Is your friend acting a bit more than friendly?

你的朋友是不是表現得有點太友好了？

Do you feel they might actually have a crush on you?

是不是覺得他可能對你有好感？

You may think it's weird, but it's not unusual for people to start liking their friends.

你可能會覺得很奇怪，但喜歡上朋友並不罕見。

You became friends because you liked something about the other.

你們成為朋友本來就是因為欣賞對方身上的特質。

And those feelings can sometimes cross the line between friendship and romantic love.

而這種感覺有時會超過友誼的界限，轉變為愛慕。

But when you suspect that, it can be a confusing situation.

但當你開始懷疑，情況可能就會變得令人困惑。

Maybe you feel it would be too awkward to ask them directly.

也許你覺得直接問太尷尬。

Here are six signs your friend actually wishes to be your lover.

那麼，以下是六個朋友其實喜歡你的跡象。

Number one, they wanna be near you all the time.

第一，他總想待在你身邊。

When you hang out in a group,

團體活動時，

do they pull you aside to talk, sit next to you every time or walk next to you only?

他有沒有單獨把你拉到一邊說話，或每次都坐在你旁邊，走在你身側呢？

Or do they try to find ways to hang out with you without the group?

又或者，他有想方設法約你單獨出去嗎？

Spending time with someone you like quickly becomes a priority.

喜歡一個人時，與他共度時光會迅速成為你的優先事項。

You always wanna be near them.

時時刻刻想待在對方身邊。

Even sitting in silence is exciting if your crush is next to you.

在心儀的人身旁，即便只是靜靜地坐著也激動無比。

If your friend is trying to spend more than usual time with you as much as they can,

如果你朋友總想盡可能與你相處久一點，比平常更久。

it could mean they wanna be more than friends.

這可能意味著，他不想跟你只是朋友。

Maybe they also text you more than they text others

比起對別人，他可能更常發訊息給你。

and they don't seem as interested in them as they are in you.

而且似乎對你最感興趣。

And they might seem a bit jealous when you have plans with someone else.

當你和別人有計劃時，他可能看起來會有點嫉妒。

Number two, they want to take pictures together.

第二，想跟你一起拍照。

Do they constantly take out their phone to take a selfie with you?

他是否常拿出手機想跟你自拍？

When they wanna create a deeper connection with you,

如果對方想與你建立更深的聯繫，

they won't seem to care about groupfies much.

似乎就不會太在意團體合照。

Their phone gallery might be full of pictures of just the two of you.

他的手機相簿可能都是你們兩人的合照。

This could be a sign that they're so head over heels for you,

這可能是他對你痴迷的跡象，

that they spend their days looking at your pictures and dreaming of what could be.

整天看著你的照片，幻想著可能發生的事。

Number three, they're always there for you.

第三，你需要時，他總是在你身邊。

Do they blow off everything just to spend time with you?

他會為了和你待在一起而推掉一切行程嗎？

Are they willing to get halfway across town just to meet you for a quick coffee?

他願意穿過半個城市，只為見你一面，跟你喝杯咖啡嗎？

When somebody has deeper feelings for you,

當某人對你有別樣的情感，

they're ready to go far and beyond.

他會為你赴湯蹈火，在所不辭。

So, half hour walk in the rain just to see your loved one doesn't seem so bad.

所以，冒著雨徒步半小時，只為見你一面好像也沒什麼。

They listen more closely to what you are saying in order to understand you better.

他會仔細聆聽你說的話，好更加瞭解你。

And most importantly,

最重要的是，

you're sure they're not gonna abandon you when you need them the most.

你確定在你最需要他的時候，他不會拋下你。

Do you know anyone else who will always be there for you?

知道還有誰會一直在你身邊嗎？

Well, it's Psych2Go.

是 Psych2Go。

With so many people confused about their relationship troubles these days,

如今，許多人對感情問題感到困惑，

we're more committed than ever to making relationship content more accessible to everybody.

我們比以往任何時候都更堅定，決心要讓每個人都能更輕鬆的學習相關內容。

Thank you for sticking with us.

