Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles - Good morning, good life, everyone. It is so nice to talk to you here in my office. It's been a little while since we've done something like this, so it feels great, especially during my favorite time of year, which is the New Year. Out with the old, in with the new. Love an arbitrary date on the calendar for a fresh start, are you with me? I think so. Since we talk a lot about productivity, efficiency, and beautiful mornings, we are going to discuss, today, some ideas for your morning routine going into the New Year. (gentle rhythmic music) OK, I'm not gonna lie, this is a little bit weird for me. I'm definitely in a great mood. I'm so excited to be sitting down with you, especially on a Sunday. I know Sunday videos have been greatly missed, especially by me, as well, and so, I just feel like this is the perfect video for us to chat today. I don't know the state of me at the moment. This is not my normal setup, I know it kinda looks similar, but I'm using a new camera, I'm using a new microphone. I don't know that I fully completed my hairstyle, but I just was so anxious to chat with you. So, let's get into it. First, I wanna do something a little bit different, and I'm hoping to do this again in the future, so let me know what you think. But I love everyone who hangs out with me here on the YouTube channel, but also those who hang out with me on my other social networks, mainly Twitter and Instagram. And so, I thought, today, I would start something called the Twitter shout-out. Very, very scientific name, Amy, very good job. Shout-out to my friend, Laurie Burkett, for retweeting my last video, I appreciate your support so much. And if you would like a shout-out in the next video, make sure you follow me on Twitter, and be sure to retweet my video when it comes out. Alright, on to your New Year morning routine. First thing's first, let your phone sleep in. I can now tell you with the greatest of life experience that there is a chance that someone will need to reach you while you are sleeping, by phone, and if you have do not disturb on and have it tucked away in another room, so that you can sleep soundly, you may not get this call. However, because of technology and emergency situations breaking through do not disturb, it is very likely that you will still be able to be contacted, and/or even if you get that call, you may not be able to do anything about it. Because the worst of the worst of this has happened to me, I can now say that every night, you need your sleep. You're going to need to wake up the next day and proceed with life at your highest productivity and capability. So, for the most part, it is very wise and important for you to leave your phone asleep in another room. And then when the alarm goes off and you have to wake up and turn it off and all that fun stuff, let that phone stay tucked in, in its special little home, for a little while. Waking up in the morning and starting the scroll process is a terrible idea. It's a complete waste of any waking up early things if you plan to do something like that, or even when you wake up at all, it's your time. So, don't spend it trying to figure out is there something I should have checked, especially if it's Twitter or Instagram. That can absolutely wait. So, how can you prepare for letting your phone sleep in? Choose that special place that is not next to your bed where your phone will get tucked in every night when you go to sleep, so that is has a place to stay while you're doing your morning routine. Keep do not disturb on for a little bit, until it's time to get back on your phone, so that you can go about your routine without distractions. Knowing that the phone is right over there and will just ding you whenever it feels like is not the same thing as letting it sleep in. Do not disturb is sleep-in mode for the phone, so leverage that. The second idea is to get your water drinking on. If you start your day with water, then you're much more likely to continue the theme of drinking water throughout the day. I can tell you this because I do not like drinking water. But when I start with it, I am much more likely to have a lot more of it, especially if I have some other things encouraging it. There have been a lot of myths and misconceptions about the benefits of water for us. I would like to say that water will clear your skin right up, but that's not always true. Skin care does its job on that front. But your body does need to be hydrated, if for nothing else, flushing out the toxins that you know you welcomed into your body over the holidays, OK? So, how do you prepare yourself to drink more water throughout the day? I recommend buying a dope water bottle that you know you're going to like. For me, it has to have a straw attached or I will not drink it. If it's one of those big water bottles and you have to guzzle it, I'm not into that. Whether I have makeup on or not, I'm not into guzzling water, it just doesn't sound like fun to me. I need a straw when I'm at the gym, I need a straw in the morning, I need a straw throughout the day. It causes me do drink a lot more. So, my water bottle is equipped with that, and it's also very big, it's at least 32 ounces, so I know I've got a solid amount of water intake just from one water bottle. And my next tip to prepare would be to start with something else other than just basic water. Now, I'm typically thirsty for just straight-up water, but I like to start my day with lemon water, so I have a really great