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  • The French are very welcoming and generous, if you will take a step towards them, they will at least meet you.

  • So, we sold everything, burnt the bridges, you come across, you've got to make a success.

  • Well how? And what is it about the South West of France that attracts you so much?

  • The food, the wine.

  • What do you miss? Is there something specific which you...

  • What would we miss?

  • Culturally or...

  • Great toast!

  • You have to meet French to get to know them and of course in our context we meet English language speakers.

  • How have you integrated into French life?

  • It's not possible.

  • It's not possible?

  • No.

  • No?

  • No, you just can't.

  • The key is learning the language, so the better you speak French, the easier and more confident you are in integrating.

  • I don't know why we came to France, I was happy to do it.

  • Hi everybody, welcome to a new episode of Easy English.

  • In 2019 there was an estimated 180,000 British citizens living in France.

  • 26% of those living in the specific region of the South West.

  • So we thought we'd head to one of the traditional morning markets to find Brits who have settled outside of the UK and ask them...

  • What brought them to this specific region of France?

  • What they like about France?

  • What they miss about the UK?

  • And most importantly, how they've managed to integrate into French culture, language and life.

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  • Here we go.

  • What are you two doing in France, in the South West of France to be specific?

  • Well, we're both retired and we decided to retire to the South of France for the lifestyle.

  • I'd already been in France before, in the South East, Nice.

  • What are you doing in the South West of France?

  • Well, we have a second home here, which we've had for 22 years.

  • What brought you to the South West of France?

  • A whim.

  • A whim.

  • A whim?

  • Yeah.

  • On a whim?

  • On a whim.

  • What, you threw a dart at the globe or something?

  • No, we just thought we'd go and live in France.

  • And then you swapped thete d'Azur for...

  • Yes.

  • And what was that?

  • I mean, thete d'Azur is nice, but it's...

  • I called it golf cabriolet country.

  • It was all a bit showy.

  • There were too many people there just to be seen.

  • You know how you pay extra if you want to sit out in the terrace?

  • Then if you're sat inside, because there's a value to being seen.

  • Wow.

  • What is it that brings you to this region of France, this sort of infamous or famous region of France?

  • Well, we've lived here for 11 years.

  • So we used to come here just for our holidays, which is about six weeks a year, but we've been retired now for eight years, so we're able to come down for five months or so during the year.

  • So we sold everything, burnt the bridges, you come across, you've got to make a success.

  • Wow.

  • What then, apart from the showiness of the East, what brought you out to the West?

  • Well, my parents moved here in 1995.

  • And was it a successful whim?

  • I've been here almost 25 years.

  • Really?

  • Oh, yeah.

  • Tell me what it is about this area that you love so much.

  • Well, we spent lots of holidays in the Dordogne, because it was too crowded, and this area is much nicer.

  • It's more agricultural and not so many people and traffic.

  • And we love the food.

  • Could you elaborate on the lifestyle that you like about France?

  • It's very relaxed.

  • Yeah.

  • It's very, very cordial.

  • The people are very friendly, especially if you try to speak some French.

  • How easy is it to integrate into French life, French culture?

  • I think it does help if you've got an open attitude straight away, and then if you have some language skills.

  • Because you can get much more out of the culture.

  • You can learn about the cuisine, you can learn about the politics, if you want to.

  • There's always politics involved in that.

  • But politics is everything.

  • It's the state of the roads, the state of the schools, the potholes, whatever.

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  • How have you integrated into French life?

  • It's not possible.

  • It's not possible?

  • No.

  • No?

  • No, you just can't.

  • Why's that?

  • If you went to live in England, you would be avoided by the English.

  • There's a site that dealt with more of the cultural things, which is called Commune Francaise, and it's a French lady in Grenoble who gives courses and talks a lot about the cultural background.

  • Simple things like, don't put your bread on the table upside down because it brings bad luck.

  • My French is pretty good, actually.

  • That's what I've noticed.

  • It's been much easier to integrate with French people, if you speak a significant amount of French, really.

