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  • Inspired by the last talker

  • I'm gonna have a little song about Internet porn.

  • No, just kidding.

  • The widespread use of Internet porn is one of the fastes moving

  • most global experiment ever unconsciously conducted.

  • Nearly every young guy with Internet access becomes an eager test subject.

  • Canadian researcher Simon Lajeunesse found

  • that most boys seek pornography by age 10.

  • Driven by a brain that is suddenly fascinated by sex.

  • Now, users perceive Internet porn as far more compelling

  • than porn of the past. Why is that?

  • Unending novelty.

  • In this Australian experiment,

  • it's not mere nudity but novelty that gets arousals skyrocketing.

  • Subjects watch 22 porn displays. See that spike?

  • That's where searchers switch to porn the guys hadn't seen before.

  • What happened? The erections in their brains fired up.

  • Why all the excitement?

  • Mother nature likes to keep a male fertilizing willing females

  • as long as any new ones are around.

  • In that top line the ram,

  • he needs more and more time to make with the same old you.

  • But if you keep switching females -- the bottom line -- well she's not the same.

  • He can get the job done in 2 minutes flat and keep going until he's utterly exhausted.

  • This is known as the Coolidge effect.

  • Without the Coolidge effect there would be no Internet porn.

  • This old mammalian program the Coolidge effect perceives

  • each novel female on a guy's screen as a genetic opportunity.

  • To keep a guy fertilizing the screen his brain releases

  • the "go get it" neurochemical dopamine for each novel made or image.

  • Eventually the ram will tire

  • but as long as the guy can keep clicking

  • he can keep going as so will his dopamine.

  • With internet porn a guy can see more hot babes in 10 minutes

  • than his ancestors could see in several lifetimes.

  • The problem is he has a hunter-gather brain.

  • A heavy user brain rewires itself to this genetic bonanza

  • so it carefully becomes associated with this porn harem.

  • Such behaviours that are associated with this are being alone,

  • voyeurism, clicking, searching, multiple tabs

  • fast-forwarding, constant novelty shock and surprise.

  • As one young guy once asked:

  • Are we the first generation to masturbate left handed?

  • Now, real sex, in contrast, is courtship, touching,

  • being touched, smells, pheromones, emotional connection,

  • interaction with a real person.

  • Now, what happens when our guy finally gets with a real mate.

  • Well, researchers don't know much about the effects

  • of Internet porn for several reasons.

  • In 2009, when Lajeunesse tried to study porn'’s impact

  • he couldn't find any college age males who weren't using it.

  • So the first serious dilemma is that studies have no control groups.

  • Now, this creates a huge blind spot.

  • Imagine if all guys started smoking at age 10

  • and there were no groups that didn't.

  • We would think that lung cancer is normal for all guys.

  • Undaunted by his lack of non-users Lajeunesse asked 20 male students:

  • Is Internet porn affecting you or your attitude towards women?

  • They answered: "No, I don't think so."

  • But they've been using it for about decade then pretty much non-stop.

  • This is like asking a fish what it thinks about water?

  • Which bring us to a second problem.

  • Researchers haven't asked porn users about the symptoms

  • Zimbardo described in "The Demise of Guys."

  • Arousal addiction symptoms are easily mistaken

  • for a such thing as ADHD, social anxiety, depression,

  • concentration problems, performance anxiety, OCD and a host of others.

  • Now, healthcare providers often assume that these conditions are primary

  • perhaps the cause of addiction but never really the result of an addiction.

  • As a consequence they often medicate these guys

  • without really inquiring about if they have an Internet addiction.

  • Guys never realise that they could overcome these

  • symptoms simply by changing their behaviour.

  • Now, the third problem is it's hard to believe that

  • sexual activity can cause addiction because sex is healthy.

  • But Internet porn is not sex.

  • Internet porn is as different from real sex

  • as today’s video games are from checkers.

  • Watching the screen full of naked body parts

  • won't automatically protect one from arousal addiction.

