Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles every Argentine needs the bidet they use the bidet you can't take it away you were to get something on your face would you rather have it wiped off would you rather have it washed off sometimes I wonder if it's a bit of an addiction because it is shocking to see people with the mate all day long it was an acquired taste for sure the ease of making friends here in Argentina they take you in and they embrace you as part of the family and it's like once you're in you're in at the first Sound of Thunder people start running around unplugging all of their Electronics yeah it's almost like time is fluid you don't have to be there on time but you don't have to be that precise well well hello hello guys welcome back to another video good morning how are you all doing uh for this week's video I thought we would try something a little bit different and talk about some of the cultural differences between Canada where Sam and I have lived most of our lives and Argentina where over the past few years we have been spending a few months out of the year and well this time around because we're doing a bit of a longer stay a longer stretch there are certain things that we have been noticing that are very different cultural shocks cultural differences whatever you want to call it so I've been keeping a little list and today we're going to be covering that let's begin so difference and number one that I want to talk about is the meal times here in Argentina which to me are just ridiculously late because maybe I'm used to eating ridiculously early in Canada but basically one of the biggest adjustments has been going out to dinner in Argentina a lot of restaurants don't even open until 8 pm and they don't really get going like they don't get full until 9 or 9 30 onwards I would say 10 p.m is like peak time in an Argentine restaurant and well in Canada I'm used to having dinner at 5 PM I feel like that's the norm for the majority of Canadians maybe five or six which is pretty early 5 p.m here is afternoon tea time or merienda when people will drink like a tea a coffee some media Lunas which are croissants or facturas that type of deal lunch is also much later here I have been invited to lunch where we eat at like 2 p.m 2 30 3 and I'm like really that is my day time I've usually eaten much earlier I'd say in Canada 12 noon is the standard but Sam and I are also used to eating our lunch at like 10 30 11 just because we wake up really early so yeah that's been another difference this past week we got invited out to dinner um at 9 00 PM so now we know to have a little siesta take a little nap and obviously eat a first dinner before we go out to the invitation dinner difference number two would be the mate Obsession here in Argentina and what is matter you ask well it doesn't exist in North America we don't drink it in Canada so the best way I can describe it is as a green tea that is very bitter it is served loose leaf in a gourd with a metal straw and this is something that argentines drink all day long like you will see people walking around with their little thermos with hot water so they can make mate any time of day and they even sell mate kits like little materos where you can carry your thermos your bag of mate your gourd your straw it's almost like a little purse just to carry around mate and people do carry it around everywhere like people really do walk around with this um like not just if they're on vacation not just if they're going out for a picnic or to the park like they could be going to work and as they're driving they're drinking mate or they could be in the office and they're sipping and the other unique thing about the mate is that you share it so basically there's one gourd with one metal straw and it gets passed around and shared with whoever's there it's not that each person has their own individual mate with their own straw this is um I would call it like the great equalizer because you just you just pass it around doesn't matter who you are or whatever and you just drink mati together so fun fact kettles in Argentina have a separate setting for mate can you see that there because you don't need the water to boil for mate so there we go it is Mata time friends I'm living my best campho life in Argentina oh Countryside I've got my mate in the gourd uh-huh the bombisa yeah right oh you know the name I know the names I'm surprising are you um it was an acquired taste for sure at first it wasn't like love at first bite like for uh dulce de leche or Asado I mean I've gotten used to this sort of it's it's a very social drink it gets passed around when you meet up with friends you you all share it and that's sort of how uh my taste buds got acquired to it over time oh yeah apparently it's supposed to be an appetite suppressant too so you carry this around and you drink it and you don't have to eat as much food that might be a good thing for me and it would have out the The Taste um yeah it does have a it has sort of an earthy a little bit more of a bitter taste I guess comparable it sort of similar to certain types of green teas but not not really it really does have its own unique flavor um it's very Argentine if you come to Argentina I highly recommend trying it you can also just get it in the tea bag form that's not the the authentic way of having it but if you don't have the kit like we do that would be an option some people like to add sugar to make it a little bit sweeter but I would say the traditional way is just bitter green tea it does energize you and sometimes I wonder if it's a bit of an addiction because it is shocking to see people with the mate all day long I do like it I do find it tasty you can actually also get it in little tea bags so I've been drinking my mate in the morning for breakfast with a tea bag you can add milk to it and then it's known as maticosido but yes if you're ever traveling around Argentina and you see people carrying a little gourd around with a metal straw sipping on it wherever they are that's what that is all about and you'll probably be asked like hey do you like mate I want to have some um because they are