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  • Hey, what's going on? This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com, teaching you how to get the girl while still

  • being your genuine self. And today, I want to talk to you about how to talk to a shy

  • girl. Now I get this question all the time and it seems like there are a lot of guys

  • out there who are trying to attract different kinds of girls and some girls happen to be

  • a lot more shy than others or happen to be a lot more nervous than others and there actually

  • is a very specific way to talk to a girl who's shy and to attract a girl who is shy. So generally,

  • if you've been watching my videos and taking my advice, you know that I always say that

  • whenever you talk to a girl, whenever you talk to a group of people, you've got to come

  • in with a lot of energy, right? So I'm always talking about energy. Now there's also a concept

  • called calibration, which is basically adapting to the specifics of a situation you're in

  • depending on who you're talking to. So you don't always want to come in with high energy,

  • especially if you're talking to a girl who's more reserved or a little more shy. So this

  • is why I'm talking more about the adapting or calibration aspect of talking to women.

  • If she is a shy girl, you don't want to come in with too much energy, because you're going

  • to turn her off. It's going to be too much for her. But if you talk to a girl on the

  • other hand who's very energetic or a party girl, you're going to want to come in with

  • higher energy than her. So what you have to do is you always come slightly above the energy

  • of the girl you're talking to, but remember, if you're talking to a girl who's shy or who

  • has low energy, yeah, you're going to come in a little more energetic than her, but still

  • overall, your energy is going to be low. So in order to attract a shy girl, make sure

  • you're on a little bit more of a calm level and you're talking to her in a manner that's

  • going to be a little bit more relaxed. Another tip with talking to shy girls is the ability

  • to be able to talk to her in such a way that kind of pokes around to figure out what she's

  • interested, right? So sometimes girls who are really shy don't show a lot of excitement,

  • but they will once you find something you two can connect on. So I talk about connecting

  • a lot in my videos, and basically teaching you that you need to be getting on a specific

  • level with her where you guys talk about things in common or things that are more interesting.

  • Right, so if you can do that with a shy girl, she's going to open up to you. Right, you

  • have to make her feel comfortable, and that's really the idea with any girl you're talking

  • to is making her feel really comfortable, but you've got to do it a little bit more

  • with the girls who are a little bit more reserved and shy. Now I also talk about intentions,

  • right, showing your intentions when talking to a girl that you're attracted to. You might

  • want to do this a little bit less when you're talking to a girl who's shy, right, because

  • she's going to get really nervous and she's going to start blushing a lot if you're telling

  • her right away how beautiful she is and all these great things about her. Instead, you

  • kind of want to pepper those in, just sprinkle those in a little bit when you're talking

  • to her, but don't go overboard. If you want more information on how to seduce women, how

  • to talk to girls, go to my website, TrippAdvice.com, because I'm giving away all kinds of free

  • courses and free e-books, free video courses, so check that out. Go there right now and

  • I'll see you on the next video.

Hey, what's going on? This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com, teaching you how to get the girl while still

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