Before getting started

在我們開始之前

Psych2go just wants to say thank you for watching our videos and supporting the work we do,

我們想謝謝大家觀賞我們的影片和對我們的支持，

getting us to a hundred thousand subscribers and over 4 million views.

讓我們有十萬人訂閱，累積超過四百萬個觀看次數

We will do our best to release more quality videos on psychology

我們會持續盡力製作心理相關的高品質內容，

so please continue to support us.

所以希望大家能繼續支持我們。

Thank you so much, now let's get into it.

感激不盡，那我們來開始吧

Ten types of emotional manipulators

十種情緒勒索的人

One:

第一種：

The Constant Victim

永遠的受害者

This kind of individual will always find a way to end up as the victim in their relationships

這種人在關係中都會試圖把自己描繪成受害者

Two:

第二種：

The One-upsmanship Expert

高人一等專家

This person uses pedant, snide remarks and criticism to show that they're superior and know much more than you.

這種人會透過文謅謅、鄙夷的話語和批評來顯示他們高人一等，而且懂得比你更多

Three:

第三種：

Powerful Dependents

能幹的依附者

Powerful dependents pretend to be weak and powerless

能幹的依附者假裝自己很軟弱，

then use their hopelessness to dominate relationships.

然後透過絕望感取得關係中的優勢

That is,

意思是，

they send a subtle message "You must not let me down"

他們會暗示你不能讓他們失望

Four:

第四種：

Triangulators

三角關係驅動者

These people always try to get others on their side.

這種人會想辦法拉攏他人支持自己

They're quick to say nasty things and put you down.

他們會毫不猶豫地講很惡劣的話貶低你

They separate good friends and drive wedges in between families.

他們撕裂友誼，製造家庭糾紛

Five:

第五種：

The Blasters

火爆的人

They blast you with their anger or suddenly blow up.

他們會對你發脾氣，或者突然火氣上升

That stops you from asking questions in case there's a showdown.

這讓你因為擔心起衝突而不敢質疑他們

Six:

第六種：

The Projector

投射者

The projector thinks they're perfect and that others have all the flaws.

投射者認為自己是完美的，其他人才有問題

They take no ownership because they're never ever wrong.

他們不會認錯因為他們認為自己永遠是對的

Seven:

第七種：

The Deliberate Misinterpreter

刻意扭曲者

This person seems nice but they twist and use your words.

這種人看似和善，但他們刻意曲解你的用字來對付你

This person spreads misinformation and misinterprets you,

這種人會刻意散布謠言，曲解你的原意，

deliberately presenting you in a false, negative way

故意塑造你虛假、負面的形象

Eight:

第八種：

The Flirt

調情者

This person uses flirting to get their way in life.

這種人為了自己的目的調情

They want to be admired and have an audience.

他們想被崇拜，想要被關注

However, your needs and interests are of no concern to them.

然而，他們一點都不在乎你的利益和感受

Nine:

第九種：

The Iron Fist

鐵腕者

The iron fist uses intimidation to throw their weight around,

鐵腕者透過威嚇來製造他們的份量、

use you for their ends, and get their way in life.

利用你來達到自己的目的

Ten:

第十種：

The Multiple Offender

綜合手段者

This person uses several of the Techniques we've described

這種人結合多種我們剛介紹的手段

and will often switch between the methods depending on what suits their purposes.

而且經常是自身目標而切換手段

So have you ever encountered these types of people before?

所以你有沒有遇過剛提到的這些人？

If so, how did you deal with them?

如果有，你是是如何因應的？

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歡迎在留言處分享你們的故事

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當然，如果你喜歡我們的內容，請到其他社群平台搜尋我們的頁面

and don't forget to subscribe!

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Thanks for watching and have a wonderful day.

謝謝觀賞，希望你有美好的一天