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- I would like now to introduce Jason King
Chair and Associate Professor
of the Clive Davis Institute of Recorded Music,
Tisch School of the Arts,
who will present the candidate for Doctor of Fine Arts.
Will trustee, Brett Racon,
please escort the candidate to the lectern.
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- Taylor Swift
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blazing singer, songwriter, producer, director, actress,
pioneering and influential advocate for artists' rights
and philanthropist.
You have brought joy and resolve
to your hundreds of millions of fans throughout the world.
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One of the best selling music artists in history.
You have crossed genres, demographics, age groups
and borders of all kinds
to touch lives around the globe.
With nine original studio albums
two re-recorded studio albums,
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five extended plays, three live albums and 14 compilations.
You have sold well over 100 million album units,
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earning awards and honors in every category.
You have used the remarkable platform you earned
to galvanize support for the Equality Act
to prevent discrimination
on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity.
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And you have spoken out
and you have supported initiatives
to protect women and girls
from harassment and sexual assaults.
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You have donated significantly
to victims of floods and tornadoes,
for cancer research, literacy programs for children
and public education.
You have fearlessly challenged the exploitation
of music artists
and successfully championed their right
to be compensated for their work.
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- Taylor Swift, (audience cheering)
you are a role model across the world
for your unprecedented talent and accomplishment,
your fierce advocacy
for protection of those facing discrimination
and your commitment to speaking out
forcefully, eloquently and effectively
on behalf of all artists.
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By virtue of the authority vested in me,
I am pleased to confer upon you
the degree of Doctor of Fine Arts honoris causa.
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I am now pleased to introduce Taylor Swift,
who will respond
on behalf of the honorary degree recipients.
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- Hi, I'm Taylor.
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Last time I was in a stadium this size
I was dancing in heels and wearing a glittery leotard.
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This outfit is much more comfortable.
I would like to say a huge thank you
to NYU's Chairman of the Board of Trustees, Bill Berkeley
and all the trustees and members of the board.
NYU's President Andrew Hamilton, Provost Katherine Fleming
and the faculty and alumni here today,
who have made this day possible.
I feel so proud to share this day with my fellow honorees
Susan Hockfield and Félix Matos Rodríguez,
who humble me with the ways they improve our world
with their work.
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As for me, I'm 90% sure, the main reason I'm here
is because I have a song called "22."
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And let me just say, I am elated to be here with you today,
as we celebrate and graduate
New York University's Class of 2022.
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Not a single one of us here today has done it alone.
We are each a patchwork quilt of those who have loved us,
those who have believed in our futures,
those who showed us empathy and kindness
or told us the truth, even when it wasn't easy to hear.
Those who told us we could do it
when there was absolutely no proof of that.
Someone read stories to you and taught you to dream
and offered up some moral code of right and wrong
for you to try and live by.
Someone, tried their best to explain every concept
in this insanely complex world,
to the child that was you,
as you asked a bazillion questions,
like how does the moon work
and why can we eat salad, but not grass?
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And maybe they didn't do it perfectly,
no one ever can.
Maybe they aren't with us anymore.
In that case, I hope you'll remember them today.
If they are in this stadium,
I hope you'll find your own way to express your gratitude
for all the steps and missteps
that have led us to this common destination.
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I know that words are supposed to be my thing
but I will never be able to find the words
to thank my mom and dad, my brother, Austin,
for the sacrifices they made every day,
so I could go from singing in coffee houses
to standing up here with you all today
because no words would ever be enough.
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To all the incredible parents, family members, mentors
teachers, allies, friends, and loved ones here today,
who have supported these students
in their pursuit of educational enrichment.
Let me say to you now welcome to New York,
it's been waiting for you.
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I'd like to thank NYU for making me
technically, on paper at least, a doctor.
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Not the type of doctor you would want around
in case of an emergency,
unless your specific emergency
was that you desperately needed to hear a song
with a catchy hook
and an intensely cathartic bridge section.
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Or if your emergency was that you needed a person
who can name over 50 breeds of cats in one minute.
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I never got to have a normal college experience per se.
I went to public high school until 10th grade
and then finished my education,
doing homeschool work on the floors of airport terminals.
Then I went out on the road for radio tour
which sounds incredibly glamorous,
but in reality it consisted of a rental car, motels,
and my mom and I,
pretending to have loud mother-daughter fights
with each other during boarding,
so no one would want the empty seat between us on Southwest.
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As a kid, I always thought I would go away to college,
imagining the posters I would hang on the wall
of my freshman dorm.
I even set the ending of my music video
from my song "Love Story" at my fantasy imaginary college
where I meet a male model, reading a book on the grass.