very very good about sharing and after you've drank the whole thing they fill it up again and on to the next person okay Point number three third cultural difference I would say is the ease of making friends here in Argentina like people are just so open and so welcoming that they take you in and they embrace you as part of the family and it's like once you're in you're in um and that shocked us because Sam and I made so many friends during our first few trips in Argentina like we would just meet people and we would click and then they would be inviting us over for meals at their home and family outings and like we just immediately became a part of their group in a matter of days and like these are people that we are still friends with to the to this day people that we keep in contact people that we visit uh stuff like that and like even moving here now that we're working on the hotel renovation project we have made a lot of friends in the village rather quickly just with neighbors and mutual acquaintances and things like that and we have a very active social schedule which is really strange for me because in Canada we're not used to going out this much at least us personally I'm sure it's different for other Canadians who are probably super sociable and maybe they just have like specific Circles of friends that meet more often but in our case here in Argentina we get invited out two to three times a week which is unheard of for us like two to three times a month would be a lot of activity but there's always like a barbecue or a dinner or like let's go get down to the river let's do a picnic come on over and watch the football that type of thing so we have felt very very connected in our current Community like we don't feel uh like Outsiders or like we don't know anyone we do feel very connected and yeah it's just it's just shocking how easy it has been to make friends because I just think back to like some of my friendships that I made in in University in Canada so I went to University in Toronto and I went to school with some people for four years like we had classes together for four years and I was never invited over to to their house or like I never met their parents or like we would rarely get together outside of class I don't know if maybe that's because I didn't live on campus so maybe there was that disconnect but yeah it was just very different uh so like here we have people that we've known for a relatively short amount of time and we've met their families we've been to their homes things like that whereas that's not the case in Canada but again that's just been my experience in Canada I'm sure other people have very different experiences but for the most part we've noticed that here in Argentina people are very sociable love getting together and they love inviting people and like introducing you to their friends and like connecting you so that's been really cool okay so since we're talking about getting together with friends going out like continuing along that same train of thought I would say another major cultural difference is the spontaneity argentines are very spontaneous people who will invite you places uh very last minute and we're cool with it we're getting used to it but like it's happened to Sam and I where we'll be like walking through town going for a little stroll maybe like planning to go to a cafe and we run to some friends in town and they're like hey we're on our way to a barbecue are you guys doing anything want to come and we're like no we're free so we'll get in the car and like we'll go off with them or like invitations the same day like maybe a few minutes before the football game is about to start it's like hey are you guys doing anything are you planning to watch the game want to come over to our place and yeah it's it's like you don't plan in advance it's you plan in the moment um and that's that's very cool but it's different because with a lot of my Canadian friends we make plans well in advance like a week or two or three in advance if like my friends have busy schedules you know with work and with kids and with other commitments um there there isn't that spontaneity that that doesn't exist and here yeah like we get invited places last minute and we've learned to just keep an open schedule and be flexible and not be like oh my gosh but you didn't let me know I'm not ready so yeah now we know to always keep some bottles of wine in the house so that if we get invited somewhere spontaneously we've got something to take as a gift and we're not showing up empty-handed so another little cultural difference between Canada and Argentina okay next cultural difference and this could be because we're in the countryside like this is probably not the case in the big cities but because we have like no doorbell or no actual Bell at our gate at our entrance to the property it's very common for people to clap to make themselves known so sometimes like you'll be sitting in your living room doing whatever like working or watching TV and you hear and at first I was like what's that um and then you go out there and you realize oh it's the neighbor trying to get my attention someone's visiting and this is how they're making themselves known by going you know but it reminded me of when Sam and I traveled in in Jordan and we stayed with the Bedouins for a few days and they were like teaching us about their Customs their way of life in the desert and one of the things they said is like you don't want to just barge in on someone's tent you want to kind of like discreetly make yourself known like hey I'm out here so they would clear their throats they would just go like like just to try and get your attention inside the tent and that's how you know like oh my Bedouin neighbor is is out there calling to me so yeah I just found out interesting how you know in different cultures there's different ways of announcing yourself and well here in the countryside it's definitely the so Samuel is going to demonstrate how you announce yourself not like that not like that it's not like that people are just kind of go like this I think consistent clapping right yes yeah um I had no idea what that was