  • In this Dutch study -- here's the title --

  • they found that in fact of all activities on the Internet

  • porn has the most potential to become addictive.

  • Here's why.

  • This ancient programme, the reward circuit,

  • evolved to drive us towards natural rewards

  • such as sex, bonding and food.

  • As a consequence extreme versions of natural rewards

  • have a unique ability to capture us.

  • For example: high-calorie foods or hot novel babes give us extra dopamine.

  • Too much dopamine though can override our natural satiation mechanisms.

  • For example: give rats unlimited access

  • to junk food and almost all of them will binge to obesity.

  • This is also why 4 out of 5 Americans are overweight

  • and about half of those are obese.

  • That is addicted to food.

  • Now, in contrast the natural rewards drugs such as

  • cocaine or alcohol only hook about 10% of users whether they are rats or humans.

  • This binge mechanism for food or sex was once an evolutionary advantage.

  • In essence, it is getting it while the getting is good.

  • Now, you can think of wolves packing away 20 pound of meat per kill

  • or it's mating season and you're the alpha male.

  • What if mating season never ends?

  • All those hits of dopamine can tell your brain to do two things.

  • First they say: "Man, you've hit the evolutionary jackpot."

  • Second, they kick in a molecular switched called Delta-FosB.

  • I know it is fancy word, but dopamine kicks in Delta-FosB

  • and that starts to accumulate in the brain's reward circuit.

  • Now, with excess chronic consumption of drugs or natural rewards,

  • this build up a Delta-FosB starts to alter the brain

  • and promote the cycle of binging and craving.

  • If the binging continues the Delta-FosB builds up

  • and it can lead to brain changes seen in all addicts.

  • So the dominos are excess consumption

  • excess dopamine, Delta-FosB, brain changes.

  • One of the first changes is a numbed pleasure response.

  • It kicks in so everyday pleasures really don't satisfy a porn addict.

  • At the same time other physical changes in the brain

  • make the brain hyper-reactive to porn.

  • Everything else in porn users life is sort of boring, but porn is super exciting.

  • Finally his willpower erodes as his frontal cortex changes.

  • I can't emphasize this enough.

  • All addictions share these same brain changes

  • and the same molecular switch that kicks them in -- Delta-FosB.

  • Now scientists have used brain scans to measure

  • these changes in drug addicts.

  • Up-here these scans show a reduced pleasure response in drug addicts.

  • These and several other changes have also been seen in gambling addicts,

  • food addicts, very recently in video game addicts and now in internet addicts.

  • I apologize for filling up the slide with brain studies just notice the dates

  • but I want you to know that they exist.

  • So far all brain research points only in one direction.

  • Constant novelty at the click can cause addiction.

  • We know this because when scientist examined

  • former Internet addicts they found

  • that these brain changes were reversing themselves.

  • Unfortunately, none of these studies isolate porn users,

  • but they do include them.

  • Here's the game changer.

  • A last we have a group of guys who are no longer using Internet porn.

  • That's right! Heavy users are voluntarily giving it up by the thousands.

  • These guys are the missing control group in the great porn experiment.

  • They're showing experts what changing one single variable can do.

  • I called it "The Resurrection of Guys" as opposed to "the Demise of Guys."

  • Now, before I continue probably you wanna know

  • why any porn loving guy in his right mind would give it up.

  • Two words: erectile dysfunction.

  • Internet porn is killing young men's sexual performance.

  • Now, Zimbardo said young guys are flaming out with women,

  • this survey by Italian neurologists confirms

  • what we have witnessed over the last few years.

  • Sexual enhancement drugs often stop working for these guys, if they ever did,

  • because the problem isn’'t below the belt where viagra works.

  • Nor is their problem really psychological.

  • It's due to physical changes in the brain.

  • Those addiction related changes.

  • Their numb brains are sending weaker and weaker signals to their bananas.

