I'vebeenlike a kidin a candyshopforthelastfewweeksThinkingaboutthis, um, tooffthemostsuccessfulpeopleintheirfieldstooffprobablythebiggestcelebritynamesinthe U.
And I thinkit's a realprivilegethatweallgettospendtimewiththesepeople.
I feelreallyprivilegedthatthey'vebecomereallygoodfriendsofminesince, Well, wegoback a bitfurtherbecausewe'vegotpropertyandbusinessrelationshipwhenKevingotintoproperty.
WewentdowntoSouthampton, wherehewasdoingoneofhisshowsanddidthreeepisodeswithhim, Sothisreallyisallinaboutpodcasts, so I wantyoutobeinvolvedasmuchaswe'reinvolved, whichmeansthat I'm certainlyfor I wouldsayatleast 1/3 offeachoftheinterviews.
I'm goingtoopenthefloortoquestions, so I'm gonnagiveyou a littlebitoftimetopreparewhatyouronequestionmightbenow, withthemingtonightonsecretstoyoursuccesscauseactuallykeptbeeninterviewedtwiceinmypocketsbefore.
Whatmakes a winnerofstrictlydifferenttowhatmakes a greatdancer?
Uh, no.
Theanswerisyes.
Butyes, youtookitintermsofthecelebritiesdoingitororisthisprosetelluswe'vegotallnightmayWell, intermsofthecelebritieslike a asyouknow, itdependsonwhotheaudiencegetbehindreallyOnDDE.
Thatcouldbemanydifferentthings.
I thinkpeoplewatchstrictlyand I think a lotofthetimetheyliketoseesomeonewhowasn't necessarilybrilliantatthestartandtheyhavetoworkreallyhardandtheysee a lotofimprovementonalso, like I said, withjustbeing a dancer, thattheywanttoconnectemotionally, I thinkpeoplegetboredofwatchingsomeonewho's justkindofkindofperfectintermsoftechniqueandlinesandthings.
Theydon't wanttogivein a displayofsomething.
Theytheywanttogetexcited.
Bye.
Soyeah, andwiththatwiththepros, likeif I if I wastodo, I haven't donethebininthedancecompetitionworldforquite a while.
I stoppeddoingthatin 2007.
12 yearsnow I'vebeenoutofthecompetitionscene.
If I wastogoanddocompetitionsnowadays, I probablywouldn't getanywhereas I usedtobequitesuccessfulinit.
But I probablywouldn't getanywherebecauseit's judgedin a verysortoftechnical, technicalway.
I don't wanttogetkickedoutearlyLike I reallyenjoyingthis.
I want I wanttodobetterthanthis.
I thinkweneedtoputmorehoursinandweendedupdoing 14 hours a dayoftrainingandareimprovementjustjustwentthroughtheroof.
Hejustkeptkeptimprovingandimproving.
And I thinkpeoplelikethatinsomeoneandthen, youknow, withMayitwasprobably a bitof a sympathyvotethatwentwithitbecausebecause I'vebeenrunnerupfourtimes, esopeoplewereprobablythinking, Yeah, I reallylikeShe's reallyhardworkandshe's doing a goodjobandshe's dancingwithhim.
Justgivehimit, Giveit, givehimthewind.
Justwantsthings, thesepages.
Jews.
Yeah.
So I thinkthere's a lotoffactorsgointoitwhenitcomestostrictlyspecifically, popularity, likingtoseesomeoneworkhard, liketoseethemimprove?
No, necessarilyperfectrelatable.
Makeyoufeelsomething?
Yeah.
I mean, thereweretwogirlsinthefinal, oneofthemfromthePussycatDollsandoneofthemfromsteps, bothlovelyandbothbrilliantdancers.
I thinkitwaseasierforthemtogettothefinal, butwhenitcamewherethejudgeshavenothingtodowithitandit's justdowntopublicvoteinthefinal, I thinktheyhad a bigtaskontheirhandtoconvincethepublictovoteforthemtowin.
I thinkeveryonelovedthemandenjoyedwhattheyweredoing.
Yeah, butthenthatifwegetButthenifweget, like, aneightor a nine a coupleofweekslater, it's like, Oh, myGod, Lookatthat.
Lookatthat.
Lookatthatimprovement.
Youknowallofthis.
Whereisifsomeone's gone?
Gotsix, andthen a sevenandthenaneight, thenthey'resortoftheywerealreadythereorespeciallyifthey'realljustdetonates, right?
Rightoffthebat.
