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  • - The habits that are small at the beginning,

  • like grabbing a chocolate bar

  • when you're checking out at the grocery line

  • may be fine at the beginning

  • but as you go along,

  • you can see that habits are hard to break.

  • There are triggers that we all have

  • that lead us to these habits

  • that are invisible for us to see every single day.

  • - Why are bad habits around money

  • so hard to tackle?

  • In the course of your day,

  • about 40% of the things you do are habits.

  • All of this happens behind the scenes

  • without you being aware of that.

  • Because you have no control,

  • it's also hard to break it.

  • - When we talk about money,

  • there's ways that we have cues,

  • we have routines, and we have rewards.

  • Sometimes we get so connected to that reward

  • that comes from giving or spending

  • we continue to do that in a routine way that hurts us.

  • - But the great thing is we all have the capacity to change.

  • Small behaviors can have really big impacts over time

  • just through, you know, the power of habit.

  • - Getting rid of bad habits,

  • or forming new ones,

  • will have an impact all the way across the board.

  • Not just with your money,

  • but also how you feel mentally,

  • emotionally, and physically.

  • - How can you identify what's holding you back?

  • Can you forge healthier spending and saving habits

  • that unlock your financial potential?

  • This is "Your Brain on Money."

  • Before our two favorite neuroscientists,

  • Dr. Cerf and Dr. Kable,

  • explain how our brain forms habits,

  • Dr. Cerf is going to tell us

  • how he got into the brain side of things.

  • After many years of working as a hacker,

  • I ran into Francis Crick, Nobel Laureate

  • for discovering the DNA,

  • and he essentially learned about my profession,

  • penetrating banks and the government

  • and he said, "You might as well try to implement that

  • in a much bigger and much more important question,

  • which is how our brains work."

  • And with his endorsement,

  • I moved from hacking computers

  • into hacking humans' brains.

  • - As a brain hacker,

  • how do habits creep their way into our brain?

  • Habits are patterns of existence in our brain

  • that operate without us paying attention to them.

  • Some habits are so frequent

  • that nature said, "You know what,

  • this one we could hardwire into the brain,"

  • that's what breathing is.

  • Something that's natural,

  • as soon as you're born, it just works.

  • And then over the course of our life,

  • there are many things that we do frequently

  • that the brain says, "Let's move them

  • to a system that is a habit."

  • So it sees that you drive to work

  • every day in the same route,

  • and it says, "You know what? Let's help the person."

  • Instead of having to navigate,

  • we just have to have one mechanism ignite it,

  • and from then on everything's gonna happen automatically.

  • The location in the brain,

  • the striatum where it happens,

  • we basically can monitor how habits are formed,

  • and what it takes for each process to happen.

  • - You can do a neuroimaging study

  • where you ask someone to repeat

  • the same thing over and over again.

  • Initially, there's lots of areas of the brain involved.

  • But as you do the task over and over again,

  • what you see is fewer and fewer areas

  • that were necessary the first time through.

  • It's only using those neurons

  • and those brain areas that are absolutely necessary

  • in order to get the task done.

  • - It's also hard to break it

  • because now you have to change something

  • that your brain worked hard to make you not be aware of.

  • - So what do some of these money habits

  • look like in our daily lives?

  • - If my wife was here,

  • she'd probably tell you some of my quirky habits.

  • - Dr. James has seen a lot

  • of different money habits with his clients,

  • and he's here to tell you

  • that there is hope in tweaking them.

  • - Some of the things I've seen for people

  • is that they might have the resources

  • to pay for things,

  • but somehow they spend all they have

  • because they got used to not having money.

  • They got used to not having extra resources.

  • They got used to maybe not even saving.

  • Hyperfocusing on how much they have,

  • or are they doing the right thing,

  • or the latest trends.

  • When I think about shaping habits,

  • I do think that we can replace them,

  • but it takes real intentional work.

  • If you just say, "I'm gonna read one page a day,

  • or one chapter a day,"

  • you will eventually finish the book.

  • And if you finish the book, then you get to another book.

  • That's a great habit to build

  • that started on one page a day.

  • If we see it as being able to save a dollar

  • or a few dollars,

  • that gets you to multiple dollars

  • that can get you to saving.

  • - You know, saving $50 a month is great.

  • But saving $50 a month every single month,

  • putting it in a savings account,

  • the better off you will be

  • because of the magic of compound interest.

  • That is what really makes a difference

  • in your financial life.

  • What we often make a mistake of doing

  • is trying to do everything all at once.

  • I'm going to stop spending on takeout,

  • I'm going to save for retirement,

  • and I'm gonna walk to work to save money on gas.

  • Well, that is a lot of change to manage all at once.

  • Instead, a much better way

  • to implement new financial habits

  • is to do one at a time,

  • and stick to something that you had set out to do.

  • - So, what specific course of action

  • can we take to form better habits?

  • - Building a better set of habits in your life

  • will start with understanding

  • what stage of change you're in.

  • So you may be in a 'place of denial,'

  • like, 'Ah, I maybe not need to change this habit.'

  • - So just by saying, "You know, I have a habit,

  • and I don't like this habit,"

  • you already did one small step

  • towards changing it.

  • - When you get to the point where you are

  • ready to make a change with the habit,

  • that's in the 'contemplation stage.'

  • - So, let's say you're in the habit

  • of whipping out your credit card

  • and getting a coffee every morning.

  • If it's feeling good for you,

  • make sure it works for your finances,

  • and if it does, keep on moving forward.

  • If it feels not so good for you,

  • that's usually an indication

  • that you can check in with what's going on financially.

  • - Then you move to a 'preparation stage'

  • of actually planning for this change.

  • - The more you can associate positive habits

  • or neutral habits with your money, with something good,

  • the better off we are.

  • - Then you're at 'action,'

  • where you're actually putting your foot on the pedal

  • and things are changing

  • where we create a new habit.

  • We're integrating this in our lifestyle.

  • - What I heard with this person with this latte example

  • is that they need a lot of like time

  • to kind of prepare themselves before they get to work.

  • So it could be, "I'm gonna get to work

  • like 5, 10 minutes early

  • and park a little bit farther away

  • so I can have that time to take that walk

  • to really get in my head,

  • so I can start my day nice and fresh."

  • - And then 'termination' is the last stage

  • where we may not have the urge

  • of that habit that we were looking to break.

  • - After a few times, there are gonna be two habits,

  • and if the second one overwhelms the first one,

  • at some point, your brain's gonna just

  • cut the original one, and you'll have a new habit.

  • - As a therapist, I'm always gonna say

  • that self-evaluation should be a habit.

  • I mean, I'm number one in that camp.

  • But honestly, I think a lot of people

  • don't do that enough.

  • There's so many things that come from

  • awareness and reflection,

  • and maybe even accountability.

  • - One way you can support forming a new habit

  • is getting more social.

  • Tell friends, family members,

  • and maybe even co-workers

  • that you want to make a change.

  • - Associations, connections become really important

  • when we share with a friend.

  • We now associate that friend with our goal.

  • - The sky is the limit

  • when it comes to how you actually behave

  • and act with money.

  • And holistically, things will be better for your life.

  • If you made the effort to just

  • get with us to this moment in the video,

  • you're already a little bit better.

- The habits that are small at the beginning,

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