I knowwhere I sittoday I'm abletomakedecisionsfrom a perspectivethat I nowknow I havethat's greatforme I know I'm happy.
Myprioritiesarestraight.
I knowwhat I wantourlifeinthelongrun I knowwhatmatterstomemostNothingfromtheoutsideisgoingtoaffectmywayofthinkinganditallowsmethentobepresentinthemomentandunderstandHolyshit, that's thestuff I havearoundmerightnow.
Thisisthisthat I dreamedupwhen I was a kid I don't workforthewillandwantoftheotherperson's perceptionMytimeisspentwiselyif I'm notworking.
I'm withmyfamily.
I'm notrunningthestreet.
I'veseenitall I'm I'm good I don't wantnoproblemsfromnobodyWhathelpsmeistokeepthehardtimesinthefrontofmymindThisallowsmetogointothesebigmomentswith a differentperspective.
I keepmybackagainstthismotherEverydayit's againstThisbecauseit's what I believeinandwhenmybackisagainstthismotherthenthere's nowheretogoThefuturelooksbrightbecause I wantedtoberightthosedreamsbecomerealityIfyoureallydobelievethemandifyouputtheworkintothemYoucan't justdreamjust a dreamyoucan't justdreamandexpecttoshowupyoucan't dothat I dreamofonedayhavingwell, whatareyoudoingtomakethatdreamcometrue?
Itdoesn't justitdoesn't that's nothowitworks.
SomethinghastobeputintoExecutiontomake a dreamhappen.
So a lotofthethingsthatyouseemedoThesearen't impromptumoments.
That's a real-lifethingButpeopledon't understandthatnomatterwhatthere's alwaysgonnabe a highlevelofopinionandnegativitythatcomeswithanylevelofsuccessEverybodylovestohavesomethingtosayitbecomescool.
Mm-hmmat a certainpointtosaysomethingnegativePeoplelovetowatchthemovieofsuccess.
Ohmygod, wesawitWesawyougethere, butit's a bettermovietowatchyoufallSoifyou'recontentinthatfallandshouldershrugging, oh, well, I washereatonepointintimeThenthatfallisgonnabe a fastfall.
That's whatthiswholereformthingisIt's likeyousendmetojailtogodobetterandgetbetterandthen I comeoutandbecause I wasinJail, nobodywantstoallowmetogetbetter.
It's a backwardsthing.
Areweteachinglessonsornot?
Dowewantpeopletoimproveordowenot?
Thereasonwhy a lotofpeopledon't getupthesethingsarearehardthingstoovercomeanddealwithThey'reveryhardwhenyoudoMakeitoutofthosestormsAndwhenyouareanindividualthatcangowow I can't believeweexperiencedthatandyoulookbackandgo.
Ohmygod.
Thatwashowmanyyearsago?
Butlookatusnowlookatwherewearenow.
That's a thing.
That's somethingtoholdontoMeandmykidshad a talktheotherdaylifeissonotperfect I saidofyouguysyou'veonlyseenperfectyouhaven't seenchallengesand I said, thisisanexampleof a challenge I sayandnowindealingwiththis I'm gonnause a phraseandthatphraseiscowboyupcowboyandupmeansstrapupyourbootsandGettoworkYougetitdoneWhetheryoulikeitornotYougottogetitdoneinthiscasegothroughyourturmoilButunfortunatelydadcan't beheretopickupthepiecesgothroughitThesearethethingsthatmakeyoubetter.
ThesearethethingsthatgiveyoucharacterYou'lllearnfromitlaterand I reallyembracethatmomentbecause I'm likethisis a lessonThey'llgettowalkoutofthis.
I saiditmaynothittodayItmaynothitnextweek, buteventuallyit's gonnahitbutifyoudon't embracethosemomentsThenyouthenyou'remissingoutonthebeautyoflife.
You'remissingoutonthelessonsthatcomewithit I justthinkit's a greatopportunityformetohighlight a lotofmomentsandgivepeople a understandingandvisualAstohow I dealtwithWhere I gotthestrengthtomoveonandhow?