Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles Writer, cookbook author and TV personality, Nigella Lawson, has built an empire around her domestic goddess lifestyle. Known for her recipe books and cooking shows, Lawson found fame with her picture-perfect kitchen and her relatable personality. Curious about how she rose to the top? Here's why Nigella Lawson is turning heads. Lawson wasn't born into a family of foodies, but she certainly had a leg up from the very beginning. Her dad, Nigel Lawson, was a well-known conservative politician, and her mother, Vanessa Salmon, was a popular British socialite and heir to an enormous food industry dynasty. But despite having access to the finer things in life, Nigella and her three siblings didn't appear to enjoy a peaceful home life. When Lawson described her mother, she told The Guardian, "She was one of those people who was full of stress and anxiety. You know, if you knock something over it will be difficult, and I'm clumsy." Lawson also seemed to note that her childhood may have been an unhappy one, adding, "I don't think any of us [siblings] would regard it as a childhood we would want to return to." "I feel that my way of describing the past is probably too violent. In a way, I feel, I have a scorched-earth policy." While some chefs take their inspiration from their family's love of food, for Lawson it was a very different story. As AnOther magazine explained, the budding chef didn't exactly grow up in a household that fostered a healthy relationship with food. In fact, her mom Vanessa reportedly struggled with various eating disorders throughout her life and even admitted to being afraid of certain foods. "One of the things about coming from a Jewish family, is that I think whatever kind of business you're in, food is always, y'know, central." But it appears that witnessing her mother's difficult relationship with food was what inspired Lawson to do the exact opposite. She told The Guardian, "My attitude towards food is such a repudiation of her, a triumph over her, thinking, 'I'm not going to play that game. I'm not going to be that thin.'" Lawson's relaxed and joyful approach to eating would later become the basis of the chef's successful career. According to the star herself, Lawson was actually very shy as a child. While this personality trait may seem like the polar opposite of her outgoing TV persona, Lawson has admitted that her introverted nature still affects her as an adult. She explained to the BBC, "I don't think being shy and being on television are opposites actually. […] When I have a purpose I can do it." "I don't know that I've ever thought, 'Oh I need to cook to make myself feel better,' but I certainly think cooking does make me feel better." It turns out that Lawson's quieter nature might have actually led to the star that we know and love today. As the chef explained to the New Zealand Herald, she actually developed her seemingly innately warm hosting persona as a way to deal with her shyness. When Lawson was 19, she and her family spent a year in Italy that would impact Nigella for life. She explained to Grub Street just how informative that chapter was, both in regards to her approach to food, as well as her sense of culture, telling the outlet, "My personality changed somewhat. When I spoke Italian, I became more voluble and less reserved. […] [My] sense of becoming a person is inextricably linked with Italy, and becoming Italian. Or attempting to." It's also clear that the exposure to vibrant local cuisine inspired the chef as well. In her Italian cookbook, Nigellissima, Lawson got the chance to explore her fascination with the country's food culture. She told Fine Dining Lovers, "Italian food has always been a huge influence. […] In this book I found myself writing about the influence Italy has had on my cooking, as an English cook. For me, Italy — and Italian food — have both been the most enduring inspirations of my life, and my cooking." After spending time in Italy, Lawson enrolled at the prestigious University of Oxford to study medieval and modern languages. But she claims the most important thing she learned during her time as a student was just how much she loved to cook for others. She recalled to the Oxford Mail, "I would go to the Covered Market a lot to buy onions and sausages. I cooked an awful lot. French onion soup was my speciality. […] That's when I realized I was someone who liked feeding people." "I have emotional connections to all sorts of food, but it's more to do with what I've eaten, when." But she wasn't just wow-ing her friends with some home-cooked meals. She was also making a bit of a splash in the media, and was frequently photographed for society magazines. It's clear that even during her college years, she was already beginning to show signs of a star-making turn. After graduating college, Lawson landed her first job — as a journalist. And it seems that at the time, working as a TV personality and cookbook writer wasn't even in her plans. Lawson was soon tapped as the deputy literary editor of The Sunday Times, after which she became a freelance journalist, writing for The Guardian and the Daily Telegraph. Lawson also appeared on TV as a presenter and reporter, even covering Princess Diana's tragic death for Newsnight, in 1997. "Not all the strands of her life could come together and she didn't always seem to get everything right. Which is why, perhaps, ordinary women felt such a sense of connection with her." It wasn't until 1985, when Lawson landed a food column for The Spectator, that she began to cross over into her true passion. She went on to pen another food column for British Vogue in 1995, and by that point, it was becoming clear that food writing was Lawson's specialty. In 1992, Lawson married fellow journalist John Diamond who also worked for The Sunday Times. The couple went on to have two children, Bruno and "Mimi." And for Lawson, starting a family was a life-changing experience. She revealed to Radio Times, "People who don't have children imagine that their whole lives would be all right if they had children, but they don't realize that having children gives you lots of problems; one is in constant worry." "It is very difficult to have a working life if you have a family, if you have children." By the looks of things, Lawson has always remained deeply involved in her children's lives. When Bruno was a teen, a friend told the Express, "He adores his mummy's cooking and appears quite often in her TV programmes, looking sheepishly out from his mop of