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  • Hey friends, welcome back to the channel.

  • So what does it mean for a given person like you watching this video right now to change your life in a year?

  • Well, I think it mainly comes down to one simple idea, which is to go from where you are right now, point A, to where you wanna be 12 months from now, point B, as efficiently as possible, i.e. in as few steps as possible while enjoying the journey along the way.

  • Now, this is simple, but not very easy.

  • And one of the tricky things is to actually figure out where you are right now and where you actually want to be.

  • And that's what we figured out in the first two videos in this three-part video series.

  • So in part one, we figured out what's our North Star and what is the sort of destination we wanna get to.

  • And in part two, we tried to figure out where we are right now based on our past and present experiences.

  • But now we're bringing everything down to just the 12 months time horizon, changing your life in a year.

  • And so we need to figure out how to go from A to B as efficiently as possible and while enjoying the journey along the way.

  • And in this video, we're gonna go over three of my favorite methods for doing just that.

  • Okay, so the first method for changing your life in a year is the dreamlining method.

  • Now, I first came across this from Tim Ferriss' four-hour work week, but it's also an amalgamation of a couple of methods by Jim Rohn and Zig Ziglar, who were like big OG productivity guru type people in like the 20th century.

  • And the idea behind the dreamlining method is that you basically ask yourself the question, in the next 10 years, what are the sorts of dreams that I might like dream for myself?

  • And I really like this exercise because it encourages us to go outside of our usual day-to-day and actually think a little bit longer term.

  • And so here is the prompt that's worth thinking about.

  • In the next 10 years, what do you want to learn?

  • What do you want to have?

  • Who do you want to be?

  • What do you wanna try?

  • What do you want to see?

  • What do you want to do?

  • Where do you wanna go?

  • What do you want to create?

  • What do you want to contribute to?

  • And what do you want to overcome?

  • Now, what I'd really encourage you to do is pause the video right now with all of these 10 things on screen and just take 10 minutes.

  • Set a 10 minute timer on your phone and just like write this down.

  • And the goal here is to go for quantity rather than quality.

  • Your goal almost is to just keep the pen going as much as possible and almost like write as much as you can without even taking the pen off the page.

  • Yes, you can type it if you want, but I actually think there's something even more powerful about writing this stuff down.

  • And there is some evidence that writing things down by hand also kind of increases the pathways in our mind and all that fun stuff.

  • But I'd really encourage you to pause the video right now and please do this exercise.

  • I guarantee if you actually do this exercise, it will change something about your life.

  • Okay, so I hope you've done that.

  • But if you're struggling with this, then usually perfectionism gets in the way.

  • A lot of people will think, oh no, but like now I have to think so hard.

  • And really the point of this exercise is you don't wanna think too hard about it.

  • You kind of know in your core and in your heart, what are some of these things that you want.

  • And if you let the head get in the way, if you let the mind think, no, that's not possible, no, I can't do that, no, I couldn't possibly have that, then that's sort of defeating the point.

  • This is not a list you need to share with anyone.

  • It's not a list you're gonna post on Instagram.

  • It's just a personal list for yourself.

  • And we're just brainstorming.

  • We're brainstorming some ideas here.

  • So one way of thinking about this actually is that if there's anything in the next 10 years that you think you might want, or there's even a remote possibility that you might want it, you have to put it down on the list.

  • And I want you to imagine that if you don't put it down on the list, it is not going to happen.

  • But if you do put it down on the list, then there is at least a possibility that it might happen.

  • So if you think, for example, maybe in the next 10 years, I might wanna write a book, maybe I've got 0.1% certainty that I might wanna write a book, that's enough.

  • Put down, write a book on your 10 year dream list.

  • The other thing with this method is that don't worry about coming across as a materialistic twat, basically.

  • Like, don't worry about it.

  • We are taught in society that it's wrong to want things to have.

  • But you know, when I do this dream thing, I wanna have a nice big house, I wanna have a loving family, and also, I wanna have a nicer car, I wanna upgrade to the Tesla Model S.

  • It's actually totally fine to put down these sorts of materialistic things.

  • Again, you're not sharing the list with anyone, unless you make a YouTube video about it.

