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  • One of my first ever YouTube videos was "How to Tell if a Guy is Interested in You" and it got millions of views.

  • I was 19 when I made that.

  • So me and Jameson sat down, and we thought, you know what, the sophisticated me, a decade on, can probably do better.

  • So here it is: "Seven Signs that a Guy Likes You."

  • Number one: people often say that if a guy's trying to impress you, that means he likes you.

  • But that doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. It might mean he likes himself.

  • See, narcissists give great first dates, because they want you to fall in love with them and reflect their glory back at them.

  • But the person who actually likes you shows that they are impressed by you.

  • They are someone that you have made an impression on.

  • Number two: he's not afraid to be earnest about his affection for you, even if it gets him teased.

  • We're often worried that our friends or our family are gonna taunt us for being too affectionate with the person we like.

  • When he stops caring about that, you know he's really started caring about you.

  • Number three: when he has to get dressed up for an occasion when he's looking his best, he'll find an excuse on that day to send you a picture.

  • He may not take a selfie and send it to you.

  • They'll take a picture of him with his brother or his mom and be like, "Hey look, we're having a great day!"

  • What he's really saying is, "Look at me. This is the best dressed I've been all month, and I want you to see it."

  • Number four: he calls you around six o'clock after work to tell you about his day, because you're the one he wants to share his news with.

  • I'm not talking about the phone call he makes to you at midnight where he says, "Hey, I have some news. I have a boner. Where are you right now?"

  • I'm talking about the guy who actually wants to talk about his day.

  • Number five: he's prepared to wait for intimacy. Doesn't mean he doesn't want it.

  • Doesn't even mean he won't maybe try to have it early on.

  • But when you delay him and you say, "That's not my speed." he still wants to see you again, and he's more than prepared to wait.

  • Number six: he finds time to see you even when it's not convenient.

  • Now I'm not saying he finds a day to see you, or even three hours to see you.

  • But when someone likes you, they will cobble together whatever time they have, from the scraps, just to be able to get 15 minutes to say hi to you.

  • Not talking about the hookup right now. I'm talking about his desire just to see your face.

  • When someone likes you, they make it happen.

  • Number seven, and let this one sink in: he wants to go to the movies with you after sex.

  • Most guys will take women on dates, go to movies, go to dinners before they have sex.

  • And then they wake up, and they're like, "Okay. Now, leave please. I wanna go and be with my friends."

  • When you wake up with a guy, and he's like, "Hey, you with the crazy hair. Let's go see a movie," he likes you.

  • So there it is. Take that, nineteen-year-old me.

  • Oh, and if you were listening to these, and you thought, "There is a guy in my life that's attracted to me," and you wanna flirt back, I have a free guide for you called "The Five Compliments," which gives you five exact compliments you can give to a guy that'll not only get him more attracted to you, but also give him a clue that you're attracted to him.

  • Go download them now at SayThisToHim.com

  • I'll see you there.

  • I'm not talking about the phone call he makes you at midnight where he says, "Hey, I have some news. I have a boner." (laugh)

One of my first ever YouTube videos was "How to Tell if a Guy is Interested in You" and it got millions of views.

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