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hey guys its practical psychology here and after my video on how to tell if a
girl likes you a lot about a lot of great feedback i decided to make a video
on 10 psychological ways to get a girl to like you
first off I want to say that these are ethical and aren't manipulative but will
in the end make a girl subconsciously be attracted to and want to be around you
more
so number one have your own life this is like literally the foundation of
starting a great relationship and will give you the starting base to make her
like you think of it like this if someone tries to sell you this amazing
new book with all kinds of secret life formulas that will make you rich happy
get a six pack in 3 days and become a new world leader in the marketing and
packaging of the book looks great but then you open it and read it and all it
says is life is short you don't need these things buy more books for better
advice when you're trying to get a relationship or make a girl like you and
you have a boring life this is literally what you're doing
imagine having amazing life and doing awesome things that you say hey girl i
really like having you around you want to stick around and that's all it takes
make your own personal life interesting and girls will flock tip number to have
an interesting hobby or passion
here's another super interesting tip that is hard to find elsewhere on the
internet literally having just one passion will make you see more
interesting plus it adds respect to tip number one you're starting your own life
your hobby can be anything that you're passionate about just make sure it's
true passion and not faked if i said i love chainsaws and carving chainsaw art
in my free time but i actually didn't the sparkle wouldn't be there in the
girl won't see it when you are actually passionate about something
your girl will notice there's something infinitely sexy about a guy with an
intense passion towards something it could be programming motorcycling
cooking drawing reading playing an instrument and anything else that suits
your fancy just put in the time bonus point to be create something in the
process
tip number three have great hygiene ok guys number one tip to instantly make a
girl attracted smell good
I don't even mean smell amazing you just have to smell decent go take a shower or
a body soap all over you twice shampoo your hair dry yourself off apply good
deodorant put clean clothes on in your set no need to douse yourself with half
a gallon of Axe body spray you just have to smell presentable you can tho by some
cologne and spray one squirt two squirts max i recommend one on the wrist and one
near your neckline this is all it takes the smell great and girls fall for great
smelling guys
all the time tip number 4 ask her to do things for you so this is definitely a
secret tip and maybe even a bit manipulative but definitely not anything
evil or negative just ask her to do something for you
there's a psychological effect called the Benjamin Franklin effect that goes
like this you ask a girl to do something for you
she does it and in the end she subconsciously likes you just a bit more
you might be asking why though
well when we do stuff for people our brain thinks since we're doing something
for them we must like them now Benjamin Franklin uses techniques on his rivals
and political opponents to get them to like more
also there's something called the consistency bias after someone has done
something for you a couple of times they're more likely to do more just
because they don't want to look inconsistent tip ask for things like
picking up a pencil for notes in class giving someone a paper or even small
errands but don't overdo it though where she'll feel like you're using her tip
number five make her laugh this is a great tip and you may not think you're
funny but the truth is everyone can be funny if they try you have to put
yourself in enough situations to get used to the opportunist of telling an
unfunny joke enough that you have the confidence to tell more jokes around
people the more you tell the better you will get girls love laughing and the
more that you can make them laugh the higher up in their social change you
will seem it proves that you're intellectually strong and humerus which
is a desirable trait and future mate
also this will give you the chance to see where her eyes are going whatever
she laughs to see if she's interested in you at all
tip number six be her friend there's a big difference between being her friend
and being friend zone also i want to note it's been proven and totally
acceptable to be in the friend zone for months at a time and then move in and
start dating so go the extra mile and do stuff that makes her smile do things
that other guys wouldn't do stuff like leave little notes in her car centre
good morning text talking through problems and sympathize with her
in fact in doing these you're practically half way already dating her
you just have to tell her that you wanted for the rest of your life in your
basically set right
tip number 7 break the touch barrier here's a good subconscious psychological
hit that works amazingly well in many situations touch your shoulder ask her
for something and grab it out of her hand or make up some game that requires
the touch and play with her like rock-paper-scissors come up with a cool
handshake if you have to the idea is to make her know that you're willing to
touch her in a non-sexual way because you feel comfortable around her and to
get a reaction if she seems disgusted or scared
don't touch her anymore number eight tell her secrets
telerik secret about you something personal that not very many people know
this will open the door for trust and as you tell her more things about you she
will notice that you trust her and in turn she will trust you more
psychologically we like and trust people who trust us first because we have a
natural instinct to be wary of new people and not to trust them so when you
prove that you trust her she will start to reciprocate in the same fashion and i
recommend telling her secrets that you'd be okay with other people knew just in
case she tell someone but make sure their personal and make sure they would
be considered a secret bonus points if they're things that are slightly
embarrassing something like you have 11 toes or you're voting for Trump should
do fine tip number 9 give her all of your attention in a world where your
attention can go anywhere it is one of the most valuable things you can give a
girl if you want her pay attention to her and not just for a couple minutes
look her in the eyes when she's talking to you and make mental note of all this
up she's talking about if you can mention it in later conversations so
feel special and start to enjoy your presence this works with anyone
the last tip is to beef up your confidence game i'll be making a video
soon on some amazing secret tips that you can do each day to boost your
confidence game this is a lot to do with being self-aware and knowing what makes
you awkward and insecure and working on yourself and improving this to become
more secure and confident who you are as a person
the best general advice I can give you to become more confident and make a girl
like you is to work out regularly if you're in middle school or high school I
suggest three days a week
arms legs and core / cardio now near the end of high school and during college
you can get into more advanced schedule and supplements and i might go into that
kind of stuff and topics and future videos thanks for watching guys and
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