Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles HARNAAM: This is who I am, I'm different and I've learnt to accept it fully. COMM: Meet the incredible 23-year-old woman, Harnaam Kaur who's been growing a beard since the age of 16. And she says she's never felt more feminine. HARNAAM: It's the way that God made me and I'm happy with it. COMM: Harnaam from Slough has polycystic ovary syndrome which can cause excessive hair growth. She was just eleven when it sorted appearing on her face. HARNAAM: I would hide it by talking to people with my hands over my face. I used to wax it and that became really painful so I would just shave it or use different sorts of creams. Um I used to bleach it too. COMM: Harnaam endured bullying at school and stares from people on the street. 00:46 HARNAAM: The names that people would call me were things like beardo instead of weirdo, um she-man, she-male. 00:54 COMM: She's even received death threats after posting videos about female facial hair on YouTube. HARNAAM: I have had people telling me that they're gonna burn me and that they're gonna throw brick at me. 01:06 COMM: At her lowest point she began self harming, and even considered taking her own life. HARNAAM: I would lock myself in my room, I didn't want people to see me because I knew that would lead to more stares. COMM: At the age of sixteen, everything changed for Harnaam, when she took the decision to be baptised as a Sikh. HARNAAM: We need to keep our bodies intact the way it was given by God. It was literally at the point where I had enough of people bullying me, me feeling down, me having suicidal thoughts, me self harming, I just had enough. COMM: The decision proves controversial, even Harnaam's own family were against it at first. HARNAAM: The concerns that my mum and dad had were I won't have a normal life "normal life"I say, as a young girl should have. I won't get married, there were concerns about me getting job, how there was no employers out there that will employ a bearded lady and such. 02:04 COMM: But she's found support in her 18-year-old brother Gurdeep, and friend Surrinder. 02:09 GURDEEP: She's happy living her life, does what she wants to do, so it's really good for her, as long as she's happy that's all I really care about. SURRINDER: For me to see her without the beard no I think it would be a shock, it would;t be the same person, I so I think having the beard has probably given her a lot of strength etc. to be who she wants to be, to say what she wants to say, and y'know just be happy. COMM: Harnaam still has to endure stares in the street, and is often mistaken for a man. But she's learnt to accept it. HARNAAM: I do play around with it a little bit because sometimes when I go to the public toilets and someone goes to me um "Oh this is the women's" and I actually put on a deep voice and I say no this is for men's. SO I kind of play around with it and it's funny because we all end up laughing. COMM: Today things are looking hop for Harnaam, she works as a primary school teaching assistant, and she's received dozens of messages from women and men around the world, who say they love her beard. HARNAAM: One guy saw my picture and he goes to me, will you marry me? COMM: And she hopes her story will encourage other women to be more body confident. COMM: This is me, this is who I am, it's my inner beauty, it's my outer beauty, it's my oneness, it's my wholeness. I'm different and I've leant to accept it fully.
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