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  • I'm Alex.

  • Thanks for clicking, and welcome to this lesson on "4 Ways to Use 'Should'".

  • Now, you are probably familiar with at least two of these ways if you have been studying

  • English for a while.

  • So the most common ways are the first two up here, and then we're going to look at two

  • other ways that might be a little less familiar to you.

  • So, let's start with the first, the very first way that every student learns how to use "should"

  • when they're studying English, which is for present or future advice.

  • Now, the structure for this is "should" or "should not" if you're making a negative sentence,

  • plus the base verb.

  • So you have your subject: "I", "you", "he", "she", "it", "we", "they", "Mark", "Paul",

  • "my mom", "your mom", whatever, plus this structure.

  • So let's look at some examples of present or future advice.

  • "You should call him."

  • So you're giving the advice to your friend who maybe had a fight with, you know, their

  • boyfriend or their husband or just a friend, and you think they should call him.

  • It's a good idea for them to call him.

  • Okay?

  • "They shouldn't argue so much."

  • Now, here you're kind of giving your opinion about another couple's relationship, and you're

  • giving your advice to a friend about their situation, if that's not too confusing, I

  • hope.

  • So: "They shouldn't argue so much."

  • They argue too much.

  • My advice is they shouldn't argue so much.

  • And third example for you guys: "He should apologize."

  • If you, you know, want to be a good friend to your girlfriend or your boyfriend, and

  • you want to give them, you know, support and tell them that their boyfriend needs to apologize,

  • you're giving him advice even though he's not here.

  • "He should apologize."

  • It's a good idea for him to apologize to you because he made a mistake.

  • Okay?

  • Before we continue, I just want you guys to repeat these sentences after me so that, you

  • know, we can practice the pronunciation and you're using the language that you're hearing

  • in this video.

  • So, repeat after me: "You should call him.", "They shouldn't argue so much.", "He should

  • apologize."

  • All right, let's move on to the second way we use "should".

  • Now, here you can use it for past advice or to show past regrets.

  • So, the structure for this, just like up here, you have "should" or "should not" if it's

  • negative, plus "have".

  • It's always "have", it's never "has".

  • Okay?

  • It's always the base form of "have".

  • "Should not have" plus the past participle of your main verb.

  • So, let's look at some examples so this is easy to see.

  • First one: "I shouldn't have done that."

  • So you are showing personal regret for something you did in the past, and you feel bad because

  • you really should have made a different decision, so you say: "I shouldn't have done that."

  • Now, notice here, you know, I put the contraction.

  • We're speaking.

  • I want to give you practical skills, practical language that you can use.

  • I could say: "He should not have done that", and be very formal, but really when most people

  • speak, they speak in contractions, so you and I will speak in contractions in this video,

  • too; like a pregnant woman, contractions.

  • It's a joke.

  • Next: "You should've asked me first."

  • Now, again, you're talking to a friend and maybe they made a decision and you feel they

  • made the decision without asking you your opinion or if the decision was okay.

  • So maybe your friend, I don't know, like, grabbed your phone and used it to call long

  • distance somewhere, and your phone plan is, you know, almost up, your data is all used

  • up, maybe they're, I don't know, watching a YouTube video.

  • If they're watching engVid, let them watch, like, all they want, it's cool.

  • But if they're watching something else, you know, you say: "Oh, you should've asked me

  • first."

  • This is, again, contraction: "should have".

  • "You should've asked me first."

  • So before we continue, let's repeat these sentences one more time.

  • So repeat after me: "I shouldn't have done that.", "You should've asked me first."

  • Okay, so that's for past advice or past regrets.

  • And here, again, if you're using "I", usually it's for regret.

  • "I should have done something", "I shouldn't have done something".

  • Next: Expectation.

  • So, if you expect something to happen or expect something to have happened in the past, you

  • can use "should".

  • Now, this can be used for present expectation, future expectation.

  • And for present and future, the structure is exactly the same as here.

  • And for past expectation, the structure is exactly the same as you see here.

  • So, for example: "He should be here by now."

  • So you expect him to be at your location now.

  • "He should be here by now.

  • Why is he late?"

  • My expectation is he should be here by now.

  • Present expectation.

  • Okay?

  • Next: "She should have been there at 7."

  • Okay?

  • So, if your friend is telling you, you know: "Hey, Martha didn't come to the meeting.

  • She didn't come until, like, 8 o'clock."

  • It's like: "Well, I'm her roommate.

  • I saw her leave the house at, like, 6 o'clock.

  • She should have been there by 7."

  • Okay?

  • My expectation is that I expected her to be at the meeting at 7 o'clock.

  • She should have been there at 7.

  • Okay?

  • Now, depending on the context, you could also use this sentence for past advice.

  • Right?

  • So: "She should have been there at 7."

  • But you can also use it to talk about your expectation.

  • All right?

  • And then, finally...

  • Before finally, let's repeat these sentences, just like we've been doing, so repeat after

  • me: "He should be here by now.", "She should have been there at 7."

  • All right.

  • And the final way is to show less certainty or this is known as hedging.

  • So, in cards, I think it's Black Jack, if you hedge your bets, you're not putting all

  • your bets in one deck of cards.

  • You're splitting, so you're leaving the possibility open that more than one, you know, way might

  • be possible.

  • So, here, if you want to show less certainty: "This should work."

  • Okay?

  • So if you have a plan or if you are fixing something, or if you...

  • Well, yeah, if you're fixing something and you think: "This is supposed to working.

  • Okay, this should work."

  • Okay?

  • If you...

  • If you push the power button now, it should be fixed by now.

  • I'm not saying 100% it will work.

  • I think it should be okay.

  • Okay?

  • So, there's another one: "It should be okay."

  • Very common way to show less certainty.

  • Okay.

  • Your boss asks you: "When is that project going to be ready?

  • When will you be finished that project?"

  • Say: "I should have it done by tomorrow.

  • I should.

  • Probably.

  • But if it's not, don't get too upset.

  • Okay?

  • But I should have it done by tomorrow."

  • And a very, very common thing to say, especially if you work in, like, the customer service

  • industry and someone asks you, you know, for an exceptional situation, has an exceptional

  • request, and you say: "It shouldn't be a problem."

  • Okay?

  • Maybe I will have some trouble with your request, but it should be okay.

  • It shouldn't be a problem.

  • Now, this is kind of in line with expectation.

  • It's easy to get them mixed up sometimes, but if you want to show less certainty, if

  • you want to manage the expectations of the people you work for or the people you make

  • a promise to, you can use "should" in this way.

  • So, repeat after me: "This should work.", "I should have it done by tomorrow.", "It

  • shouldn't be a problem."

  • Beautiful.

  • So, just to review: There are four ways that you can use "should" in English.

  • One, for present or future advice: "You should call him."

  • Two, for past advice or past regrets: "You shouldn't have done that."

  • Three, for expectation: "He should be here by now."

  • And four, to show less certainty or to hedge what you're, you know, promising to someone:

  • "This should work."

  • Okay?

  • So, really by watching these videos, you should be able to improve your English pretty quickly.

  • If you want to test your understanding of the four ways to use "should", as always,

  • you can check out the quiz on www.engvid.com.

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