Meditationis a tooltohelpyougetpresent, focused, andintouchwithwhatyou'rethinkingandfeeling.
Ithelpsyoutake a pausesothat, insteadofreactingto a situation, youcanrespondtoitin a moreauthenticway. Meditationis a verypersonalexperience, andyoushouldfeelencouragedtotrydifferentformsofmeditationtoseewhatfeelsrighttoyou.
First, I'd liketoinviteyoutogetcomfortable.
Justmakesureyou'rein a positionthatyouwouldn't usuallyfallasleepin.
Ithelpstohaveanactiveposture.
Youcanthinkofhaving a bitofspaceinbetweenyourvertebraesoyourspineistall, or a stringconnectedtothetopofyourheadpullingyouupeversogently.
Andinthismoment, checkinwithyourselftoseehowyou'refeeling. Andnow, take a nice, slow, deepbreathin, deeperthanyou'vetakenalldaysofar, andjustholdthatbreathfor a beat.
Andasyouexhale, feelingalloftheairleavingyourbody, andlettingthatexhalelast a littlebitlongerthanyourinhaledid, andtakinganotherdeepbreathevendeeperthantheonebeforeit, feelingyourlungsexpandoutwardandyourribcageexpandoutward.
Andasyouexhale, feeleverythingcontractbackin, lettingthatexhalelastjust a littlelongerthantheinhale.