Name: 原來在不經意之間做的這 4 個習慣會毀掉你的人生？！ (4 Habits That Are Ruining Your Life (Animated))
Uploaded: 2024-08-31T21:01:20.000Z
Duration: 5 min 16 s

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Five things you need to stop doing in your life right now.

The first thing is the presentation of innocence.

頻率副詞

Because usually, when someone does something that they label as bad,

因為通常當某人做了他們認為不好的事情時，

they will start to consciously or subconsciously rationalize why they did that thing.

他們會開始有意識或無意識地合理化自己做那件事的原因。

And you will hear them say stuff like, well,

I only did it because you were doing it too, I saw it.

我這麼做只是因為你也這麼做，我看到了。

Or, I only did it because I thought you were doing it.

或者說，我這麼做只是因為我以為你在這麼做。

Or, well, I only did this because that's what everyone else is doing.

或者說，我這麼做只是因為其他人都這麼做。

I did this because of my trauma and my past, I don't know any better.

我這樣做是因為我的創傷和過去，我不知道還有什麼更好的方法。

What's happening here is they're trying to

present themselves as something that they're not.

把自己表現成與他們本人不同的人。

They're trying to create a block between you

and reality through these lies that they're telling themselves.

並透過他們自己編造的謊言來掩飾現實。

These people are not lying to you, they're lying to themselves.

這些人不是在騙你，而是在騙自己。

And lying to yourself is the guaranteed way to become dependent,

欺騙自己肯定會讓你變得依賴，

to become weak, to become disempowered to the point

where you can't accomplish anything in your life.

And true power, true change in your life starts with you empowering yourself,

真正的力量，真正的人生改變，始於你賦予自己力量，

which starts with you taking complete ownership and

accountability with every single aspect in your life.

Go to your bank account and look how much money is in it.

去你的銀行賬戶看看裡面有多少錢。

That money is there or not there because of the decisions that you made.

這些錢有或沒有，都是因為你做出的決定。

Look at your relationships, look at your past relationships.

看看你的人際關係，看看你過去的人際關係。

All of those things happen 100% because of you.

所有這些事情的發生，百分之百都是因為你。

And I'm saying this to you not to make you feel bad,

我跟你說這些不是為了讓你難過，

I'm saying this to you because I love you and I want you to succeed.

我之所以對你說這些，是因為我愛你，我希望你成功。

And this is actually step one to being successful.

And the second thing that you need to stop doing is you need to stop thinking

你需要停止做的第二件事是停止思考

that the world is this really bad, evil place where everyone is out to try to get you.

這個世界真的很糟糕，很邪惡，每個人都想抓住你不放。

Because the truth is, is that your world is a reflection of your reality.

因為事實上，你的世界就是你的現實的反映。

So if every single person in your life is lying and

所以如果你生活中的每個人都在說謊，

they're doing all these horrible things, that's because that's within you.

他們之所以會做出這些可怕的事情，是因為你內心深處也有這樣的想法。

For me personally, everyone in my life is amazing.

就我個人而言，我生命中的每個人都很了不起。

Those are the people in my life because that's a reflection of myself.

這些都是我生命中的人，因為這也是我自己的寫照。

And the reason why you won't hear any YouTuber

這就是為什麼你聽不到任何 YouTuber 的聲音

talking about this because this content does not get views.

談論這個是因為這個內容沒有獲得瀏覽量。

What gets views is me saying, oh no, it's not your fault.

我說，哦，不，這不是你的錯。

It's the economy because that makes you feel good because it removes accountability.

這是經濟問題，因為這讓你感覺良好，因為它消除了問責制。

Like I said, I love you too much and I care about you too much to tell you lies.

我說過，我太愛你了，我太在乎你了，我不會對你撒謊。

I love you so much that I am going to empower you right now.

我是如此愛你，以至於我現在就要賦予你力量。

The third thing that you need to stop doing is you need to

stop living your life as though you are never going to die.

不要再像你永遠不會死一樣生活。

I swear to God, the number one prescription for

making every single person in the world way happier is to give them perspective.

讓世界上的每個人都更幸福就是賦予他們視角。

And the way that you give someone perspective is through telling them you are going to die.

而讓別人看到你的方式，就是告訴他們你要死了。

And because of this, why are you getting mad at such little things?

正因為如此，你為什麼要為這些小事生氣呢？

Why are you being so disrespectful to your partner,

the person who you say you're going to spend the rest of your life with,

the person who's supposed to die beside you?

Why are you treating them with such disrespect?

I actually think if every single person had to be reminded of the fact

我覺得如果每個人都被提醒這個事實

that they are going to die one day, the entire world would change and everyone would be a lot more happy.

他們有一天會死去，整個世界都會改變，每個人都會更快樂。

doing is stop putting off the thing that you know that you should do.

行動就是停止推遲你知道你應該做的事情。

If you need to make more money, why are you watching Netflix?

如果你需要賺更多的錢，為什麼還要看 Netflix？

Why are you doing anything if you're close to being homeless?

如果你都快無家可歸了，還做什麼？

If you're someone who has money and your dating life is atrocious,

如果你很有錢，但約會生活很糟糕，

no one likes you, no one is dating you, how is that not your main priority?

沒有人喜歡你，沒有人跟你約會，這怎麼不是你的首要任務呢？

You should make money to sustain your life then put all of your energy into your dating life.

你應該賺錢維持生活，然後把所有精力投入到約會生活中。

Define what your goal is and then start behaving in a way that will get you to that goal.

確定你的目標是什麼，然後開始以一種能讓你實現目標的方式行事。

And the fifth thing that everyone needs to stop

第五件事是每個人都需要停止的

doing is stop being stupid and start using common sense.

Because the truth is, is most people know how to get most things in life.

要做的就是停止愚蠢並開始運用常識。

If you want to get jacked and shredded in the gym, you know you should go to the gym.

如果你想在健身房裡練就一身肌肉，你就應該去健身房。

但米奇，我不知道該怎麼鍛鍊。

We have the internet, same with diet, same with even making money.

我們有互聯網，飲食也是如此，甚至賺錢也是如此。

There's endless videos talking about how to make money.

關於如何賺錢的視頻層出不窮。

Just start watching them and start implementing.

When it comes to dating, well, Mitch, no one likes me right now.

說到約會，Mitch，現在沒人喜歡我。

How many people have you approached this week?

You know that your dating life is not going to be good unless you actually start talking to people.

你知道，除非你真正開始與人交談，否則你的約會生活不會好。

And if you don't know the how behind all of these things, just start researching and start trying.

如果你不知道這些事情背後的方法，那就開始研究，開始嘗試。

I'm telling you, life is extremely simple.

However, it is specific and it is difficult to do these things.

然而，這些事情是具體的，很難做到。

I like to think of life as one big cold shower.

我喜歡把生活想象成一場大冷水澡。

It's not really complicated to get into a cold shower.

It's not that complicated to approach the track, the person on the street, but it is hard.

走近賽道、走近街頭的人並不複雜，但卻很難。

But you will have to do it at some point.

但在某些時候，你必須這樣做。

And you're welcome to look at different methods and different processes on how to do it.

歡迎你們研究不同的方法和不同的流程。

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