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every Argentine needs the bidet they use
the bidet you can't take it away you
were to get something on your face would
you rather have it wiped off would you
rather have it washed off sometimes I
wonder if it's a bit of an addiction
because it is shocking to see people
with the mate all day long it was an
acquired taste for sure the ease of
making friends here in Argentina they
take you in and they embrace you as part
of the family and it's like once you're
in you're in at the first Sound of
Thunder people start running around
unplugging all of their Electronics yeah
it's almost like
time is fluid you don't have to be there
on time but you don't have to be that
precise
well well hello hello guys welcome back
to another video good morning how are
you all doing uh for this week's video I
thought we would try something a little
bit different and talk about some of the
cultural differences between Canada
where Sam and I have lived most of our
lives and Argentina where over the past
few years we have been spending a few
months out of the year and well this
time around because we're doing a bit of
a longer stay a longer stretch there are
certain things that we have been
noticing that are very different
cultural shocks cultural differences
whatever you want to call it so I've
been keeping a little list and today
we're going to be covering that let's
begin so difference and number one that
I want to talk about is the meal times
here in Argentina which to me are just
ridiculously late because maybe I'm used
to eating ridiculously early in Canada
but basically one of the biggest
adjustments has been going out to dinner
in Argentina a lot of restaurants don't
even open until 8 pm and they don't
really get going like they don't get
full until 9 or 9 30 onwards I would say
10 p.m is like peak time in an Argentine
restaurant and well in Canada I'm used
to having dinner at 5 PM I feel like
that's the norm for the majority of
Canadians maybe five or six which is
pretty early 5 p.m here is afternoon tea
time or merienda when people will drink
like a tea a coffee some media Lunas
which are croissants or facturas that
type of deal lunch is also much later
here I have been invited to lunch where
we eat at like 2 p.m 2 30 3 and I'm like
really that is my day time I've usually
eaten much earlier I'd say in Canada 12
noon is the standard but Sam and I are
also used to eating our lunch at like 10
30 11 just because we wake up really
early so yeah that's been another
difference this past week we got invited
out to dinner
um at 9 00 PM so now we know to have a
little siesta take a little nap and
obviously eat a first dinner before we
go out to the invitation dinner
difference number two would be the mate
Obsession here in Argentina and what is
matter you ask well it doesn't exist in
North America we don't drink it in
Canada so the best way I can describe it
is as a green tea that is very bitter it
is served loose leaf in a gourd with a
metal straw and this is something that
argentines drink all day long like you
will see people walking around with
their little thermos with hot water so
they can make mate any time of day and
they even sell mate kits like little
materos where you can carry your thermos
your bag of mate your gourd your straw
it's almost like a little purse just to
carry around mate and people do carry it
around everywhere like people really do
walk around with this
um like not just if they're on vacation
not just if they're going out for a
picnic or to the park like they could be
going to work and as they're driving
they're drinking mate or they could be
in the office and they're sipping
and the other unique thing about the
mate is that you share it so basically
there's one gourd with one metal straw
and it gets passed around and shared
with whoever's there it's not that each
person has their own individual mate
with their own straw this is
um I would call it like the great
equalizer because you just you just pass
it around doesn't matter who you are or
whatever and you just drink mati
together so fun fact kettles in
Argentina have a separate setting for
mate
can you see that there
because you don't need the water to boil
for mate
so there we go
it is Mata time friends I'm living my
best campho life in Argentina oh
Countryside I've got my mate in the
gourd uh-huh the bombisa yeah right oh
you know the name I know the names I'm
surprising are you
um it was an acquired taste for sure at
first it wasn't like love at first bite
like for uh dulce de leche or Asado
I mean I've gotten used to this sort of
it's it's a very social drink it gets
passed around when you meet up with
friends you you all share it and that's
sort of how uh my taste buds got
acquired to it over time
oh yeah apparently it's supposed to be
an appetite suppressant too so you carry
this around and you drink it and you
don't have to eat as much food that