  • So don't allow yourself to be held back by the sphere of, no, it's wrong of me to want something that costs large amounts of money.

  • If you think you might want it, put it on the list, and you can work towards it.

  • And maybe as you get there, you'll realize you don't actually want it, but at least you're going in the direction that you've defined for yourself.

  • And there's a link down in the video description if you want a free Google Doc that has all these questions, along with my answers.

  • So for whatever it's worth, you can see what sort of things I wrote down in response to these questions.

  • Now, especially in that category of things that you wanna learn, one of your 10-year dreams, as mine was, might be to learn computer science.

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  • All right, so now that we've got our 10-year dreams vaguely pencil-sketched out, just a sort of sense of what I maybe might want in the next 10 years, let's now move on to method number two, which is bringing it down to a five-year time horizon.

  • And method number two is the Odyssey Plan.

  • Now, this is an amazing exercise from the book Designing Your Life by Dave Evans and Bill Burnett.

  • They are professors at Stanford Business School, and they have a class about how to apply design thinking to your actual life.

  • Now, the idea of the Odyssey Plan is that you have these three different prompts.

  • The first prompt is your current path, and the prompt is write out in detail what your life looks like five years from now if you continue down your current path.

  • So again, what I would really recommend you do is you pause this video, and you take action, and you actually spend five minutes just drafting out pen and paper, Apple Notes, whatever the hell you wanna use.

  • What does your life look like five years from now if you continue down whatever path you're already on?

  • And it's useful here to really imagine what does an actual day in the life look like?

  • What time are you waking up?

  • What are you doing for breakfast?

  • How long are you commuting to work?

  • Are you even working?

  • Like, what's going on there?

  • What are you doing at work?

  • What time is your lunch break?

  • What time do you get back from work?

  • What do you do in the evenings?

  • Like, what does a day in your life look like five years from now on your current path?

  • And obviously, you're not gonna know for certain, but you can make a pretty good guess depending on where you are in your life right now.

  • All right, now we come to prompt number two.

  • So ignore everything you've written for your current path.

  • You're gonna design a new path, and this is your alternative path.

  • Write out in detail what your life looks like five years from now if you took a completely different path.

  • So I took some people through this exercise when I gave a talk at Google a few months ago, and all of them were software engineers, and so their current path was continuing down the route of software engineering, whereas their alternative path, what I said to them, is like, all right, guys, you're no longer allowed to do software engineering as a career, and you also get fired from Google, and you're not allowed to apply for another job at Google.

  • What does your alternative path look like in that context?

  • So that just hopefully gives you an idea of what we're talking about with current versus alternative.

  • And again, I would recommend you pause the video, write it down, because I guarantee this exercise has the potential to change your life if you actually do the work.

  • And then once you've done that, we now have the most interesting question, which is ignore your answers to the first two prompts, the current path and the alternative path, and now write out your radical path.

  • Write out in detail what your life looks like five years from now if money and social obligations and what people would think were completely irrelevant.

  • I would recommend you pause the video, think about it, write it down, and I guarantee if you do, it really has the potential to change your life.

  • Now, the whole idea behind the Odyssey Plan is not that you're necessarily picking one of these or picking an amalgamation of them, but it just gives you permission to think a little bit more divergently, to think a little bit more broad, because all of us have a tendency to stick to the path that we're already on, and we fail to realize that actually, wherever you are in your life right now, even though it might not seem like it, you actually have loads of different options.

  • If you're sitting here watching this video right now on some kind of device, you have more options than like 90% of the world's population, however grim you think your situation individually might be.

  • Now, whenever I bring up this Odyssey Plan to people, there are always people in the audience that say, oh, but you know, what about these financial constraints I have?

  • What about these family obligations?

  • And you know, this sort of, I can't just abandon my kids, can I?

  • And yes, I'm not suggesting you abandon your kids.

  • The current path is the path that you're currently on with all of the financial and family and all of these social obligations that you currently have.

  • The alternative path is, those obligations are still intact.

  • It's just, you have to take a different path.

  • But the radical path asks us to imagine a world in which, just like imagine, what if money were no object?

