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  • So, here's a statement: 'Asians are cuter'

  • *offended gasp*

  • Ok wait.

  • If that was your reaction, this video is probably not what you think.

  • Everyone has their own opinions of what constitutes as attractive.

  • But I'm not necessarily talking about 'attractiveness' here - I'm talking about 'cuteness'

  • Cuteness is a term describing a type of attractiveness commonly associated with youth and appearance.

  • It's also a scientific concept.

  • So when I say 'Asians are cuter', well, they arguably are

  • and that's including males, not just females.

  • Now, compared to adults, common features for infants across all ethnic groups include

  • larger heads, flatter faces, reduction of the brow ridge, hairlessness, thinner bones, reduced muscle mass,

  • smaller physical size, shorter arms, shorter legs, just to name a few

  • and of course this is largely why people find babies cute.

  • If they didn't have these features and proportions, they'd more so resemble miniature adults

  • and that's….

  • kinda creepy.

  • Normally as you transition from a big headed, short limbed baby, to a longer-legged juvenile,

  • to a teenager, and finally to a fully-developed adult

  • you would expect to lose most if not all of these traits.

  • However, this isn't always the case.

  • How many 'cute', baby-like features you retain into adulthood, largely depends on your ethnicity.

  • And this takes us back to Asian people, specifically East Asian people, because

  • compared to other groups, they tend to have (on average) the highest retention of childlike features

  • This is called 'Neoteny', where you may still look 14 even though you're actually 30.

  • Ok, hold up.

  • I suppose this may be getting awkward for some of you, especially for those who have

  • an inclination towards Asians.

  • But... it's actually not so weird.

  • Studies have shown that, at least for men, there is a clear preference or attraction

  • towards neotenized faces - and this is regardless of ethnicity.

  • Men of all types were more likely to find neonate features attractive.

  • And since Asian people were more likely to have these features,

  • it's only natural that a high percentage of these men were also drawn to Asian people.

  • So in many of these cases, what looked like 'Asian fever', may have just be 'cuteness fever'.

  • And this is regardless of the person's actual age.

  • According to these studies, neotenous faces were perceived as having higher 'sociability' and 'femininity'

  • where as those 'low in neoteny', were more 'intimidating'.

  • Ok, but, why is this the case?

  • Why are East Asians more neotenous?

  • Well, about 30,000 years ago there was a crucial juncture in the evolution of Asians.

  • There was a gene mutation that resulted in several distinctive traits that made

  • East Asians different from other populations.

  • Thicker hair shafts, reduced chin protrusion, smaller breasts, changes in the morphology of ears and teeth

  • many these traits making an individual look younger than they actually are.

  • As time went on, changes in cranial morphology followed, slightly larger heads, flatter faces,

  • more pronounced cheekbones, reduced sexual dimorphism

  • which means males started to resemble females a little more

  • basically an all-round high retention of juvenile characteristics.

  • Now, depending on your preference which relate to your background, your culture

  • your thoughts may differ on the attractiveness of the aforementioned.

  • In Western society, the desirability of these traits is not exactly something that's encouraged

  • when it comes to physical attraction

  • But in East Asia, it's pretty normal

  • And has been the case for a very long time.

  • In fact, it's said sexual selection likely played a major role in bringing these traits to the forefront.

  • As mentioned previously there is an innate attraction that males in general have towards neotenous features

  • regardless of culture - but in East Asian society, this is heightened.

  • With more males selecting 'cute' female partners

  • overtime these traits became more and more widespread.

  • In this sense, neoteny in Asian males is really the resulting 'by-product' of sexual selection.

  • Another point to consider is that infantile features tend to trigger a nurturing response in adults

  • they elicit more affection, meaning that this is possibly an evolutionary adaptation

  • to help ensure that children are taken care of by adults

  • and thus securing the survival of the species.

  • In a similar sense, those who retain said traits into adulthood could have higher reproductive success.

  • If you're wondering why non-neotenous traits exist in the first place

  • well there are obvious evolutionary benefits

  • larger teeth and jaws, for example, would have been needed for the constant chewing of

  • tough, raw foods back in the day.

  • Yes you can see from this that neoteny is actually a condition that has affected all humans

  • just to varying degrees.

  • An adult human today is a lot closer to the juvenile form of our ancestors.

  • We're all basically mutant apes that never grew up.

  • Ok, at this point, many of you may be wondering how the concept of 'Asian eyes' fits into all of this?

  • I mean, babies are supposed to have disproportionately large eyes

  • which would make it a neotenous trait.

  • But thenhow is this explained?

  • I've actually done an extra video covering this specific topic

  • which you can check out exclusively on our Patreon page (the link's down below)

  • Now, it's not just the physical characteristics that make East Asians appear 'cuter'.

  • It's also the way they act.

  • If there's one country that exemplifies this the most, it would have to be Japan.

  • Kawaii culture has long been a prominent aspect of Japanese society.

  • The cutesy, kawaii way of talking and acting is certainly commonplace there

  • with many Japanese men finding this attractive.

  • And actually it's not just restricted to the way they look and the way they act

  • kawaii cuteness is pervasive everywhere - in media, entertainment, clothing, food, toys, transport,

  • guardrails(?)

  • condoms(?)

  • Ok so the ability for adult humans to be able to act kawaii is also considered a neotenous trait.

  • This is an example of 'psychological neoteny'

  • where there is a retention of youthful attitudes and behaviors into later adulthood.

  • While this is certainly more widespread in Japan, South Korea, parts of China

  • it's not strictly an East Asian phenomenon.

  • For example, you perhaps could classify the American 'California valley girl' tone and behaviour

  • as a form of psychological neoteny.

  • Now, in an evolutionary sense, this childlike trait of playfulness, or prolonged immaturity,

  • can actually be a valuable developmental characteristic.

  • It can make an individual more flexible and adaptable in life

  • behavioural traits that aren't nearly as beneficial in previous, more settled societies.

  • Social roles today are dramatically less fixed.

  • Frequent changes in our careers and personal relationships have become the norm,

  • and perhaps the best way to deal with all this unpredictability

  • is to embrace that youthful sense of play.

  • It drives humans to be more curious about the world, enabling us to learn new things, even as adults.

  • By the way, I'm not saying that being straight-up immature is the way to go.

  • Of course, there's a difference between the playful adaptability as highlighted here

  • and just plain obnoxiousness.

  • And another thing to clear up - this topic may be a sensitive issue for certain people,

  • as race-related topics tend to be.

  • I know some have used neoteny to argue that Asians are inferior

  • because they're underdeveloped and childlike.

  • Conversely, there are others who have argued that Asians are superior to the rest of the world

  • given that neoteny is a characteristic of advanced evolutionary status

  • meaning Asians are capable of the greatest development.

  • No, this video is not backing either of these points of view.

  • Any differences should be cherished and appreciated in their own way.

  • And whether you're more into Asian features, or Western features or whatever

  • that's ok too.

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  • So there's really no harm in at least checking it out, the link's in the description below.

  • And remember it's East Meet East, not MEETS (A lot of people get that mixed up).

  • For those interested in the extra video I mentioned about why 'Asian eyes' look the way they do

  • despite Asians being neotenous

  • you can check out our Patreon page.

  • Anyway I hope you enjoyed this topic, and if you have any questions or thoughts

  • let us know down below.

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