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  • Confidence is sexy

  • A guy who can sweep you off your feet without a moment's hesitation is every woman's dream

  • However, there are also shy guys out there who are waiting to be noticed, but how do you know if they like you?

  • 1 - He looks at you when you're not looking

  • Shy guys typically don't want to be caught looking at you because confrontation is not their forte

  • Instead he resorts to admiring you from afar

  • Engaging with someone you like is terrifying and shy people are often afraid of being rejected or judged so they rarely open up

  • Consequently it's hard to tell when a shy guy actually likes you, however once in a while

  • You may pick up on signs like subtle eye contact which indicates his interest?

  • 2 - He tries to talk to you, but looks very uncomfortable

  • A shy guy usually stays within his group of friends

  • So when he leaves them to approach you, chances are he likes you, he might not have anything to say or appear very awkward

  • But it probably takes him a lot of bravery

  • 3 - He treats you differently

  • As mentioned before shy guys will rarely approach you unless they're interested in you

  • When a shy guy likes you he'll go out of his way to get your attention, or do favors for you.

  • He'll treat you differently from how he treats others, whether it's grabbing an extra cup of coffee for you, or bragging about you to his friends

  • 4 - He opens up

  • Introverted or reserved guys usually keep to themselves and rarely share personal details with others

  • If a guy like this starts to open up to you, that means he likes you and isn't afraid of being judged by you

  • He'll reveal hidden interest in personal details he doesn't like to share with others.

  • You're special to him and he wants you to know that he trusts you

  • 5 - He seems annoyed when you talk with other guys

  • Since trusting others is hard for shy guys, when he opens up to you, your bond becomes special to him

  • When you talk to other guys he may feel insecure and get annoyed

  • He might even start distancing himself in fear of getting hurt or losing you

  • 6 - He shows interest in things you do

  • A shy guy rarely steps out of his comfort zone

  • so if he starts getting involved in something you like

  • chances are he likes you

  • If you sense that this is the case and you like him to, be sure to encourage him to do those things more

  • 7 - He tries to talk to you over the internet

  • Shy guys feel a lot more comfortable communicating over the web

  • because then they feel like they won't be judged for how they look, talk, or express their body language

  • If you notice a shy guy communicating with you over the internet often he's probably interested in you

  • If you like him as well, and want to move the relationship forward try calling him or meeting up

  • 8 - His friends tease him when you're around

  • Guys to who are shy will often keep their feelings to themselves

  • But their close friends can usually tell what's happening?

  • If you start to feel that his friends are acting strange when you're around him, they probably know something is up

  • So you should confront them about it

  • 9 - He seems interested in you, but never really makes a move

  • Shy guys are often too afraid of rejection to put themselves out there and make a move on a girl

  • They'll talk to you and show signs of interest, but they're likely to wait for you to make the first move

  • 10 - He stands up for you

  • Have you ever been in a really embarrassing situation

  • and suddenly a guy you weren't exactly close with tries to save you

  • Chances are that guy had liked you for a while, and showing his interest with a bold act of courage

  • This isn't easy but he wants you to know that you are worth the risk and definitely worth fighting for

  • 11 - He remembers little things about you

  • A shy guy will remember the small details about your life

  • Like the name of your pet hamster you had when you were five or your favorite pizza toppings

  • He'll try to downplay it when you say "Wow, you remembered!" because he doesn't want to make his feelings obvious

  • But at the same time he'll feel proud that you appreciated it

  • 12 - He tried to act more social than he is

  • Shy guys will sometimes try to act as social as possible to get a girl's attention

  • To show her that he's not that shy

  • If a guy who usually keeps himself suddenly tries to become a social butterfly around you he's interested in you

  • 13 - He's confident at first, but then stops talking to you

  • Often guys with shy personalities will come off as confident and personable at first

  • However once he gets comfortable he might start second-guessing himself and distance himself from you

  • shy guys are full of mixed signals and confusion

  • 14 - His body language

  • Pay attention to the way a shy guy expresses himself with his body language

  • If he's fidgeting with his hands, can't stay still, or won't make eye contact when he's talking to you, chances are he likes you

  • 15 - He tries to talk to your friends and get closer to them

  • Shy guys will usually try to engage your friends in conversations, and try to become closer to them to gain your attention

  • their goal is always to make you notice them in subtle ways

  • A guy that likes you will suddenly start asking your friends about you and leave hints with them

  • 16 - He genuinely cares about you and listens to you

  • It's really hard to get a guy to pay attention to you

  • much less listen to what's going on in your life

  • So if you have a guy friend who really cares about you, listen to your problems, and gives you great advice

  • There's a chance you might like you, but is too afraid to say anything

  • Which of these signs have you had personal experience with or displayed before

  • Let us know in the comments below

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Confidence is sexy

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