  • What if you just had 100 million in the bank?

  • How would you then be spending your time?

  • What might that path look like?

  • And the whole idea behind the whole social obligation thing, it's not that you're gonna abandon your kids in this radical path.

  • The idea is that you're not worried about what other people will think.

  • Often, the fear of what others will think and the judgment they might bring on us holds us back from achieving the things that we actually want to achieve in life.

  • Obviously, if you have kids, you've gotta deal with the kids.

  • Like, I'm not suggesting you abandon your kids.

  • Like, that's not the goal of this.

  • The goal is to just break free of the limitations of what society is telling you you need to do with your life based on what you've already done up to this point.

  • Now, I think a lot of people might think that the value of something like the Odyssey Plan is these alternative futures that you're imagining.

  • But actually, for me, when I did this in 2019, the main value I got from it was recognizing what is the life I will have if I continue down my current path.

  • And I actually wrote about it in my weekly newsletter that I've been writing every week since 2018.

  • So this is what I wrote out when I was around 25.

  • And this was about four something years ago.

  • And feel free to pause the video if you wanna have a read of it.

  • But then this is what I wrote in my email afterwards.

  • When I was writing this out, I honestly felt a bit depressed.

  • I had a feeling of, is this really it?

  • I guess it's similar to the classic midlife crisis that you're supposed to have when you hit 40, when you realize that your life is basically over.

  • Don't get me wrong, this future vision is a pretty idyllic life.

  • But there's nothing particularly cool about it.

  • It's just a very standard result of the path I'm currently on.

  • And if I think about the climb, the process of getting there, it's pretty pedestrian.

  • I just have to do more of what I've been doing for the last few years, churn out more YouTube videos, launch a few more online courses.

  • And next thing I know, I'll be 30, looking back and wondering where my 20s went.

  • Now, this exercise was really impactful for me because it made me realize that, you know, this current path, it's not really the path I want.

  • There are aspects of it I like.

  • I like the idea of continuing to make YouTube videos.

  • But do I really wanna be training as a part-time trainee in anesthetics and supervising physiology on the side?

  • Just seemed a bit not very exciting.

  • And that was the realization that made me realize, oh, hang on, I can make a change to what I'm doing right now.

  • And I can actually choose the sort of direction that I wanna take with my life.

  • And I can actually tweak what I'm currently doing to land at an entirely different destination.

  • Okay, so what does all this have to do with our goal here, which is to change your life in the next year?

  • Well, the idea behind figuring out what you want in the next 10 years and figuring out what you might possibly kind of aim for in the next five is to ultimately boil it down to a list of things that we wanna achieve in the next 12 months.

  • And this is method number three, which is the 12-month celebration.

  • What you wanna do is basically pick somewhere between three to five goals that you're gonna focus on for the next 12 months.

  • And I call it a celebration because the way I like to figure these goals out is by imagining 12 months from now, I'm sitting across with a friend and we're having coffee and we're celebrating the progress we've made in our lives and how great things have gone over the last 12 months.

  • And usually I like to have at least one thing for health, one thing for relationships and one thing for work.

  • And I don't like to have more than five because I think four is a good number because like more than five, you start to not really remember what you're focusing on and you start to focus on too many things.

  • And so I would encourage you to pause the video right now and have a think. 12 months from now, what would you like to be celebrating with a friend in your health, in your work and in your relationships and any other category of life that you might choose to celebrate things in?

  • And this is why figuring out what our 10 year dreams are is often helpful because mostly people find that a lot of their 10 year dreams could actually be accomplished in the next 12 months if they really set their mind to it.

  • And even just deciding that and making that list and writing it down and just looking at it every now and then is basically guaranteed to change your life.

  • This is the whole idea of manifestation but manifestation is really just like you've set a goal in your mind and now your brain, your default mode network, your reticular activating system, all of these like aspects of the brain and mind are focused then on like recognizing those things that will get you closer to your goal.

  • But if you wanna make this even more powerful, then there are three follow-up questions you may wanna ask yourself for each of these three to five goals.

  • And those questions are why, how and when.

  • So the first one is why.

