fathers are usually known by their sons,

but I'm one of the few fathers

who is known by his daughter,

and I am proud of it.

(Applause)

Malala started her campaign for education

and stood for her rights in 2007,

and when her efforts were honored in 2011,

and she was given the national youth peace prize,

and she became a very famous,

very popular young girl of her country.

Before that, she was my daughter,

but now I am her father.

Ladies and gentlemen,

if we glance to human history,

the story of women

is the story of injustice,

inequality,

violence and exploitation.

You see,

in patriarchal societies,

right from the very beginning,

when a girl is born,

her birth is not celebrated.

She is not welcomed,

neither by father nor by mother.

The neighborhood comes

and commiserates with the mother,

and nobody congratulates the father.

And a mother is very uncomfortable

for having a girl child.

When she gives birth to the first girl child,

first daughter, she is sad.

When she gives birth to the second daughter,

she is shocked,

and in the expectation of a son,

when she gives birth to a third daughter,

she feels guilty like a criminal.

Not only the mother suffers,

but the daughter, the newly born daughter,

when she grows old,

she suffers too.

At the age of five,

while she should be going to school,

she stays at home

and her brothers are admitted in a school.

Until the age of 12, somehow,

she has a good life.

She can have fun.

She can play with her friends in the streets,

and she can move around in the streets

like a butterfly.

But when she enters her teens,

when she becomes 13 years old,

she is forbidden to go out of her home

without a male escort.

She is confined under the four walls of her home.

She is no more a free individual.

She becomes the so-called honor

of her father and of her brothers

and of her family,

and if she transgresses

the code of that so-called honor,

she could even be killed.

And it is also interesting that this so-called

code of honor,

it does not only affect the life of a girl,

it also affects the life

of the male members of the family.

I know a family of seven sisters and one brother,

and that one brother,

he has migrated to the Gulf countries,

to earn a living for his seven sisters

and parents,

because he thinks that it will be humiliating

if his seven sisters learn a skill

and they go out of the home

and earn some livelihood.

So this brother,

he sacrifices the joys of his life

and the happiness of his sisters

at the altar of so-called honor.

And there is one more norm

of the patriarchal societies

that is called obedience.

A good girl is supposed to be

very quiet, very humble

and very submissive.

It is the criteria.

The role model good girl should be very quiet.

She is supposed to be silent

and she is supposed to accept the decisions

of her father and mother

and the decisions of elders,

even if she does not like them.

If she is married to a man she doesn't like

or if she is married to an old man,

she has to accept,

because she does not want to be dubbed

as disobedient.

If she is married very early,

she has to accept.

Otherwise, she will be called disobedient.

And what happens at the end?

In the words of a poetess,

she is wedded, bedded,

and then she gives birth to more sons and daughters.

And it is the irony of the situation

that this mother,

she teaches the same lesson of obedience

to her daughter

and the same lesson of honor to her sons.

And this vicious cycle goes on, goes on.

Ladies and gentlemen,

this plight of millions of women

could be changed

if we think differently,

if women and men think differently,

if men and women in the tribal and patriarchal societies

in the developing countries,

if they can break a few norms

of family and society,

if they can abolish the discriminatory laws

of the systems in their states,

which go against the basic human rights

of the women.

Dear brothers and sisters, when Malala was born,

and for the first time,

believe me,

I don't like newborn children, to be honest,

but when I went and I looked into her eyes,

believe me,

I got extremely honored.

And long before she was born,

I thought about her name,

and I was fascinated with a heroic

legendary freedom fighter in Afghanistan.

Her name was Malalai of Maiwand,

and I named my daughter after her.

A few days after Malala was born,

my daughter was born,

my cousin came --

and it was a coincidence --

he came to my home

and he brought a family tree,

a family tree of the Yousafzai family,

and when I looked at the family tree,

it traced back to 300 years of our ancestors.

But when I looked, all were men,

and I picked my pen,

drew a line from my name,

and wrote, "Malala."

And when she grow old,

when she was four and a half years old,

I admitted her in my school.

You will be asking, then, why should I mention about

the admission of a girl in a school?

Yes, I must mention it.

It may be taken for granted in Canada,

in America, in many developed countries,

but in poor countries,

in patriarchal societies, in tribal societies,

it's a big event for the life of girl.

Enrollment in a school means

recognition of her identity and her name.

Admission in a school means

that she has entered the world of dreams

and aspirations

where she can explore her potentials

for her future life.

I have five sisters,

and none of them could go to school,

and you will be astonished,

two weeks before,

when I was filling out the Canadian visa form,

and I was filling out the family part of the form,

I could not recall

the surnames of some of my sisters.

And the reason was

that I have never, never seen the names

of my sisters written on any document.

That was the reason that

I valued my daughter.

What my father could not give to my sisters

and to his daughters,

I thought I must change it.

I used to appreciate the intelligence

and the brilliance of my daughter.

I encouraged her to sit with me

when my friends used to come.

I encouraged her to go with me to different meetings.

And all these good values,

I tried to inculcate in her personality.

And this was not only she, only Malala.

I imparted all these good values

to my school, girl students and boy students as well.

I used education for emancipation.

I taught my girls,

I taught my girl students,

to unlearn the lesson of obedience.

I taught my boy students

to unlearn the lesson of so-called pseudo-honor.

Dear brothers and sisters,

we were striving for more rights for women,

and we were struggling to have more,

more and more space for the women in society.

But we came across a new phenomenon.

It was lethal to human rights

and particularly to women's rights.

It was called Talibanization.

It means a complete negation

of women's participation

in all political, economical and social activities.

Hundreds of schools were lost.

Girls were prohibited from going to school.

Women were forced to wear veils

and they were stopped from going to the markets.

Musicians were silenced,

girls were flogged

and singers were killed.

Millions were suffering,

but few spoke,

and it was the most scary thing

when you have all around such people

who kill and who flog,

and you speak for your rights.

It's really the most scary thing.

At the age of 10,

Malala stood, and she stood for the right

of education.

She wrote a diary for the BBC blog,

she volunteered herself

for the New York Times documentaries,

and she spoke from every platform she could.

And her voice was the most powerful voice.

It spread like a crescendo all around the world.

And that was the reason the Taliban

could not tolerate her campaign,

and on October 9 2012,

she was shot in the head at point blank range.

It was a doomsday for my family and for me.

The world turned into a big black hole.

While my daughter was

on the verge of life and death,

I whispered into the ears of my wife,

"Should I be blamed for what happened

to my daughter and your daughter?"

And she abruptly told me,

"Please don't blame yourself.

You stood for the right cause.

You put your life at stake

for the cause of truth,

for the cause of peace,

and for the cause of education,

and your daughter in inspired from you

and she joined you.

You both were on the right path

and God will protect her."

These few words meant a lot to me,

and I didn't ask this question again.

When Malala was in the hospital,

and she was going through the severe pains

and she had had severe headaches

because her facial nerve was cut down,

I used to see a dark shadow

spreading on the face of my wife.

But my daughter never complained.

She used to tell us,

"I'm fine with my crooked smile

and with my numbness in my face.

I'll be okay. Please don't worry."

She was a solace for us,

and she consoled us.