Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles did you know according to latest studies 40% of your daily activities are habitual and that's why Benjamin Franklin famously once said most people die at 25 but they're not buried until 75 and I can't tell you how true this is in today's day and age as most people they are literally sleeping awake they get to the end of their life full of regrets and while ifs and it is for this reason it's important that you pay close attention in today's video where I'm gonna be breaking down the five habits you need to give up right now if you want to be more successful and so make sure to pay close attention especially to the final fatal bad habit because that is the thing that you need to be unblocked from right now without further ado let's go on to the first bad habit you need to give up which is crumbling under pressure here's a big difference between winners and losers losers the moment they begin to feel the winds of life the moment they begin to fall down and crumble and feel that pressure what do they do they begin to give up taping it to tell themselves oh you don't know what I'm going through oh it's hard whilst the winners on the other side what do they tell themselves they realize it's real and it's good it's part of the process they realize the strongest trees don't grow in the best soils, it grows in the strongest winds and they understand that they can control it you see the problem arises when we think we're the only ones who feel pressure and then allow ourselves to get overwhelmed by it when in fact other people around you feel this pressure what dictates success is how you handle this what peak performance and high performers have all got in common is they have got a neutral relationship to this energy and they've reframe it to give them more energy what they tell themselves when they feel nervous they tell themselves I feel excited and they jump onto a stage and they serve to go above and beyond and so it's how you interpret this information that dictates your outcome so reframe this and realize that pressure is what creates diamonds let's go into a second bad habit you need to give up which is negative self-image your self-image may shoo act like you the strongest force in the human psychology is a need to remain congruent with how you identify yourself and so to change your performance you must change your self-image and you must begin to get out of your comfort zone you must begin to ask yourself when you achieve your goals who are you going to become because that's a true purpose of a goal is to see who must you become in order for you to achieve that goal and if you begin to change your self-image to that future vision now that's the moment you're going to begin to act in accordance to your future self identity because right now if you view yourself negatively as Zig Ziglar famous who's once said you cannot consistently perform in a manner which is inconsistent with the way you see yourself so you must change the way you're viewing yourself to change the outcome and the result you're currently getting that is the second bad habit let's go on to the third bad habit which is playing to lose let me ask you on a day-to-day basis are you playing not to lose or are you playing to win this is a big difference it sounds so simple but it's a big difference between winners and losers losers are literally looking either around them thinking oh I'm just about scraping by what's winners they are dominating whilst winners they're doing whatever it takes they are playing to win this is a mindset shift that you need to have instead of playing not to lose you got to play to win you've got to realize if you're going to go in at all go all-in if you're gonna do anything to do it properly and do it like a winner would own it from the heart and do what it takes inside it let's go into a fourth bad habit which is never committing rich people are committed to being rich poor people simply think about being rich and this is why rich continues get richer and the poor seem to get poor poor people just read more books speaking one day this is gonna happen but yet they never do anything about it was rich people what do they do speed of implementation the moment they learn something they immediately implement it while support people just think oh I'm just gonna research more and they they're never never take action I'm going to write this down ready fire aim get in the game you want to know what you want take action and then you wanna adjust as you go because your plans will never go 100% as a plan to realize the fastest way for you to be successful is to get in the game and pivot along the way when things don't go along the direction that you want to go to pivot keep on failing forwards that's how you make your dreams of reality and that leads perfectly on to the final point which is the final bad habit which is dreaming far too small do you know how you're gonna make your dreams a reality because if so you dreaming way too small you see if you shoot for the stars at least you'll hit the moon right but poor people they didn't even shoot for the ceiling in the house and that's why they wonder why they're not successful right and I want to realize that how is none of your business Elon Musk he wants to colonize Mars Richard Branson he wants to take people out to space on a freakin holiday Steve Jobs he wanted to put a ding in the freaking universe the question is is what is your goal right now we've been conditioned to think realistic we've been conditioned to follow goal setting systems such as smart which is full of BS listen Martin Luther King did not stand in front of tens of thousands of people in 1963 and he didn't say I've got a smart gun no he said I've got a dream the question is do you dare to really dream do you dare to dream big because when you set this audacious goal that is the thing that I'll keep you alive that is the thing that that will from the heart you'll feel that burning desire to make your reality this is how you never run out of motivation by setting a goal that's aligned with your your intuition your heart the thing that you're born to do and then it becomes your mission to make your reality this is what visionaries entrepreneurs have got in common they see things before it happens the question is is what do you really really want out of life and make it a must to make that of reality so dare to dream big these are the five habits that you need to give up right now if you want to be successful if you found this video helpful inside there be sure to share this video with your friends and loved ones why because the more you give the more you shall receive so it's about becoming a person of value so make sure to share this video with your friends and loved ones right now and like this video if you like this video and comment below and Gus at any questions or feedback you and you may have and as always insider follow your heart my friend and take action and go live the life you're truly born to live I'll see you on the next video soon take care
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