- Oh, do you know what?

It sounds like a seance is about to begin.

- Bong, yeah.

- Bong.

(laughter)

- Oh I love it.

- Enter.

(laughter)

(robotic scat tune)

- We're here.

Hi, I'm Joel.

- Hi I'm Lia. - She's Lia.

- [Both] Um--

(mocking pronunciation)

- We're YouTubers.

I'm a libra.

- I'm a cancer and let me just read my horoscopes

for January and see what my predictions are for this year.

- So funny.

We're doing another questions thing.

What is it?

Ask yourself.

- Ask yourself, Joel. (mouse clicking)

- I love it.

I love this series.

- We love it when people go

(lips smacking)

yourselves. - Yourselves, yeah.

- So we should call this question

- [Both] Ask yourselves.

(laughter)

- Yeah, ask your--

- It's just ask yourse-- (burping)

- Did a Prosecco burp, I'm so sorry.

- Darling.

- One must never do that when drinking Prosecco.

- No, you literally must never burp during Prosecco.

- I know, only after.

- Only after.

- Right, where did we get to? - Right.

Okay.

- Did we do a teaser?

We didn't, did we?

- No, but that's fine - That's fine.

- 'cause this is gonna start on a high.

So as Joel said, welcome back to the series

where you ask yourselves a question.

This is where we ask ourselves stuff,

discover more about our morals, moral compass.

- Yeah.

- You know, our opinions on things

and it's also where you can sort of

ask yourself the same question and think about your answer.

- Yeah, and we can all chat with each other down below

in the comments and exchange ideas and thoughts and beliefs.

It's just a really cool place. - Just something to do really.

- Yeah it is. - Just something to do.

- Something to do.

- We like to our drinks, just relax a bit

whilst we're doing it.

Right, this one's juicy.

Ready? - Okay, go on.

- Would you rather be, I love a would you rather,

- Yeah.

- extremely successful professionally and have a tolerable

yet unexciting private life,

- Okay.

- or have an extremely happy private life

and only a tolerable and uninspiring professional life?

- I know immediately my answer.

- I know what your answer is.

- You know what my answer is.

I know what your answer is.

- Yeah.

- Mine is to have a very-- - Wait what's mine?

- I think yours is the opposite of mine.

- Same.

- Oh, I want have a tolerable and

unexciting personal life

but a very successful professional life.

Because I think you spend most of your life at work

- Yeah, you do!

- and I feel like just because you're,

it's not saying you have a bad personal life,

it's saying it's tolerable and unexciting and actually

our professional life is very exciting.

- Yeah.

- So I quite like the unexciting parts

of my private life, because we do have our--

- 'Cause we just indulge in the

every day-- - Um hmm.

- I think it's the sort of magic of the ordinary.

Like, yeah, I'm just gonna go home and cook dinner now.

- Yeah.

- Like, we've just been at an amazing thing all day

and we're really lucky and grateful to be around

the people that we get to be around and stuff,

but then we just go and we do something just really ordinary

- Yeah. - or have very--

- And the ordinary then becomes really fun

'cause once we've been to events and in a row

if it's like a premier and then a press launch for something

and then this, they're amazing things that

we're so grateful for, but then you just are like,

I just wanna have a night in that's literally do nothing.

- Get takeaway and do nothing.

- Yeah.

- Yeah, definitely.

- So I thought you were gonna say the other way around.

- I don't know, Joel.

I would love to have an extremely happy private life

but I don't want an uninspiring professional life.

- Yeah, no one does.

- No one does, 'cause I know what you said is true

that you spend a lot of your time at work.

- Yeah.

- So if the majority of your time is spent at work unhappy,

and it's sort of like uninspiring

(lips vibrating)

job, but then your private life,

you end up living for the weekends

- Yeah.

- and living for those happy times when--

I don't know, it's a really hard one but I think

- It is.

- overall I'd prefer a really exciting professional life.

- I think so 'cause I know we don't do these,

yeah but I would then do this,

we don't pick it apart.

(sneezes)

- Please excuse me.

(laughter)

- You haven't sneezed all night

and you do it when we're in a rush.