you did but it totally makes sense because you're at the Gate of someone's place there isn't necessarily a bell although in some cases there is but most of the time people don't have a bell at their gate so it's a way of making some noise kind of letting people know oh I'd like to get your attention and then I suppose I'm not sure what the etiquette is where you just go on I don't think you would just go into someone's yard if they didn't respond but maybe you would keep clapping more right yeah you were kind of stay near the gate and like walk in slowly clap clap clap clap clap clap hopefully find someone yes and uh it also yeah you don't want to be lounging around in here no they caught that part no you can tell us you kind of have to be careful with what you're wearing you know so you can't hang out hang out in your undies yeah hang out in your undies or or your slob wear even things you would be embarrassed to be caught in um so yeah you have to be ready for all times of day we've also had people clap at night too so be ready for visits oh okay so another big cultural difference I would say is Siesta time or nap time which I mean we have gladly adopted because the schedules are very different here things do run late and you do need that extra burst of energy that you get from a nap but basically I do find Siesta time very interesting because it does mean that cities and towns basically shut down in the afternoons and each business schedule really varies like people set their own Siesta hours but for example I would say between 1 and 4 pm you shouldn't try to do anything anywhere because you'll most likely get there and find out that you know the corner store has closed or the bank has closed or the butcher is closed like people close up shop they go have their little siesta and then they have slightly longer hours like they might be open from four to eight or four to nine maybe even until 10 in the cities like I said it really varies from business to business but one of the shocking things for me was in terms of banking here that where we are well not even where we are and the neighboring town that actually has a bank the bank is only open from 9am to 1pm and then that's that's it for the day you need to do any banking I'm very sorry but you'll have to return tomorrow so that was a bit of a shock that certain businesses are not open all day long and I kind of view them as pretty essential businesses but anyway we're working with their schedule we're adapting but definitely if we ever need to run an errand here like we do check the schedules before heading out and we know that doing things in the morning is always best because you can guarantee that a place will be open in the afternoons not so much all right I thought I would set you up here next to the flowers next to the blooms because they really are beautiful and it smells so nice these white flowers have such a nice sense such a nice Aroma I love it I don't know what they're called um but anyway next cultural difference is in regards to the existence of the bidet have you heard of the bidet why are we in the bathroom good question why are we in them why are we in the bathroom what are you going to demonstrate apparently I'm going to be demonstrating the bidet yeah which is how you clean yourself here and um the best way I've heard someone explain this is if you were to get something on your face would you rather have it wiped off would you rather have it washed off and so that's a another bad framework of thinking about how things work here you can do both systems but I think most people do both systems but uh this is the bidet down here okay so you have hot and cold water why do we have three knobs well I mean just hot and cold water uh-huh so let's let's do this turn it on see yeah oh it sprays quite well yes you can regulate you maneuver yourself as such and when you have the Caliente the cold so free a little too excited so this this adjusts the the spray yes so let's do that let's open hot cold and then adjust open a little bit okay open a little bit uh-huh see how that changes and what's that for what what's that this yes I don't know what do you do that's the soap for your bum you can't be using the soap for your hand of course there you go special soap we don't we don't have any right now empty and you would have a special towel as well right everyone has their own bum towel bum towel yeah you get used to having a bone towel here indeed thank you for the demonstration you're most welcome anyways in Argentina every single bathroom has a bidet next to the toilet and it's basically this this system of washing your your bum with water after going to the bathroom you can regulate the water temperature hot cold adjust the the height of the sprinkle the spray and yes like without fail there's a bidet in the bathroom and for me like I had never seen a bidet outside of Argentina until Sam and I traveled in in Japan and like Japan is renowned for their futuristic toilets I mean you can do all sorts of things in there like control the temperature for the seat control the temperature for the water you can play music if you're feeling shy so yeah the first time we went to Japan we definitely tried their their futuristic toilets their bidet they're spray and here as well it's actually it's nice once you get used to having a bidet it's very very nice and I've noticed in like in Canada and North America in general they're trying to promote the the idea of a bidet like I'm seeing the ads I'm seeing the commercials um but it's the spray kind so like not uh like a separate bathroom fixture let's say but it's like this hose that you connect and it's got like a spray but because in Canada we don't use the bidet and like we don't have all the connections all the installations generally it's just cold water and it's really nice to have warm water so if you do decide to get a bidet and try that out definitely connect it to the the warm water so you can like regulate but yeah bidets are popular here oh and because we're renovating a house and we've got the hotel to renovate and all that the other day I was asking an Argentine friend of ours like hey like