  • Why is this goal actually important to you?

  • The more reasons you have for doing something, the more likely you are to do it.

  • Whereas the fewer reasons you have, the less likely you are to do it.

  • If something is really important to you, starting with why, really connecting to the purpose behind it, it is far more likely to happen compared to if it's just a thing that you just sort of maybe feel like doing and don't have really any compelling reasons to do the thing.

  • Secondly, how are you gonna do the thing?

  • What are the three to five major moves that will help you get to that goal?

  • So for example, one of my goals for 2024 is to get into the best shape of my life.

  • Why?

  • Because of various reasons to involve in improving my appearance, improving my cardiovascular health, improving my stamina.

  • I don't wanna die young.

  • I've kind of got a bit of a belly and poor genetic so I wanna get rid of all that stuff.

  • I don't wanna have my increased risk of cardiovascular events or strokes like that run in the family.

  • There's all sorts of reasons I have for wanting to get into the best shape of my life.

  • And then if I figure out the how, the how is like the three to five main moves that are gonna get there.

  • And so what are those?

  • It's gym three to four times a week, progressive overload, eating healthily and eating lots of protein.

  • And honestly, if I actually went to the gym three to four times a week with progressive overload, with healthy eating and enough protein, I'm basically guaranteed to get to my goal of being in the best shape of my life.

  • And that's how I know that I've got the right plan, at least for now.

  • And then the final question is when?

  • When are you gonna find the time to work on those specific things?

  • And really getting specific on what that actually looks like is gonna be ridiculously important.

  • And if you're interested in the specific method that I use to manage my time and do all this stuff, that'll be linked up there and down below.

  • It's the Trident method for managing your time.

  • Now, for me, I'm gonna be honest.

  • I did not have a systematic way of setting goals back in the day.

  • I've only recently come across a lot of this stuff as I've been reading a lot about the science of goal setting and things like that.

  • But if I connect the dots looking backwards, oh, one thing that I did actually do is the Odyssey plan and you can see the results of that.

  • But every year I would try and set goals and I would sort of come up with a bunch of random ones and I've been doing like annual reviews on Notion since 2019.

  • So, but there were always goals like, I wanna learn the guitar.

  • I wanna learn how to sing.

  • I wanna get into a relationship.

  • I wanna improve my posture.

  • I wanna become a Gymshark athlete.

  • There were just too many things.

  • But if I really think about it, I only really had one goal when I started this YouTube channel and sort of worked on this business.

  • And that one goal was the goal of financial freedom.

  • I knew that like with every fiber of my being that I never wanted to be shackled to a job that I didn't enjoy.

  • And I saw so many doctors around me, absolutely miserable at work.

  • And I was like, this is my personal definition of hell.

  • So the thing that I would think about in the shower, the podcast I would listen to on the way to work and back, the YouTube videos I would be watching, the courses I'd be taking, the books that I'd be reading, all of this stuff was all focused on this one goal of how do I achieve financial freedom?

  • You know, I was giving a talk at Cambridge yesterday to a bunch of medical students and a bunch of them were asking, what are your tips for making money?

  • One of them was tutoring for 40 pounds an hour.

  • And I was like, he was like, I'm doing some private tutoring.

  • And I was like, how much money are you making?

  • And he was like, oh, it's a lot of money.

  • I was like, how much?

  • He was like 40 pounds an hour.

  • Oh my God, so much money.

  • It's like $50 an hour.

  • And I was like, ah, bro.

  • He, you know, I then asked him follow up questions and I was like, okay, you know, what are we aiming for?

  • And he was like, you know, I really want to build a business and, you know, make lots of money, achieve financial freedom.

  • And I asked him, okay, how many books have you read about building a business?

  • He was like, zero.

  • I was like, how many YouTube videos do you watch about building a business?

  • He was like, you know, just yours.

  • I was like, do you watch any Alex Hormozzi stuff?

  • No.

  • How many podcasts do you listen to about building business?

  • He was like, I mean, I don't have time to listen to podcasts.

  • I'm a student.

  • And I was like, oh, I'm not knocking the guy because it's good that he was making 40 quid an hour as a private tutor.