It's like, Wheredoyougogetthinkingaboutit?
Therehavetobesomekindofdisaster, whichmightmean a majorfall.
Andtomake a majorforyoumighthavetotry a hardmove.
Yeah, Exactly.
Yeah, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Youjustgotit.
Youjustgottagoforit.
LookedlikethinkingWhichdancewasitwithStacythatwoulditsamba, whichwassortofshewasn't a naturalLatinAmericandancerandstartlike a coupleofweeksearlierwaswhenweweregettingfoursdoingattach a chair.
Butthenpeoplestartedgettingbehindbecausetheywerelike, Look, a having a goondie.
Think a lotofpeoplejustthought, youknow, I wanttoThat's what I'd hopedtodoif I wasonthatjourneyononstrictly, andpeoplewererelatingtoewheretheremighthavebeen a slightlybetterdancerthatweek.
I guessifsomeonelikeAlexanderMcQueensays, I don't mindifyouloveme, I don't make a lotmindifyouhateme.
I justwantedtofeelsomething, andyou'resaying, I don't mindifyougettooaslongasyoudon't getsixItsoundslikewhatyou'resayingistheextremeendsoftheemotionswhereyouexperiencelifewhereyoucouldn't have a comebackfrom a fiveyear.
I know I shouldn't lookatit, butyeah, courseitdoes, Likecourseitconcerncanaffectyou.
It's justhowyougoforwardfromthere.
I mean, actuallygotmoresuccessful.
YoumusthaveMaur.
Yeah, sohaveyou.
Doyouthinkyou'vegotbetterhandlingit?
Probablyinthelastyear, butsixmonthstoit.
Threeyearsyou'vebeeninthepress a lotmore.
Yeah, I'vejustYeahbeenthrowninthedeepend a supposelike, it's oneofthemthingsagain.
Wherewhat I feellike I'veexperienced a littlebitiswell, while I wasthatguythatwascomingsecondallthetimeonstrictly.
I neverreallyhadthatmuchproblemlikefromthepress, forexample.
Theyquitelikedmeandtheychampionedmebecause I wasn't thethetall, dark, handsome, muscular, goodlookingguythatwasjustwinningandwinningatlifeallthetime.
I wasletpastykidfromGrimsbywhocouldn't quitewin.
Soeveryonewasallrightwithwasfine.
Welikedhim.
WelikedpastylittleKevin's, I assumeassoonas, uh, assoonaswewonitturnedlikelike I suddenlystartedexperiencing, youknow, liketheyjustwantedtofindstoriesandtakethingsoutofcontextandwritestuffaboutme.
And I'vereadsomuchstuffaboutmyselfinthelastsortofsixmonthsthathasnothingtodowithanykindoftruth.
Theyjustmakestuffup.
Always.
Aninsidesourcesays, It's likeyou, isn't it?
You'retheinsightoninsight, aninsidesourcesayingsomethingisjust a personsayingitlikeif I go, if I gorightherenow, likeeveninfrontofanyoneorevenif I justsaidit's a oneperson.
RobMoore's a bitchliquor.
Thatdoesn't meanRobMooreis a bitch.
Liquor.
Itjustmeanssomeonesaidsomething.
Andifthatpersonis a journalist, then I couldbeaninsidesource.
Saidthatdoesn't makeittrue.
Youmightbestartingsomething.
HeOh, afterthathappened, someonesentme a T shirtwithhappyhashtagbitchliquor.
And I knowyouairtakingpicturesandwhatever, Butatthattime, I wasreallyscaredof, sortofspeaking, likefrompeople.
Nowitfeels a biteasier, likelikerightnow, likethisdidn't seemlike a problemlikebefore.
A fewyearsago, I wouldhavebeenlikebeenlike, reallynervousandsweating.
It's likeanything, themoreyousortofthrowyourselfintosomethingwithpropertylike 10 cluewhat I wasdoingthathowtogoaboutbeing a propertyinvestor, youknow, Now I'm doingit.
It's like, Well, likewithanything, youthrowyourselfintoitandjustacceptthatyou I guessifyoujustaccept, you'renotgonnabeperfect, thatit's solikewithgettingallthetrollingonallthatyoujustaccept.
Well, I washangingout a fairbitwithyouwhilethatwasgoingon.
I neverreadoneeachofthosecolumns.
Yeah, noideawhatitwas.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's finethewaywethink.
What?
Weknowwhatpeoplearethinking, butyeah.
Thentheygottheirownproblems.
They'vegottheirownthingstoworryabout.
