "People who don't have children imagine  

  • that their whole lives would be  all right if they had children,  

  • but they don't realize that having children gives  you lots of problems; one is in constant worry."

  • "It is very difficult to have a working life  if you have a family, if you have children."

  • By the looks of things, Lawson has  always remained deeply involved in  

  • her children's lives. When Bruno was  a teen, a friend told the Express,

  • "He adores his mummy's cooking and  appears quite often in her TV programmes,  

  • looking sheepishly out from his mop of hair  […] virtually licking the plate clean."

  • "I cook for my children. I  grew up eating my mother's hair  

  • and I don't see why they  can't grow up eating mine."

  • As for MiMi, The Daily Mail snapped her  having lunch with her mother, in 2020.  

  • It certainly seems like this famous chef has  always prioritized quality time with her kids.  

  • In 1997, just as Lawson's career  was taking off, her husband, John,  

  • was diagnosed with throat cancer. What  followed was a difficult four years,  

  • during which John's tongue had to be removedand he was fed through a tube. He died in 2001,  

  • at the age of 47. As The Guardian  noted, throughout their last few years,  

  • the couple made the most of their time together  by frequently throwing parties for their friends.  

  • Shortly after John's death, Lawson was already  back to work. She explained to The Telegraph,

  • "I took [two weeks] off. But I'm  not a great believer in breaks."

  • But it appears that this is exactly what John  

  • would have wanted for Nigella. In an  emotional farewell note, he wrote,

  • "How proud I am of you and what you  have become. The great thing about  

  • us is that we have made us who we are." Prior to her husband's death, Lawson lost  

  • her mother and sister to cancer. The chef's mother  was just 48 when she died, and her sister was just  

  • 32. Their passing had a profound impact on Lawson  and she explained to Good Housekeeping in 2020,

  • "To be completely honest, I've never been able to  take for granted that I'd be alive by this age.  

  • Even if I were the sort of person who planned  ahead, I don't think I would have seen myself  

  • here. […] I kind of think you can't do  anything about [ageing] so why complain?"

  • Lawson went into more detail about  how her mom and sister's untimely  

  • deaths influenced her perceptions  on ageing, telling the Sunday Times,

  • "When you have seen people you love  die young, the idea of complaining  

  • about getting older is just revolting." Having spent more than a decade working as  

  • a journalist, in 1998, Lawson finally released  her first book, How to Eat: The Pleasures and  

  • Principles of Good Food. At the time, The  Guardian noted that it was so well-written,  

  • it was almost the kind of cookbook you could read  in the bedroom rather than just in the kitchen.

  • With literary success under her belt, Lawson hit  TVs across the globe. In 1998, she appeared on  

  • Nigel Slater's Real Food. And it didn't take long  for producers to realize that, without a doubt,  

  • Lawson was made for TV. Two years laterin 2000, she landed her first cooking show,  

  • Nigella Bites. But while her on-camera  work is what made her a household name,  

  • it hasn't been an easy task, for the  chef. She told Good Housekeeping,

  • "It’s physically very draining standing up [and  filming] all day. […] It's a bit frightening  

  • and I always think, 'I don’t know if I can do this  again,' but then I start and I get excited again."

  • But fans need not fear: Lawson isn't  leaving our small screens anytime soon.  

  • As of 2020, she is still filming  the BBC series Cook, Eat, Repeat.

  • "You know that's going to be good." After mourning the loss of her first husband,  

  • Lawson remarried well-known art collector and  advertising exec, Charles Saatchi, fairly quickly.  

  • But after almost 10 years together, scandal  hit the couple after a photographer captured  

  • shocking images of Saatchi seemingly assaulting  Lawson in public. The photographer recalled the  

  • event, telling Vanity Fair that he had spotted the  couple sitting outside a restaurant, celebrating  

  • Saatchi's 70th birthday. Explaining that Saatchi  appeared to grab Lawson by the throat, he claimed,

  • "I saw her lurch violently backwards. Then he  did it a second time, and it was so violent."

  • The photos led to a major tabloid scandaland eventually, to court. The case was filled  

  • with wild accusations about everything from  embezzlement to drug use. Saatchi originally  

  • claimed that the photos merely showed a, quote,  "playful tiff." But in 2013, shortly after the  

  • scandal, Lawson and Saatchi divorced. Having her personal life strewn across  

  • the tabloids, while photographers closely  followed her family, was brutal for Lawson,  

  • who has always preferred her privacy. In  fact, the bad press proved to be so difficult,  

  • she developed a new policy of only discussing  her professional life in interviews.  

  • But while she's kept mum on personal  topics, Lawson did open up in one interview,  

  • explaining how the tabloid scandal had completely  impacted her life. She told The Irish Times,

  • "Becoming a tabloid story, and everything I went  through then, shame, various things, in a way gave  

  • me a form of trauma of its own. And I don't think  I've addressed that enough to talk about it."  

  • Despite the obvious challenges in her  personal life, Lawson has continued to  

  • steadily build her empire throughout the yearsIn fact, she has reportedly sold at least 3  

  • million books around the world, while her  net worth sits somewhere around $15 million.  

  • She has also made sparkling appearances  on Top Chef, Iron Chef America,  

  • and Master Chef while continuing to release  cooking shows and specials on a regular basis.

  • "Nigella Lawson.”

  • Gordon Ramsey named a turkey  after her. She's legit."

  • Even Lawson is able to acknowledge how far  she's come. She looked back at her early  

  • days and the release of her first bookand admitted that everything had indeed  

  • changed for her. In fact, her celebrity  status just might be comparable to that  

  • of a beloved Royal. As British food writerDiana Henry, explained to The Irish Times,

  • "In the UK I often think […]  that she has Princess Diana-like  

  • status as a celebrity. She is that  well known, she is that well-liked."  

  • For Lawson, the COVID-19 pandemic forced her  to take a step back from her busy schedule  

  • and re-evaluate her priorities as she embarked  on lockdown, alone. She mused to The Guardian,

  • "I suppose that survival thing kicked in,  

  • and it felt important to think about food  because it became clear that it gave structure,  

  • sustenance, and pleasure. […] I'm very happy  not having to fill up my life going to things."

  • "This needs to be eaten in  calm and appreciative silence."

  • And while just about everyone has  had to lean in to a new normal,  

  • Lawson appears to have found the silver lining  in the face of the unknown. She told the outlet,

  • "I have learned to relish  solitude, which was prescient,  

  • it turned out. […] Lockdown showed  how much I enjoy cooking for myself."

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