  • They really appreciate it as well, I guess.

  • They appreciate it, and then they try and speak a little bit of English themselves.

  • Nice. It's like tandem learning.

  • We're both learning French.

  • We now attend a French class, which is much better.

  • The French are very welcoming and generous.

  • If you take a step towards them, they will at least meet you, coming towards you.

  • Linguistically, they're generous.

  • I mean, half of English is French.

  • And how's your French?

  • Non-existent.

  • Non-existent.

  • Did you ever consider picking up a bit of it or French lessons?

  • Oh, I've tried and tried.

  • It just doesn't come.

  • No?

  • No, I'm not very good with sound.

  • But then I noticed that here, this isn't a very typical sort of British-y French market.

  • So how do you get around?

  • How do you get by with buying stuff?

  • I take the wife with me.

  • Do you miss anything from the UK?

  • He's been here too long to say that.

  • Perhaps of a Sunday,

  • I do miss a good old-fashioned English pub.

  • What do you miss? Is there something specific?

  • What would we miss?

  • Waitress.

  • There's not much we miss, really.

  • We don't miss very much.

  • The traffic's horrendous over there still.

  • It's much cleaner and tidier over here.

  • What is it that you miss when you're away from England, when you're in France?

  • Family, mainly.

  • Our daughter.

  • We lived on the...

  • I mean, living in Sheffield, we lived on the edge of the Peak District.

  • So being able to walk off roads with the right to wander and the scenery of the Peak District.

  • That's the one thing I miss.

  • That's the one thing we do miss.

  • What would you say you miss most about England, not being there for 25 years?

  • If you wanted a magazine in English, you have to have it delivered.

  • Right.

  • You can't go in a shop and flick through them.

  • But really, there isn't anything.

  • Is there any difference, or what differences are there between the Brits and the French, of the French people that you know here?

  • Well, I think generally, people are much more polite.

  • Living in France now reminds me of actually growing up in the 50s and 60s in the UK.

  • I mean, everywhere you go, everyone will say bonjour, whatever context, will say bonjourné.

  • They're very, very polite.

  • Even children.

  • When we first came, and we were looking around, and we'd have a picnic somewhere, and children walked by, they'd say, bon appétit.

  • The children are much more better behaved in restaurants, for example.

  • They don't tear around screaming.

  • Because they're used to staying up late for family meals.

  • Evening markets.

  • Oh yes, evening markets.

  • Which would be banned in England from health and safety.

  • We love the evening markets.

  • Yes, and they have lots of music.

  • It's really nice.

  • There's a negative stereotype that comes with this region in Brits, right?

  • Or, I don't know, is that fair to say?

  • Yeah, part of it, there's one side where there's the positive that people buy up derelict houses and renovate them, because a lot of the French people wouldn't bother.

  • And then the other side, as you do in any country, expatriates or immigrants tend to clump together, which can lead to some tension.

  • Yeah, for comfort.

  • But I heard one thing, an English conversation, not far from here, where people were complaining about they'd gone back to England, and there was a small section of Polish food in their local supermarket, as opposed to the small section of English food in the supermarket.

  • You've been here quite some time now, and how do you feel about this kind of stereotypical little Britain feeling that this area has?

  • Is it good for English?

  • Is it good for the French?

  • Is it good for anyone?

  • What are the connotations?

  • I think the English are probably slightly reassured by having compatriots around, people who they can talk to.

  • Because the English are the worst in Europe for language speaking.

  • The French aren't that much better, by the way, but at least they make an effort.

  • I mean, yes, if you can speak the language, it just helps to get more back out of the society.

  • You reap what you sow, basically.

  • Thanks for watching this week.

  • What was your take on this week's episode?

  • How do you feel about this little Britain area in the southwest of France?

  • Would you like to go?

  • Would you like to move there?

  • And what tips can you give for helping people integrate into a new language or culture?

  • And as always, we'll see you next time.

  • Ta-ra!

The French are very welcoming and generous, if you will take a step towards them, they will at least meet you.

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