Yeah.
Didn't haveyourcolumninchestopoftheirmind.
Yeah, ondhe.
I'm tryingtosortofkeeprelatingtoit.
Soit's notjustalltalkingaboutdancinglikethesamelikecominghere t progressive.
Likewhen I wasfirstsortoftalkingtopeopleandtryingtonetwork.
And I havenoideahowarehowtotalktopeopleandtalktopeopleaboutproperty.
And I justhadthis, like, impostersyndromeof I don't knowanythingaboutit.
I don't knowenoughaboutpropertytobehere, Andyouassumethateveryoneintheroomisis a propertybillionaireontheyknoweverything, Everydetail, youknow, abouteverylawtodowithmortgages, Italyontaxandwhateverandyoucompletelyoutofyourdepthon.
Butif I sayanything, peoplearegonnathink I'm anidiotandtheknow, howarethey?
Youknow, I'm justgonnaprocrastinateforthatlonger, becauseif I starttalking, peoplearegonnathink I'm stupidandthey'regonnajudgemypodcastonThere's gonnabeloads a commentsaying I hatethis.
I don't wanttohearhisvoiceanymore.
Getridofhim.
Sothereason I saidthatwasbecauseKevinwasveryproudthatKevinletmeinterviewhimforhisfirstepisodeofhispodcastonitwasveryopenaboutsomeofhisimpossiblesyndromeandstufflikethat.
TheyfeltsoListentothatfirstepisode, definitelywhenitcomesoutin a fewweekstime, butbackontothethemeofsecretsofsuccess.
I knowthisandpeoplethatyouadmiregreatly, youknow, thatyouthinkareverysuccessful.
I knowyou'vementionedpeopleliketheRockorRobbieWilliams.
Butthenyouhearandbeinginterviewed, andhe's gotallthesameinsecuritiesasanyoneelse, likemassivelyinsecureandworriedaboutwhateveryonethinksandstruggleswith a lotofstuff.
And I thinkwhenyouhearpeoplelikehimtalkingaboutthatstuff, it's reallycoolbecauseyoujustrealizeguysthinkingall I'm sayingthingsthat I wasthinkingon, doyouknow?
Likeforme, I wasdancingas a competitors, andthen I joined a showcalledBurntheFloor, a dancecompanyandjustworkmennotsoftforforyearsforthatcompany, andthedirectoroftheshowisGuycalledJasonGillCassonandhelikewestartedoff.
WewereperforminginfrontoflikeNo.
One.
A first.
We'reperforminginfrontofabout 15 peoplein a casinoinReno, Nevada, onDhe.
Then I rememberonceweperformedin a themeparkintheBuschGardensthemeparkinFlorida, infrontofoneguyinBurgerandJetslike, andhewasn't theretoseetheshow.
Itwasthere, theburgerandchips.
Itjustsohappenedthatwewere.
Wewereperformingwhilehewasthere.
Hewassortofhalfwatchingus, andthatwasmycareeris a danceratthattime, butit's everytime, evenifit's onepersonin a boat.
Stillgooutandbeallin.
Goforthat.
Giveeverythingyou'vegotonstagethatday.
Andi.
We'retryingtoyouknow, theshowwastryingtogetbiggerandbiggerandbigger, andthere's a chancethatwemightgettomakeittoBroadwayoncetheshowwouldbecomebigger.
We'reinSanFrancisco, wegottoldus, theseproducersintherelookingtotaketheshowtoBroadway, anditallkindofhangsontonight's performance, andwe'vespent a lotofmoneyonthisandwhatever.
A coupleofyearslater, I'm tryingtogetonstrictlycomedancing.
I gotrejectedonthefirsttime I auditioned, Um, becausebecause I wasAlaimogotkidwithlonghairandblackeyemakeup, Blackfingernailsandthiswaydon't reallyhaveanyneedfor a golf s o.
So I cutmyhaironDSSMartinmyaxeoff a littlebitAndyouknow, I'lltryandlook a bitsmarter, likechangedmyimageandwentandauditionedagainthenextyear.
AndGodtoldNoahagain, andanthenextthingthathappenedwastheyhaveoneextraplaceontheshow, thatgun, becausetheywere, like, competingon X factor.
I thinktheywanttomaketheshowbigger.
Soitwentfrom 14 to 15 celebrities, sooneextraplaceopeneduponOnthatyear, theyhiredJasonGillKisonastheircreativedirectoroftheshowOn, theysaid, Wegot a shortlistofpeoplelikethat.