And with one single glance
we realized we had been in love in our past lives
which is exactly what you guys all experienced
at some point in the last four years, right?
But I really can't complain
about not having a normal college experience to you
because you went to NYU during a global pandemic
being essentially locked into your dorms
and having to do classes over Zoom.
Everyone in college during normal times
stresses about test scores.
But on top of that
you also had to pass like a thousand COVID tests.
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I imagine the idea of a normal college experience
was all you wanted too.
But in this case, you and I both learned
that you don't always get all the things in the bag
that you selected from the menu
in the delivery surface that is life.
You get what you get.
And as I would like to say to you wholeheartedly
you should be very proud of what you've done with it.
Today, you leave New York University
and then go out into the world, searching what's next,
and so will I.
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So as a rule, I try not to give anyone unsolicited advice
unless they ask for it.
I'll go into this more later.
I guess I have been officially solicited in this situation
to impart whatever wisdom I might have
to tell you things that have helped me so far in my life.
Please bear in mind
that I in no way feel qualified to tell you what to do.
You've worked and struggled and sacrificed
and studied and dreamed your way here today.
And so, you know what you're doing
you'll do things differently
than I did them and for different reasons.
So I won't tell you to what to do
'cause no one likes that.
I will, however, give you some life hacks, I wish I knew
when I was starting out my dreams of a career
and navigating life, love, pressure, choices,
shame, hope, and friendship.
The first of which is, life can be heavy
especially if you try to carry it all at once.
Part of growing up and moving into new chapters of your life
is about catch and release.
What I mean by that is,
knowing what things to keep and what things to release.
You can't carry all things, all grudges
all updates on your ex,
all enviable promotions your school bully got
at the hedge fund his uncle started.
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Decide what is yours to hold and let the rest go.
Oftentimes, the good things in your life are lighter anyway,
so there's more room for them.
One toxic relationship
can outweigh so many wonderful, simple joys.
You get to pick what your life has time and room for.
Be discerning.
Secondly, learn to live alongside cringe.
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No matter how hard you try to avoid being cringe,
you will look back on your life and cringe retrospectively.
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Cringe is unavoidable over a lifetime.
Even the term cringe might someday be deemed cringe.
I promise you're probably doing
or wearing something right now
that you will look back on later
and find revolting and hilarious.
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You can't avoid it, so don't try to.
For example I had a phase where for the entirety of 2012,
I dressed like a 1950's housewife
But you know what? I was having fun.
Trends and phases are fun.
Looking back and laughing is fun.
And while we're talking about things that make us squirm
but really shouldn't.
I'd like to say I'm a big advocate
for not hiding your enthusiasm for things.
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It seems to me that there is a false stigma around eagerness
in our culture of unbothered, ambivalence.
This outlook perpetuates the idea
that it's not cool to want it.
That people who don't try
are fundamentally more chic than people who do.
And I wouldn't know because I've been a lot of things
but I've never been an expert on chic
but I'm the one who's up here,
so you have to listen to me when I say this,
never be ashamed of trying.
Effortlessness is a myth.
The people who wanted it the least
were the ones I wanted to date
and be friends with in high school.
The people who want it the most
are the people I now hire to work for my company.
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I started writing songs when I was 12.
And since then it's been the compass guiding my life,
and in turn, my life guided my writing
everything I do is just an extension of my writing
whether it's directing videos or a short film
creating the visuals for a tour
or standing on a stage performing.
Everything is connected by my love of the craft
the thrill of working through ideas
and narrowing them down and polishing it all up in the end,
editing, waking up in the middle of the night,
throwing out the old idea
because you just thought of a new or better one
or a plot device that ties the whole thing together.
There's a reason they call it a hook.
Sometimes a string of words just ensnares me
and I can't focus on anything
until it's been recorded or written down.
As a songwriter I've never been able to sit still
or stay in one creative place for too long.
I've made and released 11 albums
and in the process, I've switched genre
from country to pop, to alternative to folk.
And this might sound
like a very songwriter-centric line of discussion,
but in a way I really do think we are all writers
and most of us write in a different voice
for different situations.
You write differently in your Instagram stories
than you do your senior thesis.
You send a different type of email to your boss
than you do your best friend from home.
We are all literary chameleons and I think it's fascinating.
It's just a continuation of the idea
that we are so many things all the time.
And I know it can be really overwhelming
figuring out who to be and when,
who you are now and how to act
in order to get where you wanna go.
I have some good news. It's totally up to you.
I have some terrifying news.
It's totally up to you.
I said to you earlier that I don't ever offer advice
unless someone asked me for it
and now I'll tell you why.
