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Now, theideahereis a keycoreconceptthat I talkaboutinmybook, FeelGoodProductivity, whichisthatwhenwecanfind a waytomakeourworkfeelgood, tomakeourworkenjoyable, thatis a massivesourceofenergy.
Butwe'veallhadthoseexperienceswhereyou'reworkingonsomethingthatissomind-numbinglytediousandboringthatitseemstosuckawayourenergy, eventhoughmaybeitjustinvolvestypingon a keyboardorsomething.
Andsohemadeit a bitof a challengetohimselftoupsellhiscustomersonbarbecuesauceon a Monday, sweetandsoursauceon a Tuesday, mayonnaiseon a Wednesday, whateverthethingmightbe.
Hefound a waytoaddthisarbitrarychallenge a littlebitof a gameintohisotherwisemind-numbinglytediousandboringjob.
Andifthisguycandothisatsomethinglikeworkingon a McDonald's drive-through, youcanprobablyfind a waytodothatwithyourjob.
We'veallhadtheexperiencethatwhenyou'rebeingmicromanagedby a bossorsomethinglikethat, likeitsortofsucks a bitoftheenergyoutofdoingthework.
Whereaswhenit's yourownprojectandyou'refeelinglikeyoucantaketheinitiativeandyoureallyownthething, evenifthethingisreallyhard, itcanbe a sourceofenergy.
Andthethird P isforpeople.
Wearesocialcreatures.
Allofus, eventhemostintrovertedamongstusandbeingsurroundedbyotherpeople, finding a waytohelpoutthepeoplearoundus, finding a waytoconnectourworktosomesortofpurposebeyondourselves.
Allofthatmakesthework a lotmoreenergizing.
Andsomywholepointwiththisisthatifyou'refeelinglikeyou'retiredallthetime, ormostofthetime, ifyou'refeelinglikeyourjobsucksandsucksyourenergyaway, yeah, oneoptionisquityourjob, followyourpassion, become a YouTuberforgoodnesssake.
Yeah, and I guesswithanyjob, howeverdifficultorkindofemotionallytaxingitis, there's alwayssomethingtobegratefulfororsomethingtofindinitthatwefeelthankfulfororfindeventheslightestpleasurein.
Sothekeytakeawayhereistotryyourbesttoturnyourworkinto a sourceofenergybymakingitfun.
Nowthiswas a prettyinterestingstudyanditlookedtoseehowexerciseaffectswhatwecallsleepinertia, whichisthatveryrelatablefeelingofgrogginesswhenyoufirstwakeup.
Sofirstly, peoplefelttheleasttiredafterhighintensitycycling, but a moreinterestingresultwasthatcortisolortheCAR, cortisolawakeningresponse, washighestafterhighintensityexerciseaswell.
Inmycase, I'vedecided I don't likedoinghighintensityexercisefirstthinginthemorning, but I dolowintensityexerciseand I trymybesttogofor a littlewalk.
Backwhen I waslivinginLondon, I usedtogofor a nicewalkaroundRegent's Park.
Sometimeswhilegoingon a walk, I listento a podcastoranaudiobook.
Sometimes I justsitwithmythoughtsandtryandbe a littlebitmindful.
Sometimes I useanappcalledVoicePalthatmeandmyfriendshavebuiltas a sortofghostwriterinyourpocket.
Butwhatever I'm doingonthewalk, I foundthatonthedayswhere I goforthewalk, I feel a lotlesstiredthanonthedayswhere I wasscrollingsocialmediaonthetoiletinsteadforanextendedperiodoftime.
Soforexample, I don't likeworkingoutinthemorning, but I actuallyquitelikeworkingoutintheafternoon, straightafterlunch, becauseithelpsmeavoidthatafternoonslumpwhereenergylevelsareprettylow.
Ifforexample, rightnow, likeyouarewakingupandyouhavelike a bitof a checkofyourphone, youdon't likereallymakeyourbedandyoukindofgraduallygetthedaystarted.
Ifyoumakeonlyyourgoalthat, you'rethengonnasuddenlythink, wow, you'regonnahave a hugeelevationofdopamineandserotonininyourbrain, whichisgonnagiveyouenergy, a bettermoodandmoremotivation.
I'veevenspokentoProfessorRussellFosteronmypodcast, DeepDive, whois a sleepexpertandhe's doneloadsandloadsofresearchoncircadianrhythms.
So, youknow, thenursinghomeenvironmentwheremanyindividualsdon't getoutverymuchandwheresleep-wakeisreallyawfulinsomecases.
Andindeed, thelightenvironment.
AlstonSomeron, a wonderfulcolleaguefromtheNetherlands, youknow, putinthenursinghomeenvironmentbigbanksoflightofproducing 1,000 to 2,000 lux, darknessinthebedroomsandconsolidatedreallyraggedsleep-wakeprofilesintomuchmorerobustsleep-wakeprofiles.
Andwhatwasinterestingisthatthoseindividualswhoshowed a stablesleep-wakeprofile, theircognitionwentupbyalmost 10%.
Sothere's a verynicecorrelationtherewithimprovedsleepandcognitionintheelderlysimplybyregulatingthecircadiansystem.
AndyoucanalwaystryoneofthoselikeSADlampsortheLumilampsoranyoftheselampsthatmimicnaturalsunlightifyou'rein a placethat's particularlydarkorparticularlycold.
Andifyou'resomeonewhomightbestrugglingtogetoffyourphoneatnight, andthatisonethingthat's ruiningyoursleepandcontributingtoyoufeelingtiredduringtheday, then I'd loveforyoutowatchthisvideothat I recentlymadeabouthowtoquityourphoneaddiction.
Sothatbringsustotheendofthevideo.
Thankyousomuchforwatching.
I hopeyoutookatleastonethingawayfromthisthatyoumightbeabletoapplytoyourlifetohelpbuild a lifethatyoulove.