There is a code among brothers, among men that must be followed.

I've been getting some emails along the lines of this:

"Hey Jade, I like...I like this girl but she's my best friends ex-girlfriend. Should I go out with her? Do you think he is gonna get mad?"

"Hey, there's this girl that my brother likes, but she's not really into him, but she's into me.

Should I date her? Do you think my brother is gonna mind?"

What are you asking me for? Alright. Go ask your friend!

What is this sneaky stuff man?

Brothers always come before the girls. Alright?

If you're ever gonna date a girl who your bro is interested in, you'd better damn well go and look him straight in the eye.

Man to man, and ask his permission if he's okay with it.

And if he's not cool with it, and boom, you gotta cut that girl off.

Boom! She's off limits.

If you‘re gonna sacrifice your... your best friend or your brother, someone close to you just to get a girl, then you are not being a true man, alright?

A man is someone who puts his brother's first, so I just wanted to share that with you, this is very important.

Always put your brothers first.

If you ever have any situation, where you're gonna upset your friend for the sake of getting a girl—

If you're doing anything deceptive or manipulative or you're lying or hiding something from your friend

cause you think you're gonna... it's gonna hurt his feelings cause he likes that girl then you're not being his true friend.

Alright? So be a true friend, a good person, be transparent and honest with your friends and always put your friends first, alright?

Because your... your friends your brothers are the ones who give you strength the ones who are gonna be there when no else is.

They're... they are the ones that encourage... encourage you or lift you up.

And after years and years and years, they're the ones you gonna call.

They're gonna be there whenever you need them.

I have a very close band of brothers, a really close... you know, I don't even call them my friends, I call them my bros.

Because I can call them up and ask them for anything and if they are able to do it, at the drop of a hat, they will be: "Jade, I got your back." And vice versa, I'm there for them.

That's what you need to develop as a man and if you don't have that, I greatly encourage you to develop that area of your life.

Don't be one of those guys that just has a girlfriend or fiancée or wife and that doesn't even if even have like any guy friends

Alright? As a man you need to surround yourself with other men because they... will solidify your foundation.

They will give you support and they always have your back.

Alright? So very very important message.

Don't ever stab anyone of your friends in the back, it's never ever worth it. Alright? It's never worth it. That's the message for today.

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