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  • "Sorry, my phone died."

  • "It's nothing. I'm fine."

  • "These allegations are completely unfounded."

  • "The company was not aware of any wrongdoing."

  • "I love you."

  • We hear anywhere from 10 to 200 lies a day, and we spent much of our history coming up with the ways to detect them.

  • From medieval torture devices to polygraphs, blood pressure and breathing monitors, voice stress analyzers,

  • eye trackers, infrared brain scanners, and even the 400-pound electroencephalogram.

  • But although such tools have worked under certain circumstances, most can be fooled with enough preparation.

  • And none are considered reliable enough to even be admissible in court.

  • But what if the problem is not with the techniques, but the underlying assumption that lying spurs physiological changes?

  • What if we took a more direct approach, using communication science to analyze the lies themselves?

  • On a psychological level, we lie partly to paint a better picture of ourselves,

  • connecting our fantasies to the person we wish we were rather than the person we are.

  • But while our brain is busy dreaming, it's letting plenty of signals slip by.

  • Our conscious mind only controls about 5% of our cognitive function, including communication,

  • while the other 95% occurs beyond our awareness.

  • And according to the literature on reality monitoring, stories based on imagined experiences are qualitatively different from those based on real experiences.

  • This suggests that creating a false story about a personal topic takes work and results in a different pattern of language use.

  • A technology known as linguistic text analysis has helped to identify four such common patterns in the subconscious language of deception.

  • First, liars reference themselves less when making deceptive statements.

  • They write or talk more about others, often using the third person to distance and disassociate themselves from their lie.

  • Which sounds more false, "Absolutely no party took place at this house" or "I didn't host a party here"?

  • Second, liars tend to be more negative, because on a subconscious level, they feel guilty about lying.

  • For example, a liar might say something like, "Sorry, my stupid phone battery died. I hate that thing."

  • Third, liars typically explain events in simple terms, since our brains struggle to build a complex lie.

  • Judgment and evaluation are complex things for our brains to compute.

  • As a US President once famously insisted, "I did not have sexual relations with that woman."

  • And finally, even though liars keep descriptions simple, they tend to use longer and more convoluted sentence structure,

  • inserting unnecessary words and irrelevant but factual-sounding details in order to pad the lie.

  • Another President confronted with a scandal proclaimed,

  • "I can say, categorically, that this investigation indicates that no one on the White House staff,

  • no one in this administration presently employed, was involved in this very bizarre incident."

  • Let's apply linguistic analysis to some famous examples.

  • Take seven-time Tour de France winner Lance Armstrong.

  • When comparing a 2005 interview, in which he had denied taking performance-enhancing drugs, to a 2013 interview, in which he admitted it,

  • his use of personal pronouns increased by nearly three-quarters.

  • Note the contrast between the following two quotes.

  • First: "Okay, you know, a guy in a French, in a Parisian laboratory opens up your sample, you know, Jean-Francis so-and-so, and he tests it,

  • and then you get a phone call from a newspaper that says: 'We found you to be positive six times for EPO.'"

  • Second: "I lost myself in all of that. I'm sure there would be other people that couldn't handle it,

  • but I certainly couldn't handle it, and I was used to controlling everything in my life. I controlled every outcome in my life."

  • In his denial, Armstrong described a hypothetical situation focused on someone else, removing himself from the situation entirely.

  • In his admission, he owns his statements, delving into his personal emotions and motivations,

  • but the use of personal pronouns is just one indicator of deception.

  • Let's look at another example from former Senator and US presidential candidate John Edwards.

  • "I only know that the apparent father has said publicly that he is the father of the baby.

  • I also have not been engaged in any activity of any description that requested, agreed to,

  • or supported payments of any kind to the woman or to the apparent father of the baby."

  • Not only is that a pretty long-winded way to say, "The baby isn't mine,"

  • but Edwards never calls the other parties by name, instead saying "that baby", "the woman", and "the apparent father".

  • Now, let's see what he had to say when later admitting paternity.

  • "I am Quinn's father. I will do everything in my power to provide her with the love and support she deserves."

  • The statement is short and direct, calling the child by name and addressing his role in her life.

  • So how can you apply these lie-spotting techniques to your life?

  • First, remember that many of the lies we encounter on a daily basis are far less serious than these examples, and may even be harmless.

  • But it's still worthwhile to be aware of telltale clues like minimal self-references, negative language, simple explanations, and convoluted phrasing.

  • It just might help you avoid an overvalued stock, an ineffective product, or even a terrible relationship.

"Sorry, my phone died."

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