might be a good thing for me
and it would have out the The Taste
um yeah it does have a it has sort of an
earthy a little bit more of a bitter
taste I guess comparable it sort of
similar to certain types of green teas
but not not really it really does have
its own unique flavor
um it's very Argentine if you come to
Argentina I highly recommend trying it
you can also just get it in the tea bag
form that's not the the authentic way of
having it but if you don't have the kit
like we do that would be an option
some people like to add sugar to make it
a little bit sweeter but I would say the
traditional way is just bitter green tea
it does energize you and sometimes I
wonder if it's a bit of an addiction
because it is shocking to see people
with the mate all day long I do like it
I do find it tasty you can actually also
get it in little tea bags so I've been
drinking my mate in the morning for
breakfast with a tea bag you can add
milk to it and then it's known as
maticosido but yes if you're ever
traveling around Argentina and you see
people carrying a little gourd around
with a metal straw sipping on it
wherever they are that's what that is
all about and you'll probably be asked
like hey do you like mate I want to have
some
um because they are very very good about
sharing and after you've drank the whole
thing they fill it up again and on to
the next person okay Point number three
third cultural difference I would say is
the ease of making friends here in
Argentina like people are just so open
and so welcoming that they take you in
and they embrace you as part of the
family and it's like once you're in
you're in
um and that shocked us because Sam and I
made so many friends during our first
few trips in Argentina like we would
just meet people and we would click and
then they would be inviting us over for
meals at their home and family outings
and like we just immediately became a
part of their group in a matter of days
and like these are people that we are
still friends with to the to this day
people that we keep in contact people
that we visit uh stuff like that and
like even moving here now that we're
working on the hotel renovation project
we have made a lot of friends in the
village rather quickly just with
neighbors and mutual acquaintances and
things like that and we have a very
active social schedule which is really
strange for me because in Canada we're
not used to going out this much at least
us personally I'm sure it's different
for other Canadians who are probably
super sociable and maybe they just have
like specific Circles of friends that
meet more often but in our case here in
Argentina we get invited out two to
three times a week which is unheard of
for us like two to three times a month
would be a lot of activity but there's
always like a barbecue or a dinner or
like let's go get down to the river
let's do a picnic come on over and watch
the football that type of thing so we
have felt very very connected in our
current Community like we don't feel uh
like Outsiders or like we don't know
anyone we do feel very connected and
yeah it's just it's just shocking how
easy it has been to make friends because
I just think back to like some of my
friendships that I made in in University
in Canada so I went to University in
Toronto and I went to school with some
people for four years like we had
classes together for four years and I
was never invited over to to their house
or like I never met their parents or
like we would rarely get together
outside of class I don't know if maybe
that's because I didn't live on campus
so maybe there was that disconnect but
yeah it was just very different uh so
like here we have people that we've
known for a relatively short amount of
time and we've met their families we've
been to their homes things like that
whereas that's not the case in Canada
but again that's just been my experience
in Canada I'm sure other people have
very different experiences but for the
most part we've noticed that here in
Argentina people are very sociable love
getting together and they love inviting
people and like introducing you to their
friends and like connecting you so
that's been really cool okay so since
we're talking about getting together
with friends going out like continuing
along that same train of thought I would
say another major cultural difference is
the spontaneity argentines are very
spontaneous people who will invite you
places uh very last minute and we're
cool with it we're getting used to it
but like it's happened to Sam and I
where we'll be like walking through town
going for a little stroll maybe like
planning to go to a cafe and we run to
some friends in town and they're like
hey we're on our way to a barbecue are
you guys doing anything want to come and
we're like no we're free so we'll get in
the car and like we'll go off with them
or like invitations
the same day like maybe a few minutes