what do you think of me removing the bidets from the bathroom just to make them more spacious more open and he was like no you cannot do that here like every Argentine needs the bidet they use the bidet you can't take it away so it's like okay it's part of the culture I think it's a good thing to be honest it is clean it is hygienic we should have it in more parts of the world but well that is the situation okay so another major difference here in Argentina is that at the first sight of lightning or at the first Sound of Thunder people start running around unplugging all of their Electronics all of them all of them and I used to think like this is overkill like what's what's going to happen what's the big deal I've never run around on plugging things back in Canada but since we've arrived how long have we been here now we've been here about two months we've had two internet modems get fried from the storm Electronics really do get cooked here and I'm not entirely sure why I don't know if it's like the old electric sockets that don't have that third grounding prong or if it's just the area we're in like we do got some crazy electric storms here there have been Storm Chasers to come and study it but basically the weather here is crazy and it Cooks your electric appliances it's happened twice in the last two months as well that we have been in the house and we have seen electricity shoot out of the electric sockets like what is going on like just this like flash of light and yeah I used to not get it at first like why why this fear like why this phobia even and like the need to like run around right away but now I get it and now we do the same we hear thunder and it's like we need to start unplugging and there we go like computers modems camera Chargers anything like that it gets unplugged so yeah save those Electronics that's a tip for anybody who's planning to travel in Argentina good for you to know unplug your stuff during a storm okay Point number nine another Argentine cultural difference for somebody coming from Canada would be of a punctuality or a lack thereof things are different here they're a lot more relaxed and yeah it's almost like time is fluid you don't have to be there on time you don't have to be that precise uh so yeah there's been a few times where I've had to go to um meetings and I've been told a certain time and I arrive early like I will get there 15 minutes early I do not like being late so I will get there and I'm waiting I notice no one else is here early and then I noticed no one else is here on time it's usually a bit later on that people start showing up so the same thing goes for like since we're in construction doing renovations right now sometimes people will tell you like oh yeah I'll be there tomorrow but no they do not come tomorrow they come later in the week or yeah yeah I'll be there at 5 p.m um some people are good about it I'm not saying everybody is like this uh yeah but it it is different I am adapting and I am learning that if somebody tells you 7 PM it could be 7 15 or 7 30 and just gotta be flexible go with the flow and last but not least this might be actually one of the the bigger cultural shocks that I had to adapt to cultural changes let's say is um it's in regards to WhatsApp and sending audio messages so in Canada I'm very used to texting unless I'm like chatting with like my best friends like closest to friends like then yes we'll send each other audio messages but for the most part you text people you don't typically call and you don't typically send audio messages because it almost feels like an imposition to the other person if you've sent an audio they have to reply via audio and I don't know like maybe you just feel a little nervous about chatting on the phone I know when I was younger like even in my 20s um if I had to call any place to do like some kind of errand or a bureaucratic stuff or whatever I would have to write down what I had to say because I would get so nervous on the phone that everything would just go out of my mind and like I I couldn't speak I couldn't verbalize what I needed um so yeah maybe that's another thing another reason why I find uh audio messaging um different but something that I've definitely gotten used to but here to communicate people use WhatsApp a lot and they send audio messages like well they'll just talk to you like no texting and I've asked why and they just said well it's so much easier why would I want to sit there typing when I can just uh tell you so At first I felt very awkward sending audio messages on Whatsapp it was just weird to be talking to myself but sending an audio message to someone it just didn't feel the most natural but well every everybody does that you just send audio notes all day long to everybody to your friends to your workers to whomever so yes I I am getting used to that I think my my audio notes are starting to sound more natural it's just like talking to somebody but man at first that was weird that was different but I guess it shouldn't really surprise me that people do audio notes a lot here because I would say argentines are very chatty they're very outgoing people I would say for for the most part they love to talk so yes why wouldn't they love to talk on the phone so yeah that's that's another thing I've gotten used to WhatsApp I am becoming the queen of communication on WhatsApp but definitely a big change from Audrey 10 years ago let's say or maybe 15 years ago who used to hate picking up a phone couldn't imagine having to send somebody an audio note it was all just text or email but well coming out of the show here we are growing um so yeah I think that's where we'll we'll end the video those are cultural shocks cultural differences I've noticed in in Argentina as a Canadian I'm sure there's going to be more so if you enjoy this type of video uh let me know and I I can make more videos in the future as we continue to adapt to to our new home so yeah again if you enjoyed this video feel free to give it a like subscribe and we'll be seeing you next weekend with more videos Tata [Music] [Applause] foreign [Applause] [Music]
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