Yes. Throughoutmylife, animportantsayingthat I'velearnedandstuckclosetoistoalwaysbegratefulwithwhat I haveandgobaseduponit.
And I learnedthiswhen I waslivingabroad.
Andso I'velivedinvariouscountries.
Andso I'vealwayshadtomovearoundindifferentplaces.
Andbecauseofthat, I'vealwayshad a littlebitof a disconnectwithmyfriendsbecause I hadtomovearound.
Whenever I gotclose, I wouldhavetochangemycountry.
Andso I wouldalways, throughthatprocess, I learnedtobegrateful, tobepositiveinthecurrentsituation.
And I learneditby, I guess, tryingtojustevaluatethesituationin a morepositivemindsetandlookatthingsthat I cangainfromitinsteadofthethingsthat I'velost.
Andit's reallyimportantbecauseitgaveme a morepositiveoutlookonlife.
So, yeah, thesayingtoalwaysbegratefuliswhat I'velearned.
Andwhotaughtyouthisskill?
Yeah, I thinkit's, I'm goingtohavetosaymyparentsbecause I'vetalkedtothem a lotoftimeswhen I wasstrugglingwithmycurrentsituation.
Forexample, I rememberonmyfirstdayback, I thinksecondgradeofmynewschool,
I reallystruggledbecause I wasconstantlyremindedofmypastschoolandmypastfriends.
I wasn't abletoreallyfocusonthecurrentsituationandjustthepresent.
Andbytalkingandconversingwithmyparents, I wasabletolearn.
I cankindofgetoutofthisdarkspotortheslump, I guess, tobybeinggratefulwithwhat I haveandfocusingonthepositivepartsofthecurrentsituationratherthanthenegativeparts.
Otherthantheirparents, I thinkanimportantinfluencewouldbetheirfriends.
Notjustbecause, likeforexample, a lotofstudentsgotoschooloracademiaandinthatprocess, theymeet a lotoffriendsandtheyhangoutandspend a lotoftimewiththem.
Andtherefore, it's inevitablethattheystartto, I guess, adopt a lotoftheirmindsets, theirwayofspeechorthingslikethat.
Andtherefore, it's importanttohavegoodfriends, I believe.
I guessthisis a fundamentalquestioninthediscussionofnatureandnurture, I believe.
Partofit, I dobelieve, because I dostudyscienceandbiologyandthingslikethat, partofitdoescomefromgeneticsandtheirnaturalbody, butalso a lotofitdoescomefromtheirparentsandtheirsurroundings.
Andsothatpartisthenurtureaspect.
Andsoit's importantthattheyhave a positiveinfluencefromtheirparentssothattheycangrowtobemore, I guess, well-behavedorfittinginsociety.
Andhowshouldparentshandle a situationwheretheirchildrenaremisbehavinginpublic?
Right. So I thinkthat's a questionthat a lotofparentswouldstrugglewith.
And I'm notsure I wouldhavetheanswerbecause I'm not a parent.
Butif I putmyselfintheparents' shoes,
I thinkoneimportantstepthat I wouldtakeistomakesurethattheparentschoose, I thinkoneimportantstepistofirsttellthischildthatitisnotrighttodothisin a publicsetting.
And I guessgivethem a friendlyreminderfirstinsteadofjustgoingstraightintoscoldingorbeingmadatthembecausethatcanstarttohave a negativeimpactonthemandtheycanhave a negativeoutlookonthewholesituation.
I thinkyoushoulddothisorkindofguidethemin a certainwayinsteadofscoldingorevenhittingorabusingyourchild, whichisreallyimportantonthechild's developmentaswell.
I thinkashumanbeings, we'reconstantlyevolving, we'reconstantlyadoptingtonewsituationsornewthings.
Andjustbecausewe'readultsorpast a certainagedoesn't meanthatwestoplearningorstopgainingnewthingsfromlife, especiallyattitudes, like I mentioned, butalsoskillsormannersofbehavingincertainsituations.
Likeforexample, I havealwaysbeeninhighschool, forfouryears I'vebeeninhighschool, butnow I'm becoming a collegestudent.
Thatrequiresnewskills, newthings I needtolearn, newattitudes, andtherefore I guess I amanadult, technically, but I'm stillgrowingandevolvingandlearningnewthings, whichisimportantforanyadultaswell.
Elderlypeople. I thinkoneimportantthingforelderlypeopletolearn, though I don't wanttosoundcondescendinginanyway, wouldbeto, I guess, accept, or I guessgowiththeflowofthemodernsociety.
I think a lotofpeoplekindofgetstuckinthepastandthinkingthisishowitusedtobeandnowwehavetoputthatonourchildrenandmakesuretheylive a certainwayaswell.
I thinkit's importantforthemtolearnandevaluatethecurrentsituationandseethecourseofhistory, I guess, andseehowthingsarechangingandkindofadoptingtothatandnotrestrictingtheirchildreninanywayofsayingyouhavetositinthistinylittlebox, butalsoallowthemtotrydifferentthingsaswell.
Sothat's a newskill, I guess, forthemtolearn.
Okay, perfect. Thatwilldous. Thankyouverymuch.
That's it. Alright, sonowlet's startwiththefeedback.
I thoughtitwasanexcellenttest. I thinkthat's definitelyenoughfor 9.0. Yourfluency, pronunciation, grammar, vocabulary, allexcellent, allat a veryhighlevel.
Onething I wouldsayinPart 2, youspokeforjustover a minute, maybe a minuteandten, a minuteandfifteen.
Intherealexam, I wouldalwayssaytostudents, trytokeepspeakingforthefulltwominutesandyoudon't reallyneedtohave a conclusioninthisone, butyouknow, intheexamitsaysbetweenonetotwominutes, but I wouldusuallysayjusttryandkeepspeaking, butthatwasgreat. Yeah, andjustwanttopointoutsomeverypositivethings, likegoodexpressions. I askedyouonedifficultquestionabouthowshouldparentshandle a misbehavingstudent, andobviouslyyoudon't havethatexperience, butyousaidif I putmyselfintheirshoes, intheirsituation, sothatwas a reallyniceexpression. Youusedsomenicephrasalverbs, niceidioms, niceexpressionsallthewaythroughout, soitwasreallyclear, reallygoodtest, sothankyouforyouranswers. Thankyousomuch.
Thankyou.
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