honestly, I think everyone is different and unique

and that's a good thing, it's not bad.

It's kinda the best thing in the world.

You don't want to be like everyone else.

Growing up in high school and just junior high,

just your whole life really either

you have been taught to feel like

or you want to be like everyone else

because conceptually you'll be included

and you'll be like the crowd.

But when you think about it, when

you look at, um, people like Lady Gaga who

is so crazy, and so different, and so

unique and her whole message is about, you know, being yourself

and being okay with it.

And she - the reason she is so successful and so

is because she's talented, because she's different.

If she was just like Brittany Spears or if she was just like,

Nina - me, Nina Dobrev then there would be two of us

so there'd be nothing special about that.

So I think what's - what's special is the fact that you're

different and is the fact that you're unique

and that you can bring something to the table.

So if anything, embrace that uniqueness and that, that thing

that you have that no one else does and expand upon it

and make it better and tell everyone about it

and be confident in it.

Because if you're confident, and happy, and smiling

you will attract confidence, happiness, and laughter.