  • (Laughter) As doctor Foresta says:

  • "It starts with lower reactions to porn's sites.

  • Then there is a general drop in libido,

  • and in the end it becomes impossible to get an erection.

  • There are 3 take-aways from this.

  • First, Foresta is describing a classic addiction process

  • -- gradual desensitization.

  • Second, Internet porn is qualitatively different from playboy.

  • Widespread youthful ED has never been seen before.

  • And finally ED is often the only symptom that gets these guys' attention.

  • The question is what less symptoms are they missing?

  • Most don't figure that out until after they quit.

  • Here's a guy in his late 20s.

  • "I've been to psychologists and psychiatrists for the last 8 years...

  • have been diagnosed with depression, severe social anxiety,

  • severe memory impairment and a few others.

  • Have tried Fexer, Ritalin, Xanax, Paxil

  • dropped out at two different colleagues, been fired twice,

  • used pot to calm my social anxiety.

  • I've been approached by quite a few women

  • I guess due to my looks and status

  • but they quickly flew away due to my incredible weirdness.

  • I've been a hardcore porn addict since age 14.

  • For the last 2 years I've been experimenting

  • and finally realised that porn was an issue.

  • I stopped it completely 2 months ago.

  • It has been very difficult but so far incredibly worth it.

  • I've since quit my remaining medication.

  • My anxiety is nonexistent.

  • My memory and focus are sharper than they've ever been.

  • I feel like a huge "chick magnet" and my ED is gone too.

  • I seriously think I had a rebirth, a second chance at life."

  • This is why pockets of guys are peering all over the web -- body building sites,

  • sports sites, pickup artists sites -- wherever men congregate.

  • In essence, they are seeking a neurochemical rebirth.

  • Here's a group on reddit.com who called themselves "Fapstronauts."

  • Fapping is slang for solo sex,

  • but what they really mean is giving up porn.

  • They've added about 2,000 members since I captured this picture a month ago.

  • This movement to unhook from porn is growing rapidly.

  • In fact, groups are springing up all across the web and in Europe too.

  • But there is a bizarre fly in the ointment.

  • Guys in the early 20s aren't regaining their erectile health as quickly as older guys.

  • How can a 50-year-old get his mojo back quicker then a 20-something?

  • The answer, even though older guys have been using porn a whole lot longer

  • they didn't start on today’'s Internet porn.

  • Now, we know this is a key variable because

  • the older guys didn'’t start having sexual problems

  • until after they got high-speed Internet. (Laughter)

  • Now, today'’s young teens start on high-speed Internet

  • when their brains are at their peek of dopamine production and neuroplasticity.

  • This is also when they are the most vulnerable to addiction, but there is another risk.

  • By adulthood teens strengthen heavily used circuits

  • and prune back unused ones.

  • So, by age 22 or so a guy's sexual taste can be like deep roots in his brain.

  • This can cause panic if a guy has escalated to extreme porn

  • or porn that no longer matches his sexual orientation.

  • Fortunately brains are plastic so his taste can revert once he quits porn.

  • As a guy returns to normal sensitivity

  • his brain looks around for the rewards it evolve to see

  • such as friendly interaction and of course real mates.

  • Here's one more example of what we hear everyday:

  • "I feel like the next Sir Isaac Newton or Leonardo da Vinci.

  • Since I quit a month ago, I've literally:

  • started a business, taken up piano, been studying French every day,

  • been programming, drawing, writing, started managing my finances

  • and I have more awesome ideas than I know what to do with.

  • My confidence is sky-high.

  • I already feel like I can talk to any girl!

  • I am the same guy who took 2,5 extra years to graduate from college

  • because of procrastination and depression."

  • I'll conclude with a wish:

  • I'd like to see Zimbardo's guys

  • who are wiping out and their caregivers and the experts

  • listen to the thousands of men who are teaching us

  • about arousal addiction by escaping it.

  • Thanks for listening.

  • (Applause)

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