Itwas a greatadventure, obviously, butTaiwanwasalwaystheendpointofthejourneybecausebefore I left, I wasthinkingaboutmaybestaying a yearinAsiatoteach, and I wasresearchingJapan, Korea, China, Taiwan.
I justloveit.
It's alwaysthesameplace.
Thailand.
It's alwaysthesame, right?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Sowhatmadeyouultimatelydecidehere?
Allright.
Well, severalreasons.
Obviously, I liked, believeitornot, I likethepoliticalsituationinTaiwan.
I feellikeit's aninterestingplacetobebecausethere's alwayskindofsometensionItfascinatedmemorethanotherplaces, andthenjusteverythingjustsortoffit, thesalary, thequalityoflife, thecostofliving, allofthesethings.
Theywerealreadyhere, andtheywereleavingthesametimethat I wasgoingtoarrive.
Sobefore I leftonthetrip, I arrangedthisall, andso I basicallyslidintotheirlives.
I rentedtheirapartment.
I boughttheirscooter.
I tookoverherjob.
Oh, that's socool.
Yeah, yeah.
So I justarrived, andthentheyleft, like, thenextday.
Youmean, like, yourlifewasliterallysetoutforyou?
Well, basically, yeah.
Soitwaseasy.
Itwasaneasytransitionforme, forsure.
Sodidthatpreventcultureshock a littlebit?
No, because, well, okay, when I arrivedattheairport, itwasDecember 10, and ...
Whatyeararewetalking?
2005.
I wasmetattheairportbyLori's boyfriend, Nathan, andsowetook a taxibacktotheapartment, andhe's like, allright, soherearethekeystothescooter, andhere's therentalagreementfortheapartment, and I'lltakeyouandshowyouthejob.
Sohetookmeonthebackofthescootertothejob, and I saidhi, and, like, thenextday, theyleft, right?
Andso I waslike ...
Literallythenextday.
Yeah, like, literallythenextday.
So I wasthinking, okay, I betterlearnhowtoridethisscooter.
So I gotonthescooter, and I justsortofgotlost, andafter, like, fourhours, I think I drovehalfwaytoPingtung, andthen I ...
Byaccident.
Yeah, I hadnoideawhere I was, right?
So I eventuallysawthe 85 SkyTowerbuildinginthedistance, and I waslike, thatlookslikeKaohsiung.
Andso I drovethatway, foundmywaybackhome.
Youknow, it's ...
Forfourhours.
I'm hearingyourexperience, I relatesomuchtoitcomparedtosomeofthenewerforeignerswhocomeherewhohavetheGoogleMapandallthat.
Andthenafter I brokeupwithmygirlfriendandshewasreadytoendherrelationshipaswell- Whostartedtalkingtowhofirst?
Well, wewentonlike a triptogether.
Like a schooltripyoumean?
Notwithstudents, butlike a stafftrip.
Startedtalkingonthattrip.
Andjusthititoff.
Andthen, doyourememberMSN?
Yeah.
ThechattingMSN?
Yeah, ofcourse.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
WestartedtalkingonMSN.
Sohowlongfromthetimeyou, I guess, startedchatting, dating, togettingmarried?
Wasit a longprocess, orwasitquick?
Formywifeand I, itwasjustlike a two-yearthing, andweweremarriedaftertwoyears.
Butforyou- Yeah, itwassevenyears.
I mean, therewas a lotofuncertaintyinourfuture, melivinghereandhavingfamilyinCanada, andnotreallybeingsureabout- I mean, wewerebothyoungishbackthen, youknow?
And I think a lotofthesortofthepressuretospendmoneyonkidsiscultural, becauseparentswillfeelinferiorifthey'renotspendingthesameamountofmoneyastheirpeergroups.
Yeah, I wantedtocomplimentyou, becausewhen I'vecomeheretosubforteachersthatarebusyandyouneedsomeonetosubhere, youwriteoutallofyourcurriculum.
Yeah, likethelessonplansarequitedetailed.
Highlyimpressive, man.
Thatrequireshoursofpatience.
I workabout 90 hours a week, a littlebitmorethantwofull-timejobs.
So I wantedtoaskyou a questionaboutfatherhood, because I'm a father, you're a father, andanythingthatyouwouldwanttosharethatyou'velearnedoverthelastsevenyearsaboutbeing a fatherthathasbeenusefultoyouthatwouldbeusefultootherpeople?
Yeah, qualitytime, right?
You'vegottofindit, andunfortunately, because I'm sobusy, I takeeveryscrapthat I canandspenditwithmykidsasmuchaspossible.
Youhaveto, right?
I haveto, that's right.
Andonweekends, wegoonoutingsallovertheplace.
Thefourofyou?
Yeah, yeah.
Sowegotofarmsorculturalvillages.
Theyhavelittleclassesthatyoucanjoinandexperience a wholebunch, sowedothattogetheras a family a lot.
Soyou'regivingthemexperiences.
I wanttodomybesttobe a guideformychildren, and I can't dothatif I'm absent.
Becauseofmylifestylenow, becauseofbeingsobusy, unfortunately, I'm notabletofocusonmyhealthasmuchas I wouldlike.
Dietandexerciserightnowarenowherenearthelevelthat I wouldlikethemtobe.
Butyoulookgood.
I think I canattributethattosomething, onepartofmylifestyle, andthatis I'm a vegetarian.
I havebeen a vegetarianformywholelife.
Whenyouwerementioninghowyouguessed I wasinmymid-30s, I don't...