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  • Hi. This is Gill at www.engvid.com, and today, we have a lesson which was requested by Karim,

  • who left a comment on our website. So, Karim, I hope you're watching. This is for you. Okay.

  • So, the subject of the lesson is called: "Missed Situation", which means you were going to

  • do something, but something else happened and it stopped you doing what you wanted to

  • do. So, there are different ways of expressing this in English. So I'm going to show you

  • six different ways of talking about this kind of situation. Okay, so we have the first three

  • examples on the board, so let's have a look.

  • So: "I was going to go shopping,"-that was my intention. I have planned to go shopping-"but"-and

  • there's always a "but"-"I got a phone call which lasted nearly an hour,"-someone phoned

  • me and I was talking for nearly an hour-"and by the time the call ended"-when I finished

  • the call, a whole hour had gone by-"the shops were all shut." The shops had closed, so that

  • meant I could not go shopping. Okay? So I was going to go shopping, but da-da-lum, and

  • by the time the call ended, the shops were all shut. So my plan to go shopping - I couldn't

  • go. Right? So that's one way: "I was going to, but..." All right?

  • Another way of saying this is: "I was all set to", I had everything arranged. "I was

  • all set to go on holiday, but then my car broke down,"-something went wrong with my

  • car-"and I had to spend the money on repairs instead." Instead of going on holiday. The

  • money I was going to spend on the holiday, I had to spend that money getting the car

  • repaired. Okay. So, again: "All set to", "I was all set to". Maybe I'd got my suitcase

  • packed, I'd taken time of work, I was ready to go on holiday, but this happened and I

  • had to spend the money on repairs instead. Okay?

  • Right, and then the third example, this is talking to somebody. You had an intention,

  • but you didn't do it, and that this is the reason why. "I would have called you yesterday,"-I

  • would have phoned you yesterday-"but my phone wasn't working." Okay? So: "I would have",

  • I was wanting to. I would have, but something stopped me - my phone wasn't working.

  • Okay, so that's three ways of saying what you meant to do and it didn't happen. We'll

  • now move on to another three.

  • Okay, so our next three examples. "I had every intention of returning the book to the library",

  • I planned to, I was going to. "I had every intention of returning the book to the library",

  • this is a book that you borrow from the library, and if you don't return it by a certain date,

  • they usually charge you a fee for late returning. So: "I had every intention of returning the

  • book to the library last week, but"-"but" again-"I have a friend staying,"-that's a

  • friend staying with me at my home-"and she's been reading it." So because my friend is

  • reading the book, I can't return it yet. Okay? So once she's gone home, I will return it,

  • but not yet. Okay.

  • Next example: "I had it all arranged to give my friend a surprise party", so I had made

  • the arrangements; I had all the plans, I had invited people on a particular date and at

  • a time. It was all arranged. "I had it all arranged to give my friend a surprise party,"-a

  • party that she didn't know about-"but then she found out"-she discovered, she found out

  • about my plan, she discovered my plan-"and said she didn't want one!" She didn't want

  • a surprise party. Okay? Some people love surprise parties; some people hate them. So, obviously,

  • this person hates surprise parties.

  • I once had a surprise party which I didn't know about, and it was okay. It was a surprise,

  • obviously, but it was okay. Arranged by my husband. And then a few years later he was

  • trying to arrange another one, but when I discovered that he was doing it, I said: "No,

  • no. I don't want it this time." So if you find out about something, it's possible you

  • don't actually want it. But anyway.

  • Okay, and then finally one example here is a little bit different. It's not a missed

  • situation, but the wording of it is quite useful because it's something that you did

  • do, but you wished that you hadn't. You think: "Oh, why did I do that? That was stupid."

  • So it's a reverse of the missed situation. It's a situation you should have missed; it

  • would have been better if you had missed it.

  • So: "If only" is a very good phrase to use. "If only I'd listened to your advice, then",

  • so there's no "but" this time; there's a "then". "Then I wouldn't have invested with that bank."

  • I wouldn't have put some money into that bank. And then you can add another sentence: "As

  • it is", meaning: I did do that and what happened was. "As it is,"-now-"I've lost a lot of money."

  • It was a bad investment. The bank... It wasn't a good bank to invest with. So if only I'd

  • listened, I wouldn't have invested. As it is, I've lost a lot of money. Okay? So that's

  • the reverse of the missed situation.

  • So, I hope all those wordings are helpful for you in describing something that you missed,

  • but you wanted to do, or perhaps something you did do that you wish you hadn't done.

  • And if you'd like to test yourself on these words, please go to the website www.engvid.com

  • where there is a quiz. And if you found this lesson helpful, please subscribe to my channel

  • on YouTube. And hope to see you again very soon. Okay, thanks for watching. Bye.

Hi. This is Gill at www.engvid.com, and today, we have a lesson which was requested by Karim,

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