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Saying that we never lie would be a lie,
and a big one.
Everyone lies on certain occasions.
According to a study done in 2002
by the University of Massachusetts,
60% of adults can’t have a 10 minute conversation
without lying.
But why do we lie?
Let’s explore what we know about lying.
To put it simply, lying is the act of intentionally
saying something that is false.
Generally, lies are either fabrications,
omissions or distortions of the truth.
Surprisingly, humans aren’t the only animal capable of lying.
Actually, some monkeys have been observed lying.
For example, Koko the gorilla who learned the sign language
once lied to the researchers by blaming a kitten
for the destruction of a sink in her cage.
From an evolutionary perspective,
lying allows individuals to increase their chances of survival.
Cavemen probably learned quickly
that lying was particularly useful.
For example, to avoid being killed by their fellow caveman
from whom they had stolen food.
Pathological lying is a condition where individuals
compulsively lie for no good reason.
As these people lie more and more,
they begin to unconsciously consider their lies as the truth.
Also, it appears that lying is a source of comfort for them,
this is why they continue lying even though they know it’s bad.
But how can we detect a lie?
It’s possible to notice when somebody is lying
but to do so, you need to closely analyze
body gestures and language patterns.
When telling a lie people tend to have odd tics
(such as shaking their head)
and make MORE eye contact
to try to convince others that they are telling the truth.
Also, when telling their story,
liars tend to distance themselves from the situation
and to use simple descriptions, but with formal language
and complex sentences full of unnecessary details.
Many machines like the polygraph can detect lies
by detecting sudden physiological changes
when somebody tells a lie
(for instance changes in blood pressure, pulse or respiration).
However, these machines aren’t 100% reliable
and can sometimes be fooled by people.
So, lying is a skill that humans have naturally developed
to ensure their survival.
However, now that human society has greatly evolved,
lying is considered to be bad,
as we depend on honestly to build strong relationships.
And by the way, a half truth is a whole lie.
That’s an important thing to ''real lies''.