before the football game is about to
start it's like hey are you guys doing
anything are you planning to watch the
game want to come over to our place and
yeah it's it's like you don't plan in
advance it's you plan in the moment
um and that's that's very cool but it's
different because with a lot of my
Canadian friends we make plans well in
advance like a week or two or three in
advance if like my friends have busy
schedules you know with work and with
kids and with other commitments
um there there isn't that spontaneity
that that doesn't exist and here yeah
like we get invited places last minute
and we've learned to just keep an open
schedule and be flexible and not be like
oh my gosh but you didn't let me know
I'm not ready so yeah now we know to
always keep some bottles of wine in the
house so that if we get invited
somewhere spontaneously we've got
something to take as a gift and we're
not showing up empty-handed so another
little cultural difference between
Canada and Argentina okay next cultural
difference and this could be because
we're in the countryside like this is
probably not the case in the big cities
but because we have like no doorbell or
no actual Bell at our gate at our
entrance to the property it's very
common for people to clap to make
themselves known so sometimes like
you'll be sitting in your living room
doing whatever like working or watching
TV and you hear
and at first I was like what's that
um and then you go out there and you
realize oh it's the neighbor trying to
get my attention someone's visiting and
this is how they're making themselves
known by going
you know but it reminded me of when Sam
and I traveled in in Jordan and we
stayed with the Bedouins for a few days
and they were like teaching us about
their Customs their way of life in the
desert and one of the things they said
is like you don't want to just barge in
on someone's tent you want to kind of
like discreetly make yourself known like
hey I'm out here so they would clear
their throats they would just go like
like just to try and get your attention
inside the tent and that's how you know
like oh my Bedouin neighbor is is out
there calling to me so yeah I just found
out interesting how you know in
different cultures there's different
ways of announcing yourself and well
here in the countryside it's definitely
the
so Samuel is going to demonstrate how
you announce yourself
not like that
not like that it's not like that people
are just kind of go like this I think
consistent clapping right yes yeah
um I had no idea what that was
you did but it totally makes sense
because you're at the Gate of someone's
place there isn't necessarily a bell
although in some cases there is
but most of the time people don't have a
bell at their gate so it's a way of
making some noise kind of letting people
know oh I'd like to get your attention
and then I suppose I'm not sure what the
etiquette is where you just go on I
don't think you would just go into
someone's yard if they didn't respond
but maybe you would keep clapping more
right
yeah you were kind of stay near the gate
and like walk in slowly clap clap clap
clap clap clap hopefully find someone
yes and uh it also yeah you don't want
to be lounging around in here no they
caught that part no you can tell us
you kind of have to be careful with what
you're wearing you know so you can't
hang out hang out in your undies yeah
hang out in your undies or or your slob
wear even things you would be
embarrassed to be caught in
um so yeah you have to be ready for all
times of day we've also had people clap
at night too so
be ready for visits oh okay so another
big cultural difference I would say is
Siesta time or nap time which I mean we
have gladly adopted because the
schedules are very different here things
do run late and you do need that extra
burst of energy that you get from a nap
but basically I do find Siesta time very
interesting because it does mean that
cities and towns basically shut down in
the afternoons and each business
schedule really varies like people set
their own Siesta hours but for example I
would say between 1 and 4 pm you
shouldn't try to do anything anywhere
because you'll most likely get there and
find out that you know the corner store
has closed or the bank has closed or the
butcher is closed like people close up
shop they go have their little siesta
and then they have slightly longer hours
like they might be open from four to
eight or four to nine maybe even until
10 in the cities like I said it really
varies from business to business
but one of the shocking things for me
was in terms of banking here that where
we are well not even where we are and
the neighboring town that actually has a
bank the bank is only open from 9am to
1pm and then that's that's it for the
day you need to do any banking I'm very
sorry but you'll have to return tomorrow
so that was a bit of a shock that
certain businesses are not open all day
