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  • - [Ray] Principles for Success.

  • An Ultra Mini-Series Adventure

  • in 30 Minutes and in Eight Episodes.

  • Episode Eight- Struggle Well.

  • So far, I described how I learned

  • to confront my own realities, my problems,

  • my mistakes and weaknesses,

  • and how I surrounded myself with others

  • who could do things better than I could.

  • This was the most effective way I discovered

  • for making great decisions.

  • (cheering)

  • This is not the normal way of being

  • but through this approach, I became very successful.

  • And being successful enabled me

  • to meet extraordinarily successful people

  • and see how they think.

  • I've discovered that their journeys were similar to mine.

  • You might not know it but they all struggle

  • and they all have weaknesses.

  • That they all get around by working with people

  • who see risks and opportunities that they would miss.

  • Over time, I learned that by nature

  • most people's greatest strengths are also connected

  • to their most significant weaknesses.

  • And striving hard for big things is bound

  • to lead you to painful falls.

  • It's just part of the process.

  • Such setbacks will test you.

  • They sort people.

  • Some think hard about what caused their setbacks,

  • learned lessons, and continue progressing

  • toward their goals.

  • While others decide that this game is not for them

  • and get off the field,

  • I've come to realize that success

  • is not a matter of attaining one's goals.

  • I found that when I reached

  • each new higher level of success,

  • I really remained satisfied.

  • The things we're striving for are just the bait.

  • Struggling to get them forces us to evolve.

  • And it is this struggle

  • to our personal evolution with others that is the reward.

  • I no longer wanted to get across the jungle

  • but instead wanted to find greater

  • and greater challenges to go after.

  • Surrounded by great people working together

  • on a shared journey.

  • Eventually, the success of the mission

  • and the well-being of the people alongside me

  • became more important than my own success.

  • I also started to see beyond myself

  • and wanted others to be successful when I'm no longer here.

  • I realized that if I failed to do that,

  • I will be a failure.

  • I struggle with this now.

  • We all struggle with different things at different times

  • until we either choose to give up or until we die

  • and become part of the larger evolutionary story.

  • This is how all machines work and are recycled through time.

  • When a machine breaks down,

  • it's parts go back into the system

  • to become parts of new machines

  • that also evolved through time.

  • Sometimes this makes us sad

  • because we become very attached to our machines.

  • But if you look at it from a higher level,

  • it's really beautiful to observe

  • how the machine of evolution works.

  • Now you must decide for yourself how you will evolve.

  • Forget about where these principles came from.

  • Just assess whether or not they are useful to you

  • and evolve them to sooth your own needs.

  • As with all of life's decisions,

  • what you do with them is ultimately up to you.

  • My only hope for you is that you have the courage

  • to struggle and evolve well to make your life

  • as great as it can be.

  • Thank you and goodbye.

- [Ray] Principles for Success.

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