- Joey Graceffa!

- Joey Graceffa, oh my goodness

- [Both] Graciotious.

- Today, with Joey, I made a little game.

- Okay.

- Are you ready for this?

- I'm ready.

Primrose Everdeen.

(laughs)

What was your first kiss like?

- Describe it in graphic detail.

- I just remember not knowing what the heck I was doing.

A tongue was entered into my mouth and I was like, okay.

I'm just gonna copy whatever is going on right here.

- Pro tips right here.

All right, are you single?

If yes, for how long and if no, tell about your partner.

I'm not single and my partner's

really, really amazing person.

- Oh, she's in love!

- Maybe a lot.

- Do you prefer to be single or in a relationship?

That's a tough one a, because

I've never been in a relationship.

- What?

Oh, that's okay, I'm not judging, I'm just surprised!

- I feel like there's pros and cons.

When you're single you get to be selfish

and you get to just focus on yourself

and the other stuff in life like your career

and having a life with your friends.

But, I don't really know what it's like to be

in a relationship, so I can't really answer that.

- Have you ever cheated or been cheated on?

(gasps)

- Oh my god, yes?

- Okay, so here's the thing.

- You cheated?

- Here's the thing about this, no, no, no, no.

I really didn't know that this

person considered us in a relationship.

As far as being cheated on, not that I know of.

- Would you ever consider an open relationship?

I've delved into that a little bit.

- Really, tell us all about it.

- Um.

- If you've delved into it that means you've

been in a relationship, kind of, right?

- No, nothing was ever official.

I know that they don't work out in the end

because someone's gonna end up being unhappy.

We're such jealous people that it's going

to come down to jealousy.

- Fun fact, I do know some people

who have had long term open relationships.

That's their thing and they've

been doing it for like 15 years.

- Wow.

- And that's just their life.

- Okay.

- I think you're right, that it's very rare

and a lot of the time, when people get into

open relationships, they go in because

they're unhappy with something else in their relationship.

- That's true.

- So it's actually just making more problems.

Ultimate turn on?

- Ooh.

- An open mind.

- I think ultimately confidence which

goes into a bunch of sub layers of things.

Do you wait before getting sexual?

If yes, how long?

Like, sexual how?

- Normally I would say any kind of sex

because I count it all as sex, but we'll say...

(laughing)

- Whoops.

- For the purposes of this video, just penetrative.

- Okay.

- Just things in holes.

- Okay, penetrative, no, not until you're in a relationship.

That's just how I am.

Other stuff, uh, if the first date

goes really well, I don't know.

It's so weird.

I used to be like no kissing on the first date

and then I kissed someone on the

first date and I was like, okay.

- That wasn't that bad.

All right, what's your longest

relationship and your shortest?

Longest is the one I'm in, almost four years

and then the shortest would be like a day?

High school, someone asked me out

and I was really nervous and said yes

and then I went home and I was like, no, I don't want that.

(laughing)

And then the next day I was like sorry, we gotta break up.

- Have I ever been in love?

That's a really tricky question.

Normally, I say no, but I don't

really think I know what love is yet.

- Aww.

- So, I really can't say.

- That's really endearing.

- I don't know, I feel like you'll

just know when you know, I guess.

- Yeah, I think that's true.

What I found in my experience is like

people think of romantic love as this separate thing

from like the love you have for

your parents or your siblings or something

but I found that it's actually very similar.

Really, really fiercely caring about someone

and they're like so intertwined with your life

and they're like your blood.

Describe your fantasy kiss scenario.

- Ooh.

- Maybe like going on a backpacking trip

and then camping and you're under the stars.

- Ultimate turn off, okay, I know this.

I am like always afraid of like when I get,

like when I'm dating someone, like,

what they're intentions are with me.

There's a lot of people in L.A. who are looking

to like find an audience and I sometimes

get worried that I'm just being used for that

and they don't actually care about me.

- Kind of, like, seems like they're

not being genuine with you.

- Yeah.

- Or like you're being used.

- Exactly.

- Do you believe in love at first sight?

I don't.

I don't believe in love at first sight.

- I don't either.

- Yeah, it's kind of bs, huh?

- Do you have a crush on anyone right now?

- Ooh, shoobity shoop shoop.

- Shoobity shoop shoop.

I'm going to say...

- If you have to think about it, it's a yes.

- Yep, and I hate it.

- Oh, that's not very fun.

Crushes are supposed to be fun, Joey.

- Yeah, yeah, yeah.

- What's your number one relationship deal breaker?

Bad communication.

It really is like you're not on my level right now.

- Yeah.

- They gotta get on my level.

- Have you ever been heartbroken slash dumped?

Yes, I've only been heartbroken twice.

- How many times can a heart break?

- So, it's in four pieces right now.

I'll survive, though.

- He is. (laughs)

You made it, that's the most important part.

- The thing is, I've broken a lot more hearts

than my heart's been broken, so.

(laughs)

Sorry out there, karma.

- I'm worried about you now.

- [Both] Last one.

- I'm nervous, okay.

Fill in the blank.

Why be in a relationship when?

I'd be in a relationship when you have Youtube.

- I consider my most important

relationship to be with Youtube.

That's why I spend about 17 hours on it a day.

You too?

- Yeah.

- Great!

We don't have a problem.

- No.

- No.

Thank you so much for joining me!

Everyone, be sure you check out the adventures of Joey.

I'll put a link to his channel down below.

All right, I'll see you next time.

- [Both] Bye!

♫ Peace be with everyone

♫ Except your mom, oh, what ♫