  • But when you set your goal on like this one thing and you orient your life towards just that one thing, you know, like Michael Phelps, all he probably thinks about is swimming, right?

  • He's not thinking, he's not worrying about all these other 18 different goals that he wants to achieve.

  • He's focused on that one thing and doing that one thing really well.

  • And he lives and breathes that one thing.

  • Similarly, even now, I'm still focused on the goal of growing my business.

  • That's one of my three goals for the year.

  • Also focused on my health, which is why I did a personal trainer session this morning.

  • But I'm so focused on that, that like I've already, like today it's like 2.30 and I've already listened to like three podcasts at 2.5X speed all about growing a business.

  • And this is what I think a lot of people don't realize that this sort of stuff doesn't just happen accidentally.

  • I've not met a single entrepreneur who has achieved financial freedom, who has not dedicated a lot of their life to the mindless pursuit of that one thing.

  • There's a good book by Felix Dennis called How to Get Rich, which basically talks about that.

  • If you actually want to get rich, you have to devote your life to that one goal.

  • I'm not saying that that's what you should want, but if you do want it, then it's worth recognizing that there is value in focusing.

  • There's value in focusing on that goal and like orienting your life towards it and orienting the consumption of content and reading and writing and like podcasting and audio books and all the stuff towards that one goal.

  • If your one goal is to get really good grades in your exams, then obviously you're already spending a lot of your time doing that thing.

  • But for some reason, when it comes to non-work themed stuff, non-academic stuff, we don't realize that based on the goal, you should absolutely change your behaviors if you actually care about achieving that goal.

  • Now, what have I said in this video?

  • I basically said, figure out what you want in the next 10 years, figure out what you might want in the next five and then turn it into a bunch of 12 month goals.

  • It's the basic standard advice that every personal development and like personal growth and self-help book has been spouting since the dawn of time, but it's still ridiculously valuable.

  • And yeah, loads of people set 12 month goals, but then how often do they actually think why, how, and when?

  • How often do they actually look at those goals?

  • You know, one thing that often sometimes super successful people say is that all you need to do is write down what you wanna do and just look at that list every day.

  • And even just that act of writing down what you want and actually looking at it every day will nudge your brain and your mind and your behavior towards that direction.

  • And yeah, you might not be able to specify exactly what the timeline for the thing is, like when you're gonna achieve the goal, but if you write it down and look at it every day, it's often magical how the brain somehow finds different things to latch onto and helps you get towards that thing that you think you want, but you have to write it down.

  • So this brings us to the end of our three-part series on how to figure out what you actually want.

  • In part one, we talked about finding your North Star.

  • In part two, we talked about finding where you are right now.

  • And in part three, in this part, we've talked about boiling it all down to a series of 12 month goals and defining a why, a how, and a when for each of these three to five 12 month goals.

  • If you haven't seen the other videos in the series, I'd recommend you might like to check them out, especially if you've gotten to this part of the video, you probably vibe with this sort of stuff.

  • And genuinely, these are all like journaling prompt things.

  • Like no one can tell you what you want in life.

  • It's a really hard question to answer, but it's not an impossible question to answer.

  • And I think a lot of us have the default assumption that like, oh, it's just, you know, it's sort of like the meaning of life.

  • Like there's no answers, but it's not like the meaning of life in that there are answers and those answers you can get at through a systematic process of journaling prompts, of reflection, and ideally of writing things down.

  • And the importance really of writing things down, it's like if you're trying to solve a complex mathematical equation, you wouldn't try and do it in your head.

  • You would write things down.

  • And the complex mathematical equation of what you actually want is exactly the sort of thing that benefits from some serious thought, serious effort.

  • Because if you change the things that you want, that completely changes your direction in life.

  • And so really the more effort you can put into figuring out this fundamental question of what do I actually want, the more likely you are to actually get it.

  • Now, if you haven't seen episode one or two in the series, episode one will be linked over there around finding an all-star and episode two will be linked over here around figuring out where you are and what you actually want.

  • So thank you so much for watching.

  • I hope you enjoyed the series and I'll see you in the next video.

  • Bye-bye.

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