hair […] virtually licking the plate clean." "I cook for my children. I grew up eating my mother's hair and I don't see why they can't grow up eating mine." As for MiMi, The Daily Mail snapped her having lunch with her mother, in 2020. It certainly seems like this famous chef has always prioritized quality time with her kids. In 1997, just as Lawson's career was taking off, her husband, John, was diagnosed with throat cancer. What followed was a difficult four years, during which John's tongue had to be removed, and he was fed through a tube. He died in 2001, at the age of 47. As The Guardian noted, throughout their last few years, the couple made the most of their time together by frequently throwing parties for their friends. Shortly after John's death, Lawson was already back to work. She explained to The Telegraph, "I took [two weeks] off. But I'm not a great believer in breaks." But it appears that this is exactly what John would have wanted for Nigella. In an emotional farewell note, he wrote, "How proud I am of you and what you have become. The great thing about us is that we have made us who we are." Prior to her husband's death, Lawson lost her mother and sister to cancer. The chef's mother was just 48 when she died, and her sister was just 32. Their passing had a profound impact on Lawson and she explained to Good Housekeeping in 2020, "To be completely honest, I've never been able to take for granted that I'd be alive by this age. Even if I were the sort of person who planned ahead, I don't think I would have seen myself here. […] I kind of think you can't do anything about [ageing] so why complain?" Lawson went into more detail about how her mom and sister's untimely deaths influenced her perceptions on ageing, telling the Sunday Times, "When you have seen people you love die young, the idea of complaining about getting older is just revolting." Having spent more than a decade working as a journalist, in 1998, Lawson finally released her first book, How to Eat: The Pleasures and Principles of Good Food. At the time, The Guardian noted that it was so well-written, it was almost the kind of cookbook you could read in the bedroom rather than just in the kitchen. With literary success under her belt, Lawson hit TVs across the globe. In 1998, she appeared on Nigel Slater's Real Food. And it didn't take long for producers to realize that, without a doubt, Lawson was made for TV. Two years later, in 2000, she landed her first cooking show, Nigella Bites. But while her on-camera work is what made her a household name, it hasn't been an easy task, for the chef. She told Good Housekeeping, "It’s physically very draining standing up [and filming] all day. […] It's a bit frightening and I always think, 'I don’t know if I can do this again,' but then I start and I get excited again." But fans need not fear: Lawson isn't leaving our small screens anytime soon. As of 2020, she is still filming the BBC series Cook, Eat, Repeat. "You know that's going to be good." After mourning the loss of her first husband, Lawson remarried well-known art collector and advertising exec, Charles Saatchi, fairly quickly. But after almost 10 years together, scandal hit the couple after a photographer captured shocking images of Saatchi seemingly assaulting Lawson in public. The photographer recalled the event, telling Vanity Fair that he had spotted the couple sitting outside a restaurant, celebrating Saatchi's 70th birthday. Explaining that Saatchi appeared to grab Lawson by the throat, he claimed, "I saw her lurch violently backwards. Then he did it a second time, and it was so violent." The photos led to a major tabloid scandal, and eventually, to court. The case was filled with wild accusations about everything from embezzlement to drug use. Saatchi originally claimed that the photos merely showed a, quote, "playful tiff." But in 2013, shortly after the scandal, Lawson and Saatchi divorced. Having her personal life strewn across the tabloids, while photographers closely followed her family, was brutal for Lawson, who has always preferred her privacy. In fact, the bad press proved to be so difficult, she developed a new policy of only discussing her professional life in interviews. But while she's kept mum on personal topics, Lawson did open up in one interview, explaining how the tabloid scandal had completely impacted her life. She told The Irish Times, "Becoming a tabloid story, and everything I went through then, shame, various things, in a way gave me a form of trauma of its own. And I don't think I've addressed that enough to talk about it." Despite the obvious challenges in her personal life, Lawson has continued to steadily build her empire throughout the years. In fact, she has reportedly sold at least 3 million books around the world, while her net worth sits somewhere around $15 million. She has also made sparkling appearances on Top Chef, Iron Chef America, and Master Chef while continuing to release cooking shows and specials on a regular basis. "Nigella Lawson.” “Gordon Ramsey named a turkey after her. She's legit." Even Lawson is able to acknowledge how far she's come. She looked back at her early days and the release of her first book, and admitted that everything had indeed changed for her. In fact, her celebrity status just might be comparable to that of a beloved Royal. As British food writer, Diana Henry, explained to The Irish Times, "In the UK I often think […] that she has Princess Diana-like status as a celebrity. She is that well known, she is that well-liked." For Lawson, the COVID-19 pandemic forced her to take a step back from her busy schedule and re-evaluate her priorities as she embarked on lockdown, alone. She mused to The Guardian, "I suppose that survival thing kicked in, and it felt important to think about food because it became clear that it gave structure, sustenance, and pleasure. […] I'm very happy not having to fill up my life going to things." "This needs to be eaten in calm and appreciative silence." And while just about everyone has had to lean in to a new normal, Lawson appears to have found the silver lining in the face of the unknown. She told the outlet, "I have learned to relish solitude, which was prescient, it turned out. […] Lockdown showed how much I enjoy cooking for myself." Check out one of our newest videos right here! Plus, even more Mashed videos about your favorite celebs are coming soon. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and hit the bell so you don't miss a single one.
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