some of the signs you want to be looking for that indicate your ex wants you back. Now

first of all, you should know that if your relationship with this ex was even remotely

serious – if you were together for you know, more than a few months – I can guarantee

you that they do still have feelings for you to a certain extent: they still do miss you,

they still do love you to a certain degree. The question is whether those feelings are

strong enough that they actually want you back and this is what we’re going to be

looking at in this video, signs that indicate that. But I should also warn you, you don’t

want to overanalyze too much. Don’t spend the rest of your life just trying to read

meaning into places where there probably isn’t anything to be read into. It’s not going

to help you get over your ex and it really isn’t useful, so don’t overanalyze. Also,

I’m going to give you a link to this at the end of the video but I have created a

free quiz tool you could take to basically get a score and figure out exactly how attracted

to you your ex is still is and how whether or not they want you back. So I’ll give

you a link to that at the end of the video and it will also be in description.

But let’s get on to it. Let’s look at some of the signs that indicate your ex wants

you back. So one of the first signs you want to be looking for that indicates your ex wants

you back is pretty obvious, and that’s that they contact you. If your ex is reaching out

to you, especially if they’re doing it regularly, if they’re sending messages or calling you

daily, that’s a very strong signal. Of course it’s a lot less strong if they’re calling

you, you know, once a month since the breakup, that’s less strong. But certainly if your

ex is reaching out to you actively without you initiating any contact on your side, then

that’s definitely a signal. Also in addition to the frequency of this contact, the way

they’re contacting you can also be a signal, so if your ex is phoning you, dropping by

your house, these are things that are stronger indicators of interests than simply a text

message here, a Facebook message there. Another thing you want to think about is if

they are contacting you, what are they talking about? What are the things, what’s the topic

of conversations that you and your ex are having when they contact you? Or they ask

– are they concerned about you? Are they asking about you and trying to stay up to

date on your life? Do they genuinely seem interested or is it simply all about, you

know, paying unpaid bills or dealing with getting back their shoes from your house?

Whatever it is, think about the nature of the conversations and if it’s more sincere

and they really genuinely seem to still care about you during this conversations, that’s

obviously a stronger sign. Also if your ex asks to meet up; if they physically want to

meet up and hang out with you, that is a very good sign – at least to some degree – that

they’re still interested in you, that they’re still thinking about you, and that they want

to be around you. Another sign to look out for is if your ex

asks you to be friends. If they reach out to you and say, “Let’s stay friends.”

Well, first of all, this is something I don’t recommend but if they do ask that, it is a

good sign and it does mean that they are afraid of losing you from their life completely.

They don’t want to let go. There’s still some emotional connection there and they want

to retain you in their life at least to some degree; that’s a good sign. Similarly along

the same lines of “friends,” if you and your ex share mutual friends, if you had a

shared social circle, and if you find out that your ex is asking about you or talking

about you to these mutual friends, then that’s a very good indication that not only are you

on your ex’s mind, but you’re on your ex’s mind enough that they’re actually

bringing you up with friends and talking about it. So if you do hear that through the grapevine,

from mutual friends, that’s another good sign that they’re still thinking about you

and interested in you. Another thing is when your ex contacts you

and if we assume that they are contacting you, if they bring up things like inside jokes,

shared positive memories that no one else will understand, or if they actively say “I

miss you” or they throw out sexual innuendos, these are things that you need to be thinking

about and looking for in their contacts, but especially bringing up things that are happy

memories that you shared together that no one else knows about. They show your ex is

nostalgic to some degree and missing these certain elements of your relationship and

wanting to bring them up and think about them again, so that’s a good sign.

And finally, this is going to seem a little obvious but if they flirt and they touch you

a lot, if there’s a lot of generally things that they wouldn’t do with members of the

opposite sex but they’re doing them with you when you’re in person, you’re seeing

your ex, obviously that’s a great sign and it does indicate that they’re still thinking

of you as possibly more than a friend. Another very strong indicator that your ex

is still interested and possibly wants to get back together is jealousy. This is one

that you’re definitely going to want to be looking for and as I’ve mentioned in

my Ex Factor Guide program, it’s something that will really help you get your ex back,

and that’s jealousy. If your ex is jea – if your ex seems jealous when you’re doing

pretty much anything: hanging out with people of the opposite sex; if they find out that

you’ve been on dates; if they see you posting new pictures on social media; you with other

men or other women, whatever it is, if your ex is jealous, it’s a clear indication that

they still are holding on to that romantic or that connection and they haven’t let

go. Jealousy is a very strong signal to look for that indicates your ex is potentially

interested in getting back together. And finally, this one is a little bit more

ambiguous. If your ex seems particularly depressed, distraught or heartbroken, all the breakup

emotions, if they seem amplified or if they seem to last longer than you would’ve expected

in your ex; if your ex seems particularly distraught. If they come to you crying, things

like that, if they just generally don’t seem to be handling the breakup well, that’s

a strong signal that they may want to get back together or certainly they’re having

second thoughts about their decision to break up with you. That’s about it for this video.

There’s lots of other signs you can be looking for, but probably the best way to figure out

whether your ex wants you back or not is just to go over to my website and take the free

quiz. That’s www.BreakupBrad.com/Quiz and I’ll have a link to it both here in the

video and down below in the description. So just click on that link and take your quiz,

it only takes five minutes and it is free. And once again, if you found this video helpful,

please take your time to just click the “like” button; really helps me out, appreciate it

a lot. Thanks again for watching and we’ll see you next time.