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  • So here's the beginning of a pretty typical English conversation.

  • Hi. Hi.

  • How are you? Pretty good.

  • How are you? Pretty good.

  • And then sometimes you just don't know what to say next.

  • As an English learner, it's important to be ready for this moment

  • so that the conversation doesn't just die.

  • In this English lesson, I'll teach you ten different ways

  • you can continue the conversation.

  • Ten different ways you can go from that point where the conversation kind of stalls

  • to having a great English conversation.

  • The first way to keep an English conversation going

  • is to use two simple words, and it's to ask the question, Guess what?

  • This is a phrase we often use when we're going to share news about our lives.

  • Maybe you just got a new job.

  • You could say to someone, Guess what?

  • I got a new job.

  • You can pause if you want.

  • You can say, Guess what?

  • And wait for them to say What?, But you don't have to.

  • If you're really excited, you can just say, Guess what?

  • I got a new job.

  • Maybe you took an English test and you got 100% on it.

  • You got a perfect score.

  • You could say to your friend, Guess what?

  • I passed my English test. I got 100%.

  • A second way to keep a conversation going is to start a sentence with this phrase.

  • You're not going to believe this, but...

  • And then share some new, exciting news about you or someone else.

  • Maybe your cousin has won the lottery.

  • You can say to the person you're having the conversation with,

  • you're not going to believe this, but Joe won the lottery.

  • He won $1,000,000.

  • So if you have something exciting to tell someone about yourself or about someone else,

  • you can always start with the phrase, You're not going to believe this, but...

  • and then tell them something really, really cool.

  • The third way you can keep a conversation going is by asking

  • a question that starts with, Can you believe that..?

  • And then finishing the question.

  • Maybe there was just an election in your country,

  • you could say to a friend, Can you believe that Justin Trudeau won the election?

  • I thought he was going to lose.

  • So maybe something has happened in the world and you find it hard to believe.

  • You can ask a question to the person who you're having the conversation with, starting with.

  • Can you believe that..?

  • And then finish the question.

  • A fourth way to keep a conversation going

  • is to ask a question that starts with, How about those..?

  • And then you usually mention a sports team.

  • In fact, this question is almost always used when talking about sports.

  • Jen loves watching the Raptors.

  • I could say to her, How about those Raptors?

  • And then she will talk about the game that she just saw the night before.

  • So again, it's almost always used when talking about a sports team.

  • How about those Maple Leafs?

  • How about those New York Yankees?

  • How about those Raptors?

  • And then the person who, you know likes that team

  • will then talk about that team maybe for a little bit too long.

  • The fifth way to keep that conversation going is to start a question with, Did you hear..?

  • And you can either finish this question by talking about

  • something that you heard in the news, or you can finish it

  • by talking about something that you heard from a family member or a friend.

  • You can say, Did you hear that Julie is getting married?

  • And maybe the other person did hear about it.

  • Maybe they didn't.

  • But it will certainly have a good effect on your conversation.

  • So another way to just keep that conversation going,

  • ask a question that starts with, Did you hear..?

  • And again, you can ask about something that's happened in the world as well.

  • You could say, did you hear about the bank that failed in California?

  • That was big news last week.

  • I don't know if that's still big news today, but did you hear about it?

  • The sixth way to keep the conversation going is to simply make a statement.

  • When I do this, sometimes I like to do it in the negative.

  • I like to start by saying I didn't think...

  • and then finish the sentence.

  • Sometimes I'll say something like this.

  • I didn't think it would be sunny today.

  • I didn't think it would rain today.

  • It's a way to just mention something to prompt the other person to start talking about it.

  • It doesn't have to just be about the weather.

  • That's certainly a good place to start.

  • Right now, it's getting a little bit sunny out here.

  • I didn't think it was going to be sunny today, so I didn't bring my sunglasses with me.

  • Hopefully it stays cloudy.

  • A seventh way to keep a conversation going is to ask a question that starts this way.

  • What do you think about..?

  • and then finish the question.

  • Maybe your brother bought a new car and you could say to your sister,

  • you could ask the question, What do you think about Fred's new car?

  • So it's just a way to ask a general question about something.

  • Again, hoping the other person will have an opinion or respond

  • and it starts by saying, What do you think about..?

  • It's a great way to keep a conversation flowing and moving along.

  • An eighth way to keep a conversation moving along is to say that

  • you can't believe something and you start it by actually saying that, I can't believe...

  • And then you finish the sentence.

  • I often use this phrase when I'm talking about the weather.

  • I love reading the weather forecast.

  • And sometimes I'll go to Jen and say, I can't believe it's going to snow tomorrow

  • or I can't believe it's going to be 20 degrees tomorrow.

  • That's so warm I won't even need to wear a jacket.

  • So it's a good way to keep the conversation going

  • because you're expressing a strong opinion in a negative way.

  • And this usually has the effect of making the other person give a really cool response.

  • So you can always say, I can't believe...

  • and then finish the statement.

  • A ninth way to keep that conversation going is to say something that starts with the words,

  • It looks like..., and then describing a situation or what's around you.

  • I could say, It looks like it's going to snow later today.

  • It looks like we're out of milk.

  • It looks like I'm going to have to stay up late tonight doing a lot of work

  • so I have my project done for tomorrow.

  • So it's a great way to continue a conversation because you're talking

  • about something that you either see or that affects you.

  • And then the other person will naturally ask you questions about what you're talking about.

  • So number nine, start a sentence with the words, It looks like...

  • and then finish it.

  • A 10th thing you can do to keep a conversation

  • going is to start a sentence with the words, You know what?

  • And then say what you're going to do.

  • This is usually something you say after you've made a decision.

  • If Jen and I are sitting in the car waiting for the rain to stop,

  • I might say to her, You know what?

  • I'm just going to run in the store even though the rain hasn't stopped.

  • You know what? I'm just going to get wet.

  • So it's kind of something you say after you've made a decision.

  • You know what?

  • I'm going to take an English test next year. You know what?

  • I'm going to run in the rain without an umbrella because it's

  • nice and warm outside and I'm not going to get that wet anyways.

  • So number ten, start a sentence with, You know what,

  • and then finish it by describing what you're going to do.

  • Well, thank you so much for watching this English lesson about little things

  • you can do to keep an English conversation moving along.

  • Having some little tools

  • to use when you're in an English conversation can be very, very helpful.

  • So study these ten sentence starters or question starters.

  • Maybe write down a few that you can memorize and use in your next English conversation.

  • I guarantee you it will go much better.

  • Anyways, thanks for watching.

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  • Give me a thumbs up, leave a comment and I hope you have a great week

  • of English learning. Bye.

So here's the beginning of a pretty typical English conversation.

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