long and I kind of view them as pretty
essential businesses but anyway we're
working with their schedule we're
adapting but definitely if we ever need
to run an errand here like we do check
the schedules before heading out and we
know that doing things in the morning is
always best because you can guarantee
that a place will be open in the
afternoons not so much all right I
thought I would set you up here next to
the flowers next to the blooms because
they really are beautiful and it smells
so nice these white flowers
have such a nice sense such a nice Aroma
I love it I don't know what they're
called
um but anyway next cultural difference
is in regards to the existence of the
bidet have you heard of the bidet why
are we in the bathroom
good question why are we in them why are
we in the bathroom what are you going to
demonstrate apparently I'm going to be
demonstrating the bidet yeah which is
how you clean yourself here and
um the best way I've heard someone
explain this is if you were to get
something on your face would you rather
have it wiped off would you rather have
it washed off and so that's a another
bad framework of thinking about how
things work here you can do both systems
but I think most people do both systems
but uh this is the bidet down here okay
so you have hot and cold water why do we
have three knobs
well I mean just hot and cold water
uh-huh so let's let's do this
turn it on see yeah oh it sprays quite
well yes you can regulate you maneuver
yourself as such and when you have the
Caliente the cold so free
a little too excited so this this
adjusts the the spray yes so let's do
that let's open hot cold and then adjust
open a little bit okay open a little bit
uh-huh
see how that changes
and what's that for
what
what's that
this yes
I don't know what do you do that's the
soap for your bum you can't be using the
soap for your hand of course
there you go special soap we don't we
don't have any right now empty
and you would have a special towel as
well right everyone has their own bum
towel bum towel yeah
you get used to having a bone towel here
indeed thank you for the demonstration
you're most welcome anyways in Argentina
every single bathroom has a bidet next
to the toilet and it's basically this
this system of washing your your bum
with water after going to the bathroom
you can regulate the water temperature
hot cold adjust the the height of the
sprinkle the spray
and yes like without fail there's a
bidet in the bathroom and for me like I
had never seen a bidet outside of
Argentina until Sam and I traveled in in
Japan and like Japan is renowned for
their futuristic toilets I mean
you can do all sorts of things in there
like control the temperature for the
seat control the temperature for the
water you can play music if you're
feeling shy so yeah the first time we
went to Japan we definitely tried their
their futuristic toilets their bidet
they're spray
and here as well it's actually it's nice
once you get used to having a bidet it's
very very nice and I've noticed in like
in Canada and North America in general
they're trying to promote the the idea
of a bidet like I'm seeing the ads I'm
seeing the commercials
um but it's the spray kind so like not
uh like a separate bathroom fixture
let's say but it's like this hose that
you connect and it's got like a spray
but because in Canada we don't use the
bidet and like we don't have all the
connections all the installations
generally it's just cold water and it's
really nice to have warm water so if you
do decide to get a bidet and try that
out definitely connect it to the the
warm water so you can like regulate but
yeah bidets are popular here oh and
because we're renovating a house and
we've got the hotel to renovate and all
that the other day I was asking an
Argentine friend of ours like hey like
what do you think of me removing the
bidets from the bathroom just to make
them more spacious more open and he was
like no you cannot do that here like
every Argentine needs the bidet they use
the bidet you can't take it away so it's
like okay it's part of the culture I
think it's a good thing to be honest it
is clean it is hygienic we should have
it in more parts of the world but well
that is the situation okay so another
major difference here in Argentina is
that at the first sight of lightning or
at the first Sound of Thunder people
start running around unplugging all of
their Electronics all of them all of
them and I used to think like this is
overkill like what's what's going to
happen what's the big deal I've never
run around on plugging things back in
Canada
but since we've arrived
how long have we been here now we've
been here about two months we've had two
internet modems get fried from the storm
Electronics really do get cooked here
and I'm not entirely sure why I don't
know if it's like the old electric
sockets that don't have that third
grounding prong or if it's just the area