little lemon squeezer. I was using a different one, and then my mom gave me this little gadget, and it's my favorite lemon squeezer I have ever used. It really gets a lot of the juice outta there. And that adds so much flavor to your first water in the morning that it makes it a little bit more interesting than just your basic H2O. My next idea for your morning routine is to read 10 pages. If you're the type of person that wants to read more, and we will definitely be reading more on this channel as we talk about book club throughout the year, I know that I'm even trying to read on a more regular basis. I tend to wait 'til before bed, which, I think, is so bad, because when I'm in bed, I am ready for bed, and that book just puts me to sleep. So, I ultimately end up reading for only about 15 minutes, and that is not enough, 'cause I can't read as fast as I would like. So, I'm not reading as much as I would if I was doing it when I was wide awake. So, reading 10 pages a day and trying to lead off with that in the morning will give you that intention of getting in your reading time every day and knocking it out before the rest of the world comes in and takes over. How do you prepare for this? I would choose your reading spot. So, I have one specific place on the couch that I love to just curl up, make sure I've got my lemon water or my coffee, and start to read. If I don't have that spot, I'll just be like, oh, I'll just read in bed, and then I fall asleep; or I'll just sit in my office and read or something. No, I'm not gonna sit here and read. That's not what I do here, that's not my mode. So, find your place where it is reading mode. Another thing I recommend, and I do both, I like to read out of a book, but I also like audio books. And if you're an audio book person because you're like, uh, I hate to read, but everybody tells me I should, do the audiobook thing. It's fantastic, especially if the author read the audiobook theirself, (laughs) like someone I know. Hint, hint, get yourself a copy. My advice for the audiobook thing is it's easy to just invest in an Audible membership, and I will link to that in the description, because I highly recommend Audible, it's a fantastic service for audiobooks. But then you'll sometimes forget about it entirely if it's just an app on your phone, so pair the act of listening to a book with one specific activity. So, if you like to do cardio at the gym, then just say, OK, every time I do cardio at the gym, which is at least five days a week, then I'm going to pair my audio listening to the treadmill moving around. And that way, you're more likely to do the thing because you've decided what tasks are gonna get paired together instead of, again, just an arbitrary, oh, I'll just get my audiobook time in at some point. I don't know about you, but I actually don't find there are many opportunities while I'm working on the computer that it makes sense for me to listen to something else because I will find that my brain is having a hard time processing one or the other. So, when I really wanna read a book, I need to be doing something totally mindless, like being on the treadmill, bored, in order to absorb an audio book. And my last tip for preparation is choose something you're excited to read. We might choose something here for book club that you're that into, or if somebody recommends something to you, and you're like, mm, I'm not really into nonfiction, then just don't do it, don't waste your time. I'm one of those people that feels like they have to finish everything, like I have to get the last drop of shampoo out of the bottle, give it to me now, I will not, I am, it's so weird. So, I always feel like I have to finish a book, but one of the biggest things that I learned is that I don't, I absolutely do not. If I don't like how it's going, I can stop. And there was a book I really, really wanted to love in the last couple of months, and I was like, I am not into this. And it could've been what I was going through, and it just wasn't a good time. Regardless, don't waste your time. Stop, move on to the next one. Pick something you're excited about, and then quit if it's not the right fit for you. My fourth idea is to just write something. I know this might sound crazy if you're not a writer. I'm not a writer, I just think it's great to get ideas out of your brain. So, this could be a number of things. You could do something like morning pages, which we talk a lot about around here, which is basically just brain dumping for three pages. You could write a list of ideas, you could just write down what your dream was from the night before, you could have a gratitude journal. Just write something first thing in the morning. Get things out of your brain and onto paper, so that they are not just sitting there and bogging you down. How do you prepare for this? Well, one thing that you can do is get a specific journal for your everyday life, your tasks, your ideas, your brain dump, whatever it is. I highly recommend the Bullet Journal. I have stuck with the Bullet Journal for two years now, it's been 2017, 2018. My 2018 journal was a little shaky, I'm not gonna lie. But I am so excited about really knocking it out of the park in 2019. And something very special, Bullet Journal actually sent me, and I don't know if you can see this, but they sent me a box, which I was so excited about, and then I didn't open it because things were going on, and I got distracted. And I just thought, oh, that's so nice, they sent me a Bullet Journal. And then I