As a person who started my very public career
at the age of 15, it came with a price
and that price was years of unsolicited advice.
Being the youngest person in every room for over a decade
meant that I was constantly being issued warnings
from older members of the music industry,
media, interviewers, executives
and this advice often presented itself
as thinly veiled warnings.
See, I was a teenager at a time
when our society was absolutely obsessed
with the idea of having perfect young female role models.
It felt like every interview I did
included slight barbs by the interviewer
about me one day, running off the rails
and that meant a different thing
to every person who said it to me.
So I became a young adult while being fed the message
that if I didn't make any mistakes,
all the children of America
would grow up to be perfect angels.
However, if I did slip up,
the entire earth would fall off its axis
and it would be entirely my fault
and I would go to pop star jail forever and ever.
It was all centered around the idea
that mistakes equal failure
and ultimately the loss of any chance
at a happy or rewarding life.
This has not been my experience.
My experience has been that my mistakes
led to the best things in my life
and being embarrassed when you mess up
it's part of the human experience.
Getting back up, dusting yourself off
and seeing who still wants to hang out with you afterward
and laugh about it, that's a gift.
The times I was told no or wasn't included,
wasn't chosen, didn't win, didn't make the cut,
looking back, it really feels like those moments
were as important if not more crucial
than the moments I was told, yes.
Not being invited
to the parties and sleepovers in my hometown
made me feel hopelessly lonely,
but because I felt alone, I would sit in my room
and write the songs
that would get me a ticket somewhere else.
Having label executives in Nashville tell me
that only 35 year old housewives listen to country music
and there was no place for a 13 year old on their roster
made me cry in the car on the way home
but then I'd post my songs on my MySpace and yes, MySpace.
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And I would message with other teenagers like me
who loved country music
but just didn't have anyone singing from their perspective.
Having journalists write in depth
oftentimes critical pieces about who they perceive me to be
made me feel like I was living in some weird simulation
but it also made me look inward
to learn about who I actually am.
Having the world treat my love life
like a spectator sport
in which I lose every single game
was not a great way to date in my teens and twenties,
but it taught me to protect my private life fiercely.
Being publicly humiliated over and over again at a young age
was excruciatingly painful
but it forced me to devalue the ridiculous notion
of minute by minute,
ever fluctuating social relevance and likability.
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Getting canceled on the internet and nearly losing my career
gave me an excellent knowledge of all the types of wine.
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I know I sound like a consummate optimist
but I'm really not.
I lose perspective all the time.
Sometimes everything just feels completely pointless.
I know the pressure of living your life
through the lens of perfectionism
and I know that I'm talking to a group of perfectionists
because you are here today, graduating from NYU.
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So this might be hard for you to hear.
In your life, you will inevitably misspeak,
trust the wrong person, under react, overreact
hurt the people who didn't deserve it,
overthink, not think at all, self-sabotage,
create a reality where only your experience exists,
ruin perfectly good moments for yourself and others,
deny any wrongdoing, not take the steps to make it right,
feel very guilty, let the guilt eat at you, hit rock bottom.
Finally, address the pain you caused,
try to do better next time, rinse, repeat.
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And I'm not gonna lie,
these mistakes will cause you to lose things.
I'm trying to tell you that losing things
doesn't just mean losing.
A lot of the time when we lose things,
we gain things too.
Now you leave the structure and framework of school
and chart your own path.
Every choice you make leads to the next choice,
which leads to the next
and I know it's hard to know which path to take.
There will be times in life
where you need to stand up for yourself
times when the right thing
is actually to back down and apologize,
times when the right thing is to fight,
times when the right thing is to turn and run,
times to hold on with all you have
and times to let go with grace.
Sometimes the right thing to do
is to throw out the old schools of thought
in the name of progress and reform.
Sometimes the right thing to do is to sit and listen
to the wisdom of those who have come before us.
How will you know what the right choice is
in these crucial moments?
You won't.
How do I give advice to this many people
about their life choices?
I won't.
The scary news is you're on your own now
but the cool news is, you're on your own now.
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I leave you with this.
We are led by our gut instincts, our intuition,
our desires and fears, our scars and our dreams.
And you will screw it up sometimes, so will I.
And when I do,
you will most likely read about it on the internet.
Anyway, hard things will happen to us.
We will recover, we will learn from it.
We will grow more resilient because of it.
And as long as we are fortunate enough to be breathing
we will breathe in, breathe through,
breathe deep, breathe out.
And I am a doctor now,
so I know how breathing works.
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I hope you know how proud I am to share this day with you.
We're doing this together.
So let's just keep dancing, like we're the Class of '22.
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