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  • Hey, it's Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be to create a business and a life that you love.

  • And today, it's Q&A Tuesday and today's question comes from Sei and she writes:

  • "Hi Marie. In one of your videos, which I really like because they're upbeat and make a lot of sense.

  • You touched on the topic of meditation. You referred to it as cleansing your vessel.

  • That term triggered my interest and I would like to ask if you can talk us through your routine. Many thanks in advance, Sei."

  • Oh, Sei. Meditation is one of my most important power tools. It's kind of like a buzz saw and a power drill and a weed whacker all rolled into one, but for your mind.

  • Now, you've probably heard of all kinds of high-level people swearing by it like Jerry Seinfeld and Lena Dunham and Russell Simmons and Madonna and Oprah and Lady Gaga and Martin Scorsese, and so many more.

  • Now, I've talked about meditation many times on the show, but I've never actually done a tutorial about my personal practice, which we will do today.

  • But first, the reason I am such a huge fan of meditation is pretty simple: it works.

  • When I meditate I am a better listener, I have more patience, I am so much more creative, and I'm kinder to myself and other people.

  • I have more energy and I feel less stress.

  • Now, of course, I dive into that stress pool now and again just like everybody else, but thanks to meditation, it's usually just like a quick dip instead of feeling like I'm drowning in anxiety.

  • Now, I first learned to meditate when I was 17, and in the past few years, I've been way more consistent than I've ever been before.

  • On the rare occasion that I don't meditate first thing in the morning, I feel like I am just chasing my day and I always know I'm not at my best, creatively, emotionally, mentally,or spiritually.

  • But you don't have to take my word for it.

  • Meditation is scientifically proven to help you become happier and healthier and more productive. And there's links to research below.

  • Bottom line, meditation determines your daily power and presence.

  • It removes complications and limitations and helps you become the person you are meant to be.

  • Maybe one of the biggest things I get out of meditation is a clear connection to myself, because whether you realize it or not, you have an inner teacher that is full of wisdom and guidance for you,

  • and the more that you meditate and listen, you will be told everything you need to know to move your life in the right direction.

  • Now, there are so many different styles of meditation. Some have your eyes open, some closed, some with a mantra, some without a mantra.

  • There's TM, there's zen meditation, metta, Buddhist, Kundalini meditation, and a ton others.

  • I practice what's known as a simple mantra meditation.

  • So in Sanskrit, mantra means instrument or tool of the mind.

  • And since I have a very active mind, having a mantra gives me a point of focus during meditation and something that I can come back to.

  • So if you wanna give my version a try, here are 5 easy steps to follow.

  • And step one is spin my tunes.

  • So once I've woken up and I've had some tea, I often put on music, and specifically Pandora's calm meditation radio, and we'll put a link to that below.

  • Now, why do I do that? Because I love music.

  • A lot of people prefer silence, and sometimes I do too, but, again, this is completely up to you.

  • Step number two, sit up straight.

  • So I prefer to sit in a cross-legged position and I do my very best to sit up and lift up and have a straight spine.

  • Now, if sitting cross-legged is uncomfortable to you, you can sit in a chair, whatever seated position really just allows you to have your shoulders relaxed and down and a tall lifted spine.

  • Step number three is I set my timer. So I just set the little timer on my iPhone, most days I set it for 10 minutes.

  • But sometimes I feel like I need, like, 15 or 20.

  • Now, if you're one of those people who says, "Mm, I don't have time to meditate," to you, I would say this:

  • "If you have time to shower, you have time to meditate."

  • Just start small, like, even with 3 minutes.

  • Because the truth is, there are 1440 minutes each and every day and if you can't find 3 minutes for something that is free and scientifically proven to make you happier and healthier and smarter,

  • then, I've gotta tell you, you need to stop watching MarieTV right now because there ain't no hope for you.

  • Step number four, set my mudra.

  • So I put my hands like this, which is called a mudra.

  • And after doing a little research I learned that the position of touching your thumb and your index finger helps open up your root chakra, and that supports greater focus and concentration, which is good for me.

  • But if you're not comfortable with that, you can simply lay your hands on your knees or hold them in another position like this.

  • Step number five, I say my mantra.

  • So I take a deep breath, I close my eyes, and I start silently saying my mantra.

  • Now, if you have a personal mantra, you can use that. And if not, you can use the one that I use, "So hum namah."

  • And a loose interpretation of that means "turning back to my true self."

  • Now, once my eyes are closed, my only job for the next 10 or 15 minutes is to be fully present, to notice my thoughts, my feelings, and my emotions.

  • And as often as I can remember, I come back to silently repeating my mantra because it gives my monkey mind something to focus on.

  • Some days, my mind constantly just flitters off and it starts making to do lists of things I have to do or coming up with ideas or conversations that I have, and the moment that I catch myself thinking, I just gently allow those thoughts to pass by, almost like watching clouds pass across the sky.

  • And then I come back to repeating my mantra.

  • And that's it. When 10 or 15 minutes is up, my timer goes off, I take a nice deep breath, and then I move on with my day.

  • Now, if I have to catch a super early flight or for whatever reason I don't meditate before I leave the house, I can easily do this on the plane or in a taxi or even in the subway.

  • Before we wrap up, there's one important thing I want to share.

  • If you've already tried meditation and said, "Blah, I hate it," please do not give up on it too soon.

  • There are so many different methods and traditions out there.

  • Please keep trying different techniques and different approaches until you find one that's right for you.

  • That was my A to your Q, Sei, I really hope it helps. Let's wrap up with this Tweetable.

  • "There are 1,440 minutes in a day. They'll all go better if you take 10 of them to meditate."

  • Now I would love to hear from you. Do you meditate on the regular? If not, why not?

  • And if so, what specific difference has it made in your life? Now, if you're new to meditation I've got a challenge for you.

  • I want you to commit to some kind of meditation practice just for the next 7 days. See how it feels in your body and notice how it quiets your mind and see what difference it makes in your life.

  • And to make this even easier, I created a guided meditation that you can download below. That way we can practice together.

  • Now, as always, the best discussions happen after the episode over at MarieForleo.com, so go there and leave a comment now.

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  • Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams because the world needs that special gift that only you have.

  • Thank you so much for watching and I'll catch you next time on MarieTV.

Hey, it's Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be to create a business and a life that you love.

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