something that are foisted on us,

是強加在我們身上的東西。

but the truth is, we do this to ourselves.

但事實是，我們這樣做是為了自己。

Collective illusions destroy social trust.

集體幻覺破壞了社會信任。

When we are under illusions about other people

當我們對他人抱有幻想的時候

no longer sharing our values,

不再認同我們的價值觀。

when in fact they actually do,

而事實上，他們確實如此。

everything from basic cooperation

從基本的合作到一切

to social innovation can come to a standstill.

對社會創新的影響可能會陷入停滯狀態。

To the extent that we distort our private values

在我們扭曲我們的私人價值觀的程度上

in the name of belonging,

以歸屬的名義。

now we realize that doesn't just harm us,

現在我們意識到這不僅僅是對我們的傷害。

it harms the whole society.

它傷害了整個社會。

One of the most important collective illusions

最重要的集體幻覺之一

that we've ever discovered has to do

我們所發現的問題與以下方面有關

with the way that people define a successful life.

與人們定義成功生活的方式。

We looked at the private opinions of the American public

我們看了美國公眾的私人意見

across 76 different attributes

跨越76個不同的屬性

that could go into a successful life.

可以進入一個成功的生活。

Out of those 76, the vast majority

在這76人中，絕大部分

of the American public believes

的美國公眾認為

that most people would rank 'fame' as number one.

大多數人將 "名聲 "列為第一。

There's just one problem:

只有一個問題。

In private, it's actually dead last.

在私下裡，它實際上是倒數第一。

It is 76th out of 76 possible attributes.

在76個可能的屬性中，它排在第76位。

We don't care about fame, but we believe

我們不關心名聲，但我們相信

that most everybody else cares about fame

其他大多數人都關心的名聲

more than anything else.

比什麼都重要。

Our public institutions are actually being built

我們的公共機構實際上正在建設中

around a false view of what people want out of life,

圍繞著人們對生活的要求的錯誤觀點。

in our media, in our businesses.

在我們的媒體中，在我們的企業中。

Those people are also under the same exact delusions.

這些人也在完全相同的妄想之下。

We have commercials, we have movies

我們有商業廣告，我們有電影

and television shows all telling us

和電視節目都告訴我們

that a successful life is about being famous.

成功的生活就是要出名。

Now, the dominant thing

現在，占主導地位的事情

that kids talk about is wanting to be famous.

孩子們談論的是想成名。

One kid, I remember saying, "I want a million followers."

有一個孩子，我記得說："我想要一百萬個追隨者"。

He couldn't tell ya for what,

他不能告訴你為了什麼。

he just wanted a million followers.

他只是想要一百萬個追隨者。

We know that most people,

我們知道，大多數人。

even in the younger generation,

甚至在年輕一代中。

do not privately value fame,

私下裡不重視名聲。

but they are even more convinced

但他們更相信

than the older generations that most people do.

比大多數人做的老一代人。

They are internalizing the illusion

他們正在將幻覺內化

as their own values,

作為他們自己的價值觀。

and that will become the dominant view

而這將成為主流觀點

in society in the future

在未來的社會中

if we don't do something about it.

如果我們不做點什麼的話。

Being aware that collective illusions exist

意識到集體幻覺的存在

is the starting point,

是起始點。

and it comes down to us being honest

歸根結底是我們要誠實

about ourselves, to each other.

關於我們自己，對彼此。

Populace asked, "What does a fulfilling life mean to you?"

民眾問："充實的生活對你意味著什麼？"

What we found was really astonishing.

我們發現的情況真的很令人吃驚。

Out of those 76 trade-off priorities in the thousands

在這76個權衡的優先事項中，有數千個

and thousands of people that we have studied,

以及我們研究過的成千上萬的人。

no two people were identical.

沒有兩個人是相同的。

Nobody can tell you what a successful life is;

沒有人可以告訴你什麼是成功的生活。

you have to discover that for yourself.

你必須自己去發現。

It's about knowing who you are.

這是關於瞭解你是誰。

If you wanna understand whether the people you care

如果你想了解你關心的人是否

about are pursuing a life that's not their own,

關於正在追求一個不屬於他們自己的生活。

ask 'em why they care about what they're doing.

問他們為什麼關心他們所做的事情。

Why do you wanna be famous?

你為什麼想成名？

By having your ideas challenged,

通過讓你的想法受到挑戰。

that gives you a better sense

這讓你更清楚地認識到

for who your true self is.

因為你的真實自我是誰。

If we recognized our true, shared values,

如果我們認識到我們真正的、共同的價值觀。

it fundamentally changes how we see one another.

它從根本上改變了我們看待彼此的方式。

We now recognize that investing in each other

我們現在認識到，在彼此間投資

and enabling you to pursue the life you wanna live,

並使你能夠追求你想過的生活。

is actually better for you,

實際上對你更好。

and for me.

而對我來說。

- This series is brought to you by Stand Together,

- 這個系列是由 "團結 "帶來的。

a community of changemakers tackling our biggest challenges.

一個由變革者組成的社區，應對我們最大的挑戰。