Name: 西蒙-辛克談千禧一代在職場的表現 (Simon Sinek on Millennials in the Workplace)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T08:00:33.000Z
Duration: 17 min 40 s
Description: 【看影片學英語】數萬部 YouTube 影片，搭配英漢字典即點即查，輕鬆掌握單字發音與用法，長久累積看電影不必再看字幕。

to 不定詞

I have yet to give a speech or have a
meeting where somebody doesn't ask me

the Millenial question what's the
Millenial question apparently

Millennials as a generation which is a
group of people who were born

approximately 1984 and after are tough
to manage and they're accused of being

entitled and narcissistic
self-interested unfocused lazy but

entitled is the big one and and because
they confound leadership so much what's

happening as leaders are asking the
Millennials what do you want and

Millennials are saying we want to work
in a place with purpose love that we

want to make an impact you know whatever
that means we want free food and bean

bags and so somebody articulates some
sort of purpose there's lots of free

food and there's bean bags and yet for
some reason they are still not happy and

that's because you that they're missing
there's a there's a missing piece what

I've learned is that there I can break
it down into four pieces right there are

four four things four characteristics
one is parenting the other one is

technology
third is impatience and the fourth is

environment the generation that we call
the Millennials too many of them grew up

subject to not my words failed parenting
strategies you know where for example

they were told that they were special
all the time they were told that they

have anything they want in life just cuz
they want it they were told some of them

got into honors classes not because they
deserved it but because their parents

complained and some of them got a is not
because they earned them but because the

teachers didn't want to deal with the
parents some kids got participation

medals you got a medal for coming in
last right which the science we know is

pretty clear which is it devalues the
medal and the reward for those who

actually work hard and that actually
makes the person who comes in last to

feel embarrassed because they know they
didn't deserve it so that makes me feel

worse
right so you take this group of people

and they graduate school and they get a
job and they're thrust into an it into

the real world and in an instant they
find out they're not special

their moms can't get them a promotion
that you get nothing for coming in last

and by the way you can't just have it
because you want it right and in an

instant their entire self-image is
shattered and so you have an entire

generation that's growing up with lower
self-esteem than previous generations

the other problem to compound it is
we're growing up in a facebook Instagram

world in other words we're good at
putting filters on things we're good at

showing people that life is amazing even
though I'm depressed right and so

everybody sounds tough
and everybody sounds like they got it

all figure it out and the reality is
there's very little toughness and most

people don't have it figure it out and
so when the more senior people say what

we do they sound like this is what you
got it it and they have no clue so you

have an entire generation growing up
with lower self-esteem than previous

generations right through no fault of
their own through no fault of their own

right they were dealt a bad hand right
now let's add in technology we know that

engagement with social media and our
cell phones releases a chemical called

dopamine
that's why when you get a text it feels

good all right so you know we've all had
it where you're feeling a little bit

down or feeling a bit lonely and so you
send out 10 texts to 10 friends you know

high high high high high because it
feels good when you get a response right

right it's why we count the likes it's
why we go back 10 times to see if and if

it's going if our mints and my Instagram
is growing slower I would I do something

wrong do they not like me anymore right
the trauma for young kids to be

unfriended right because we know when
you get it you get a hit of dopamine

which feels good it's why we like it
it's why we keep going back to it

dopamine is the exact same chemical that
makes us feel good when we smoke when we

drink and when we gamble in other words
it's highly highly addictive right we

have age restrictions on smoking
gambling and alcohol and we have no age

restrictions on social media and cell
phones which is the equivalent of

opening up the liquor cabinet and saying
to our teenagers hey by the way this

but that's basically what's happening
that's basically what's happening right

that's basically what happened you have
an entire generation that has access to

an addictive numbing chemical called
dopamine through social media and

cellphones as they're going through the
high stress of adolescence why is this

important
almost every alcoholic discovered

alcohol when they were teenagers when
we're very very young the only approval

we need is the approval of our parents
and as we go through adolescence we make

this transition where we now need the
approval of our peers very frustrating

for our parents very important for us
that allows us to acculturate outside of

our immediate families into the broader
tribe right

it's a highly highly stressful and
anxious period of our lives and we're

supposed to learn to rely on our friends
some people quite by accident discover

alcohol and numbing effects of dopamine
to help them cope with the stresses and

anxieties of adolescence unfortunately
that becomes hardwired in their brains

and for the rest of their lives when
they suffer significant stress they will

not turn to a person they will turn to
the bottle social stress financial

stress career stress that's pretty much
the primary reasons why an alcoholic

drinks right what's happening is because
we're out allowing unfettered access to

these dopamine producing devices and
media basically it's becoming hardwired

and what we're seeing is as they grow
older they - many kids don't know how to

form deep meaningful relationships their
words not mine they will admit that many

of their friendships are superficial
they will admit that their friends that

they don't count on their friends they
don't rely on their friends they have

fun with their friends but they also
know that their friends will cancel out

them as something better comes along
deep meaningful relationships are not

there because they never practice the
skill set and worse they don't have the

coping mechanisms to deal with stress so
when significant stress starts to show

up in their lives they're not turning to
a person they're turning to a device

they're turning to social media they're
turning to these things which offer

temporary relief we know the science is
clear we know that people who spend more

time on Facebook so far higher rates of
depression than people spend less time

on Facebook write these things balanced
alcohol is not bad too much alcohol is

bad gambling is fun too much gambling is
dangerous right there's nothing wrong

with social media and cell phones it's
the imbalance right if you're

at dinner with your friends and you're
texting somebody who's not there that's

a problem that's an addiction if you're
sitting in a meeting with people you're

supposed to be listening to and speaking
and you put your phone on the table face

up or face down I don't care that sends
the subconscious message to the room

that you're not just you're just not
that important to me right now right

that's what happens and the fact that
you cannot put it away it's because you

are addicted right if you wake up and
you check your phone before you say good

字幕列表影片播放

西蒙-辛克談千禧一代在職場的表現 (Simon Sinek on Millennials in the Workplace)

entire

scenario

figure

depression