was like, I feel like that's a very big box for one Bullet Journal. Well, it is. So, what they did was that they included The Bullet Journal Method, the book, and this is basically a guide on how to use Bullet Journal, as well as, I think, some other stories and things like that from the creator of the the Bullet Journal, Ryder Carroll; and the Leuchtturm 1917, which is the notebook for bullet journaling, but it has been fully customized for the Bullet Journal brand. But there's more, they gave me another one, one for me and one to give away. So I have another copy of The Bullet Journal Method and the Leuchtturm 1917 to give away. And so, I am going to do just that because you've gotta have this in your life, I love it. You can go watch my previous videos on bullet journaling. Actually, if you wanna see what my updated Bullet Journal's gonna be like, comment about that below, because I think that would be a really great future video for us to discuss if you're interested. But if you would like to win these two items here, I'm gonna ship it to ya. Head over to my Instagram and look for my latest photo, where you can leave a comment about what you're excited about getting more productive with in the New Year. And I will choose a winner, US only, sorry, I shoulda said that, US only, and I will ship these to you myself as soon as possible, so that you can kick off your New Year with your new Bullet Journal. Thanks to Bullet Journal for sending this to me. This is not sponsored, they just sent me the box, and I am absolutely going to share the love on this because I know I have a lot of Bullet Journal enthusiasts in this lovely community. My next idea is for you to wash your face. I'm personally the type of person that cannot even function if I have not washed my face. I can't go make coffee, I can't go drink my lemon water, I can't go write in my journal, I can't do anything until I get the crud outta my eyes and make my face feel really moist. I want to be able to lead with my skin. So, how would you prepare for this if you're not the type of person to wash your face first thing in the morning? Maybe you do the bare minimum at night, which is the bare minimum, by the way. Don't make me cram skin care tips down your throat. What I would suggest is that you set your face wash and your moisturizer out, so that it is not like, oh, where did I put that again? Or oh yeah, I forgot I had a routine, and I stuck it in the cabinet, no. Sit it on the counter, this is what countertops are for. If you don't have a countertop, then maybe you can get a nice stand for these items. If you forget they exist, you will not use them, so I tend to leave things out on the counter that, first of all, I use frequently; or secondly, I don't wanna forget that I bought 'cause it's not in my usual routine. My next tip for this is don't go overboard. A lot of times, people will sign up for a six-step skin care routine 'cause they're like, woo-hoo, ready to go in, no. You do not need to do that, and sometimes your skin will actually freak out if you add too many things, not just get a couple of zits, because that happens when you start new face wash, and it's sorta like, what is this? It's actually cleaning out the toxins in a different way. But if you start adding too many serums or oils or whatever, and you haven't really given things time to work themselves out and you do too much at once, it cannot be good for your skin. I've been dealing with a lot of perioral dermatitis in the last couple of years, actually, basically, since my wedding, which is awful. What I've learned from that is you need to be able to test things and figure out where the source of the issue is. So, don't sign up for too much. If you wanna prepare, just do, add one thing that you haven't been doing. The base, I would say, is face wash and moisturizer. But if that's your first step, that's a good first step. My sixth idea is for you to make the bed, that annoying thing that your parents always wanted you to do growing up that you hated doing. But, darn it, they were right. The nice thing about this is that if you do nothing else the rest of the day, you get to get in bed that night and look at this masterpiece of the one thing you were able to accomplish. So, kick off your day with one great thing, and that is making the bed that you're gonna wanna get into later in a bad way. How do you prepare for this? Well, you just gotta do it. When it comes down to it, we're talking about just making the bed, just make the bed. Another thing you can do is maybe make it more worth your while. I added a couple of the big euro square pillows to make the bed look a lot more impressive when it's made, and that gets me more excited to make the bed even though I've just added steps to the process. But it does look a lot prettier. And another weekly routine tip here that will help you with the whole bed-making habit is I have always, probably for the last 10 years, almost my entire adulthood, I have always washed my sheets on Sunday. Today's Sunday, I'll wash my sheets, so that I have fresh sheets going into every new workweek. To me, it just makes it feel like it's just like icing on the cake that I have prepared fully for what I have to do in the coming days. And my last idea for your New Year morning routine is to limit decision-making. The fewer things that you have to make your brain work on every single morning the better, because then you're more likely to continue to do the things as habits that don't cause a lot of decision-making. So, I'm