we're in like we do got some crazy
electric storms here there have been
Storm Chasers to come and study it but
basically
the weather here is crazy and it Cooks
your electric appliances
it's happened twice in the last two
months as well that we have been in the
house and we have seen electricity shoot
out of the electric sockets like what is
going on like just this like flash of
light and yeah I used to not get it at
first like why why this fear like why
this phobia even and like the need to
like run around right away but now I get
it and now we do the same we hear
thunder and it's like
we need to start unplugging and there we
go like computers modems
camera Chargers anything like that it
gets unplugged so yeah save those
Electronics that's a tip for anybody
who's planning to travel in Argentina
good for you to know unplug your stuff
during a storm okay Point number nine
another Argentine cultural difference
for somebody coming from Canada would be
of a punctuality or a lack thereof
things are different here they're a lot
more relaxed and yeah it's almost like
time is fluid you don't have to be there
on time you don't have to be that
precise uh so yeah there's been a few
times where I've had to go to um
meetings and I've been told a certain
time and I arrive early like I will get
there 15 minutes early I do not like
being late so I will get there and I'm
waiting I notice no one else is here
early and then I noticed no one else is
here on time it's usually a bit later on
that people start showing up
so the same thing goes for like since
we're in construction doing renovations
right now sometimes people will tell you
like oh yeah I'll be there tomorrow but
no they do not come tomorrow they come
later in the week or yeah yeah I'll be
there at 5 p.m
um some people are good about it I'm not
saying everybody is like this uh yeah
but it it is different I am adapting and
I am learning that if somebody tells you
7 PM it could be 7 15 or 7 30 and just
gotta be flexible go with the flow and
last but not least
this might be actually one of the the
bigger cultural shocks that I had to
adapt to cultural changes let's say is
um
it's in regards to WhatsApp and sending
audio messages
so in Canada I'm very used to texting
unless I'm like chatting with like my
best friends like closest to friends
like then yes we'll send each other
audio messages but for the most part you
text people you don't typically call and
you don't typically send audio messages
because it almost feels like an
imposition to the other person if you've
sent an audio they have to reply via
audio and I don't know like maybe you
just feel a little nervous about
chatting on the phone I know when I was
younger like even in my 20s
um if I had to call any place to do like
some kind of errand or a bureaucratic
stuff or whatever I would have to write
down what I had to say because I would
get so nervous on the phone that
everything would just go out of my mind
and like I I couldn't speak I couldn't
verbalize what I needed
um so yeah maybe that's another thing
another reason why I find uh audio
messaging
um different but something that I've
definitely gotten used to but here to
communicate people use WhatsApp a lot
and they send audio messages like well
they'll just talk to you like
no texting and I've asked why and they
just said well it's so much easier why
would I want to sit there typing when I
can just uh tell you so At first I felt
very awkward sending audio messages on
Whatsapp it was just weird to be talking
to myself but sending an audio message
to someone it just didn't feel the most
natural but well every everybody does
that you just send audio notes all day
long to everybody to your friends to
your workers to whomever so yes I I am
getting used to that I think my my audio
notes are starting to sound more natural
it's just like talking to somebody but
man at first that was weird that was
different but I guess it shouldn't
really surprise me that people do audio
notes a lot here because I would say
argentines are very chatty they're very
outgoing people I would say for for the
most part they love to talk so yes why
wouldn't they love to talk on the phone
so yeah that's that's another thing I've
gotten used to WhatsApp I am becoming
the queen of communication on WhatsApp
but definitely a big change from
Audrey 10 years ago let's say or maybe
15 years ago who used to hate picking up
a phone couldn't imagine having to send
somebody an audio note it was all just
text or email but well coming out of the
show here we are growing
um so yeah I think that's where we'll
we'll end the video those are cultural
shocks cultural differences
I've noticed in in Argentina as a
Canadian I'm sure there's going to be
more so if you enjoy this type of video
uh let me know and I I can make more
videos in the future as we continue to
adapt to to our new home so yeah again
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