謝謝你一直伴我們左右。

Did you know that subscribing to Psych2Go and hitting the like button

你知道訂閱 Psych2Go 和按讚

may make that special someone want to be more than friends with you?

可能會讓那個特別的人想與你更近一步嗎？

Just kidding, but still it would mean a lot to us.

開玩笑的，但你的支持對我們來說真的意義重大。

Number four, they notice changes in your appearance.

四，他會注意到你外表的變化。

Did they compliment you even when you only trimmed your hair?

他是否會稱讚你，即使你只是稍微修了頭髮？

Or when you wore that extra nice shirt for the first time?

或是在你第一次穿那件漂亮襯衫時稱讚你？

They are quick to notice every little tiny detail you thought no one would notice.

他能馬上注意到每個你以為沒人會注意到的小細節。

If that description fits them, it means they're paying attention.

如果符合上述，那麼他很關注你。

And paying attention to someone is usually a clear sign of attraction.

而通常關注某人是愛慕之情的明顯信號。

They probably can't take their eyes off of you

他可能無法把目光從你身上移開，

And noticing small things, like that hat,

也會注意到一些小事情，像是你的帽子，

also gives them the opportunity to sneak in a compliment.

這也給了他機會趁機讚美你。

Number five, they're nervous around you.

第五，在你身邊他會很緊張。

Are they suddenly seeming nervous or awkward around you lately?

最近在你身邊時，他是否突然看起來很緊張或窘迫呢？

Being next to your crush can feel so exciting that you temporarily forget how to talk or walk.

在暗戀對象身邊有時會讓人緊張到暫時忘記如何說話或走路。

They may touch their hair or fix their clothes while anxiously looking your way.

他可能會緊張地看著你的方向，撥弄頭髮或整理衣服。

They probably feel like they need to be perfect around you and they're scared to mess it up.

他可能會覺得自己在你身邊得時刻保持完美，而且很害怕搞砸事情。

They want you to think they're the best, so they're trying to be the best when around you.

他想讓你認為他是最好的，所以會盡可能在你身邊表現得盡善盡美。

So sweet.

真窩心。

And number six, they avoid the topic of love.

第六，迴避愛情話題。

It can hurt seeing your crush fall in love with another.

看著暗戀對象愛上另一個人是很痛苦的。

If your friend is interested in you,

如果你的朋友對你感興趣，

they'll be hesitant about the topic of love around you.

他會無法直率的在你身邊談論愛情。

They avoid talking about love life altogether,

他會完全避免談及感情生活，

be it yours or theirs.

不管是你的還是他的。

They change the topic or act nervous when someone asks about love.

有人問起情感生活時，他會改變話題或變得很緊張。

It's quite possible that they don't have the courage to be open about their feelings towards you.

他很有可能沒有勇氣公開對你的感覺。

So, they would rather stay in their little bubble, hoping you'll notice their affection.

所以，他寧願待在自己的小世界中，希望你能注意到他的感情。

Love is complicated.

愛很複雜。

You can never know for real what makes a person's heart beat faster.

你永遠不會知道一個人真正心動的原因。

Try hanging out with them as you always did.

試著像以往一樣和對方相處吧。

If you like them too,

如果你也喜歡他，

you can encourage them to make the first move.

可以鼓勵他邁出第一步。

Even if you're still confused about their feelings,

如果還未弄清他對你的感情，

time will tell for sure.

別擔心，時間會給出答案的。

Or maybe they'll tell you themselves.

也可能他會自己告訴你。

Who knows?

誰知道呢？

So, what do you think?

那麼，你怎麼看？

Could there really be some sparks there?

你們之間真的有來電嗎？

Do you know about some other signs that weren't mentioned?

你還知道其他沒被提及的跡象嗎？

Feel free to leave a comment with your experiences, feedback or suggestions.

歡迎留言，講講你的經驗、反饋或建議。

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如果覺得這支影片對你有幫助，

be sure to hit the like button and share it with others too.

請務必按讚並分享。

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也別忘了訂閱 Psych2Go 並開啟小鈴鐺，接收新影片通知。

Thanks for watching.

感謝收看。