gonna make my bed, there is no decision there, done. I am going to drink lemon water, no decision there, done. I am going to write in my morning pages while I drink my lemon water and then my coffee, done. It's not a decision, it's just you're gonna do it. I'm gonna go to the gym, I am going to get dressed, these are all things. But the little things like what am I gonna wear to the gym? What am I gonna wear for the day? When am I going to go to the gym? When am I going to make time for it? These, the little decisions that can start to make you question lots of parts of your day, and then it just, everything gets messy. So, do things like picking out your uniform. If you know it's a day you have to go into the office, then there's probably a specific outfit that you would typically wear. What are the basics of that? Lay them out the night before or stick with that plan every time. When I used to work at a law firm, I wore black slacks every day, and it was just a matter of what button-down shirt I was gonna wear or what sweater. And then from there, it's like, what shoes go with those black pants? Are they long black pants? I'm gonna wear a heel. Are they short black pants? I'm gonna wear a flat, it was that simple. So the limiting of the decision-making is going to make your life so much easier when you're trying to get out the door, when you're trying to move on to something that actually deserves meaningful thought. Another tip would be go to the gym at the same time every day. If you have the ability to do that, or if it makes the most sense for you because your schedule is fairly set, then it's not a decision. It's not am I gonna go to the gym, it's always go to the gym. To me, I just go every single day, so I'm not saying, oh, I only work out three to four times a week. If I do that, then I'm like, oh, I only went twice this week, so I'll just do five next week. No, no, no, no, no. If you go every day, even if it's not a serious workout, if it's sort of like a, you're on your sixth day of the week of working out, just walk on the treadmill for a mile at a high incline, and it's like, great, you went to the gym today, and you didn't have to, but you did. And that routine helped you get to the ones that were a little bit harder. Saying that as somebody that's getting some really challenging trainings from her trainer, and so, there are days that are easier at the gym, and there are days that I wish I wasn't there. But I don't get to decide, it's just every day. Just a couple of bonus tips on this whole morning routine thing, one being do not be afraid of habits, and do not let habits rule you. I'm the type of person, I nerd out about habits. There are people that do not. There are a lot of people who do not, but definitely want to try to at least have a few. If you are one of those people, do not let habits become the ruler of your life. You don't wanna sign up for bureaucracy, and you also don't wanna give yourself a super-hard time if you miss something. If you're traveling, if your schedule changes, if suddenly, your dog's gotta go to the vet because they're sick, things happen. And you'll find that the most successful people with their habits do not give themselves a hard time if they miss one or two or three 'cause they know they're gonna get right back to them. They're gonna get back to their normal routine. They're gonna get back to it at some point. And they're not gonna give themselves a hard time on the other days because it's just a fact of life. If you let the habits rule you, you will not stick with them. But if you respect them for what they are and you keep them in your life as consistently as is normal and as is human, then you're gonna be fine. And another one is to start keeping track of a few differences by having routines in your life for these different habits. If you start drinking lemon water in the morning and you feel more awake more naturally without coffee, then maybe start to learn from that and drink a little bit of less coffee. If you're starting to notice a difference in your body because you are at least moving at the gym almost every day, then notice that, write it down, put it in your journal, start to track things. The more you monitor, the more likely you're gonna keep up with something. Alright, those are just a few ideas for your New Year morning routine. I'd love to hear some suggestions from you in the comments below. What are you planning on instituting in your mornings going into the New Year? Leave a comment. And if you're interested in hearing a little bit about resolutions that I had this year and sort of a recap on that and how I'm going into next year about resolutions, the latest episode of Detail Therapy, yes, the podcast is finally coming back from a break also (laughs), it'll be out tomorrow, December 31st, which is New Year's Eve, and so, you can tune in and get a listen to that. The link is in the description. I know the last couple of months have been a little bit weird around here, but I'm super happy to finally be back back, like really back this time, Sundays and Wednesdays in full effect. So, thank you for your patience with me, and I'm so excited for what is to come. We are gonna have some fun around here in 2019. That's all for today, thank you so much for tuning in. I appreciate it, as always. Make sure you subscribe for good vibes, kiss the ones you love (smacks lips), and remember to go after the life that you want. Cheers. (gentle rhythmic music)
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