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  • It's a regular Tuesday evening.

  • You're on your way home from work, sat in the regular rush hour traffic.

  • It's been a rough day at work.

  • You can't wait to get home, put your feet up, and finally watch that episode.

  • That's it.

  • Do you ever feel that life is slipping away?

  • Like time is just merging into a blur?

  • I mean, when we were kids, time felt infinite, like we had too much of it.

  • But now, you'll just be sat in traffic one day and thinking, where did the last 10 years go?

  • Now, hopefully, you don't waste your life like that, because you never know.

  • Today could be that day.

  • Whether you like to admit it or not, we only have a certain amount of time here on Earth.

  • So we really can't afford to just let it pass by.

  • And we all know this, yet none of us know where the last five years went.

  • So this is how to not waste your life.

  • During our childhood, it felt like we had unlimited time, like each day would go by so slow.

  • But as we got older, time would go by faster than ever before.

  • Days would blur into weeks, weeks into months, months into years.

  • One minute, it's January, and you're planning your goals for the year.

  • The next minute, it's July, and you've not done anything.

  • But time is moving at the same pace it's moved our entire life.

  • Why does it feel faster now?

  • What changed?

  • Well, there's actually a pretty solid answer to that question.

  • Perceptions.

  • One year to a four-year-old is a quarter of their life, whereas that same year to a 40-year-old is only 2.5% of their life.

  • So to the 40-year-old, one year seems a lot shorter and flies by way faster, but there's not really anything we can do about that, right?

  • Time isn't what we once thought it was.

  • We're not passively tracking the river of time, but instead, the brain is actively constructing it.

  • That's David Eagleman, a neuroscientist.

  • And the work Eagleman's done over the last decade has ultimately led to one singular theory, the time perception theory.

  • In short, time isn't a subjective experience.

  • How we experience time ultimately depends on how our brain perceives it.

  • There's no one set pace of time.

  • Like if you've ever been in a bad situation and the time slows down.

  • When everything feels like slow motion, that's actually time slowing down for you.

  • So what can we do with this information?

  • Novelty is the reason your childhood felt like it lasted forever, like it was a different life you lived.

  • Because when we were younger, everything we experienced was novel, new to us.

  • Yet now, our day-to-day lives have become so repetitive and routine, which in a way isn't a bad thing.

  • But they've lost their novelty, which is why it feels like one big blur.

  • So simply try to introduce it back into your life.

  • For the next 30 days, whenever the opportunity arises, actively try to be as spontaneous and novel as possible.

  • It could be as little as speaking to someone new at the gym, going to a new coffee shop, or as big as moving to a different city.

  • Give your brain new things to do.

  • Because this is it.

  • This is your life.

  • You may as well experience everything it has to offer.

  • Mm.

  • Oh.

  • Most people run away from this or try to pretend that it's not there.

  • But the truth is, we only have a certain amount of time before that day comes.

  • If you're looking to actually live your life and not waste it, you need to understand that fully.

  • Not just you, but everyone around you.

  • That day is coming.

  • Now, that day could be next year.

  • It could be next week.

  • Nobody knows.

  • So with the time you've got left, try to make decisions with that in the back of your mind.

  • Live every day like it's your last day on Earth, which I know sounds obvious and oversaid.

  • But do you live like that?

  • Because if you did, you sure as hell wouldn't be watching a video about wasting time.

  • So put down your phone and go and live your life.

  • Make the most out of it while you still can.

  • Experience new things and appreciate each and every moment you get.

  • Then hopefully in 60 years' time, you can say, I didn't waste my life.

It's a regular Tuesday evening.

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