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  • Heya playas, if you're in middle school, high school or just trying to figure out

  • whether a girl likes you, there are plenty of things that she does to show this off.

  • And it's up to you to pick up

  • on them. Here are five important signs to look for to figure out whether or not

  • a girl likes you.

  • I was asked this question by Bruce Wayne and I know there are plenty of videos out

  • there explaining how girls show off that they like guys but I wanted to go deeper

  • into why she does what she does. The first indicator is that she challenges

  • you or tries to test you. By this

  • I mean that she'll make some comments that you may think come off as bitchy

  • but what she's really trying to do is see if you can handle her. What she really

  • wants is to see if you're truly interested in her.

  • Most guys see this challenge and just back off

  • which helps her separate the weak guys from the strong guys. If she's putting up a

  • bit of a tough front, tease her for it.

  • That'll show her that you're not going to back down just because she's acting the

  • way she is. Plus if she's doing this, it's a huge indicated that she's interested.

  • The second indicator is that she's constantly touching up her looks. Most

  • girls put on makeup and get dressed up because it makes them feel good but they

  • also know that it helps in attracting guys. If you're talking to a girl and she's

  • constantly pushing her hair back or

  • fixing her clothes, then that means that she's trying to primp herself up for you.

  • All animals do this to attract their mates. Hell, the male peacock shows off his

  • gigantic feathers just to get the females to say "Did you girl see the size of

  • his feathers?"

  • O M G

  • The third indicator is that she mentions that she has a boyfriend or she asks you

  • if you have a girlfriend. Sometimes girls make up that they have a boyfriend

  • just to scare off creeps, sometimes they actually have a boyfriend but if it's not one of

  • those two situations

  • and she tells you she has a boyfriend it's because she wants to know how you'll

  • react.

  • Her goal is to make you work for her. To make sure you're after her for her

  • and not just to *click click*

  • with her. If she ask you if you have a girlfriend that's her way of finding out

  • whether or not there any other females in the way of what she wants. If the girlfriend

  • question comes up and then she says she has a boyfriend

  • that might just be her defense mechanism to not make her seem alone or desperate.

  • The fourth indicator, she creates situations for you to ask her out. Most girls wanna

  • be swept off their feet but they don't want to be the ones that ask you

  • out so they'll create a situation for you to do it. Lots of guys are oblivious to this. If

  • she's telling you things like she's bored or that she doesn't have any plans

  • she's waiting for you to ask her out. Use these situations to create the magic

  • that she's looking for. Chances are she's gonna want to tweak the date in her own way

  • but in her mind

  • she still had nothing to do with it. The fifth indicators, she studies your

  • face with her eyes. Sometimes maintaining eye contact can be kind of awkward.

  • But if she's into you,

  • she's going to be looking you up

  • and down. When you talk to her, see where her eyes go. If she's looking up at

  • your eyes and then down to your lips then chances are she's waiting for you to

  • kiss her. And the perfect way to go into this is to start talking about

  • something

  • and then hold strong eye contact with her.

  • Then look down slowly at her lips

  • and let your words just kind of drift off...

  • And in that one second of science

  • smile, and kiss her.

  • But I'm interested to hear what you guys have to say. What other signs do girls

  • give off to show that they like someone? Leave your comment below so we can talk

  • about it. The key here is to be observant and opportunistic. Lots of times guy see

  • girls making these signs and think in their heads, oh man she's really into me but they

  • don't do anything about it. She's waiting for you to pull the trigger to make that spark

  • happen. Look for these five signs and get that girl. As always guys, love and peace.

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  • that I've gone on dates with girls

  • and saw all these signs but didn't do anything about it.

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Heya playas, if you're in middle school, high school or just trying to figure out

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