(laughter)

- [Lia] So sorry darling.

- It's okay.

- [Lia] I have to just,

I had to take a moment.

- At least it wasn't on the live stream.

- [Lia] Do you know what, that's so true.

- Yeah.

I know we weren't gonna pick it apart and say,

yeah but what if I do this. - Yeah.

- But like you would then naturally probably involve--

Your personal life would become your professional life.

- Yeah I get that, I feel that

and one of the books I'm reading, it's like,

don't make your life so compartmentalized.

- Oh yeah. - It's like,

that's your work life, this is your home life,

when it's all just your life, really.

- Yeah. That's a good way to think of it.

- It's like us going on a work trip

but then we've done our work and we extend our holiday

- Yeah.

- And have like a personal life holiday.

- Yeah.

- So we're in L.A. but just like,

alright cool, our work's done, an extra week.

- Yeah yeah.

- It can be fun, can't it?

- It like melds together, yeah.

- Yeah.

That's what you get for sneezing out your live.

- Okay.

- Okay?

Oh, what should I wish?

- Blow, make a wish.

- Um...

I have to be more specific.

- We're in a rush.

(laughter)

So we take forever.

(blows)

- It's not working. - Oh its stuck.

It's stuck, it's not gonna come true.

(blows)

Joel, if it doesn't blow off its not coming true.

(blows)

Oh it's never gonna happen! (laughter)

- Come on!

(blows)

Yes, it's gone. - It's gonna happen.

- Right, it's ready to be hoovered up by the maid.

(laughter)

Not our maid.

- She calls her cleaner "the maid", its so funny.

- But not "the maid", "my maid".

- "My maid's not coming 'til Tuesday."

- She's not your maid, she's probably lots of people's maid.

- Yeah. - I know, let me ask you one.

Right, so, this is a juicy one.

- Mmm.

- If at birth you could select the profession

your child would eventually pursue, would you do so?

- If I had the choice to say that

my child could be a

- Yeah. - a successful

- Yeah.

music artist or a--

(sighs)

Do you know what, morally it's wrong isn't it?

Because you need to let the child grow up,

decide what they're into and then do it.

- Yeah.

- But on the other hand, most people don't really know

what they want out of life anyway.

- Yeah.

- So imagine if you said,

I know decisions are hard,

I struggle with decisions

so you're probably gonna have my genetics

so I've decided you're gonna be the next Adele.

- There you go.

- Congratulations on your number one album!

- Yeah 'cause how could they complain about that?

If you were like,

you're gonna be the most successful sporting person

in the world, you'd be like, or whatever it is--

- You're gonna be an olympian gold medalist.

- Yeah, how could they complain about that?

- You're gonna be amazing at swimming.

They might just be like I hate water.

But we wouldn't know that until they're older, would we?

- No, you would just still

push them in the swimming pool, swim!

- It's like pushy parents, what would you do?

- I don't think I would.

I would like to because I think part of the joy for me

was that I chose my profession of what I wanted to pursue

and it was so different to anyone in my family

had done before and I really love that.

- Yeah.

- But the fear, I guess for all parents, is that

your child will just be uninspired and unambitious

and will just settle for the bare minimum

and I wouldn't want that.

So if my child was gonna be like that,

I would want to choose their profession.

- Yeah.

- But I would hold out for the fact

that my child would be like me

and they'd be a bit ambitious.

- Really? - Um hmm.

- For instance, I personally would never let

my child be a YouTuber.

- Oh, I wouldn't not let them.

If they wanted to I'd let them do it.

I wouldn't say you can not be it.

But I wouldn't be like,

yeah, be a YouTuber--

- Joel, would you struggle if they were

more successful than your platform?

- Absolutely, my child can not be more successful than me.

(laughter)

- So they can't be a YouTuber then?

- But you know how every parent

wants their child to be more successful

than them and they're rooting for them?

I don't think I'd be that parent.

I'd be like, you can not be more successful than me!

Thank you!

- I'd just be a bit like,

can't you just go and be a doctor or something?

- But I would never once be one of those parents though

that bothers about their career.

I love that my parents don't really care what job

I wanted to do, they would just support me