We'veseen, um, weneedtohireonemorepro.
We'renotsureabouthimtheend, butso I'm told.
Sohe's toldmelikelikeinthatmeetingJasonGillkissandsaid, I don't knowwhyyouwouldn't haeinlifeifyou I mean, itworkedreallyhardforyouand I gotthejobonDSO.
It's likeit's thatit's justcopyingthathut, thatworkethicinthepeople I admirebecause, likemymydancetalentdidn't clearlydidn't getme.
Andthen I recentlygotNo, actually, I don't think I wanttobethechoreographer, actuallywantperforms.
Okay, Sogoperform, then.
Likewhoyoutryingtoimpress?
Liketryingtoimpresspeoplewithdoingthat.
I turnedsomethingdownjustrecentlybecause I wasclosetoacceptingit.
Andthen I figuredoutthattheonlyreasonreallywhen I properlyhonestly, wasbrutallyhonestwithmyselfTheonlyreasonthat I wasdoingitwas, butthatwasabouttoacceptitwasthatso I couldshowoffaboutitonTwitterso I couldgotoallthethrows.
Yeah, exactly.
Yeah, like 11.
Butlikeexactlytoallthetrollsthatgo.
Oh, he's thisandhe's there, andhecan't dothat.
And I wasgonnagoandwasgonnaacceptthisjobpurelytogo.
Yes, I can.
Lookatme.
I'm doingreallywellhere, butthetwothings I don't wanttodoit.
Then I wouldhavestressedoutaboutit.
Orliketryingtoimpressyourparentsortryingto, youknow, impress a bossorjustorsomeidealthatyouplacedonyourselfoff.
Like I needtobethispersonifyou'renotthatperson, Notthatperson.
Butofcourse, alsobandmembersongwriterproducer, a manofmanytalents.
And I've I reallythinkhe's a lovelyman.
I'vebeenveryprivilegedtogettoknowhimoverthelastfewmonths, and I'm reallyexcitedtoseeitwas a totalsurprise.
Sopleasegiveyoucouldyougive a hugeroundofapplauseforMrRikio?
Youseewhereveryoulike.
I'llsitherecause I thinkOkay, howlonghaveyouknown?
Checked, bytheway?
Probablyaboutfouryears.
Yeah, maybelonger, butmademywife.
Wehost a charitynighteverycoupleofyears, andweheardthatJakehadmoved.
Itmovedinabout 5 10 minutesaroundthecorner.
So I lived, sowejustdropped a littletreatdoorsayingthere's anythingdonateforthefortheearthfortheauctionandblesshim.
HithimandAlliewerereallyhelpful.
Andnowtheycometoeallourballsinit.
AndwithJake, doesyourchinsectionforusaswell.
SoButwejustgotreallyclosethroughthat.
Andthenwestartup a pokergroup.
There's, like, 10 ofusorplayingsomewhere.
Okay, Brian.
Jake, youready?
You'regood.
So I mean, Jakeobviouslydoesn't need a hugeintroductionbecausehe's sofamousalready.
But I think I shouldgivehimone.
I thinkthebiggestthing, JakeStein, hislifehascomeon.
ThedisruptiveentrepreneurpodcastonObviously a hugeroleinEastEnders.
Reallytalentedmaninmanyareas.
Reallyinteresting.
Funnyfun.
Gottobearoundaswell.
Sopleasegive a hugeroundofapplauseforMrTheo.
Oh, thankyou.
Congratulations.
This'llbeThismightbe 401.
Thismightbe 400 spice.
Itdepends, Theo.
WhatdoyouthinkittakestobeoneofthebestactorsinTV?
I wouldn't know.
David.
Jason, Someoneyou'veseen, Whatdoesittaketobe a greatact, yourhardworkdedication, uh, a stubbornnesstowanttosucceedagainsteverykindofeverylittlebitoflogic.
Youknow, I thinkinsomewaysit's a careeryouhavetobedrivento.
Youknow, I thinkprobablymaybelikedancinganyartisticventure.
Youknow, I metsomeonerecentlyapartaboutyearago, Christmasby, andshesaid, Whatwouldyoudo?
I said, I'm anactorandlookpoorAndshesaid, Thatproperty, Yeah, it's livingworkingforTomCruiseeyesAlwaysthisperception, youknow.
But, youknow, youknow, howdidyoumanagetowriteit?
I supposeisthatisthething.
Andisthatyourdriveoryoudoingthatcandoit?
Youknow, moneywasnevermysortofmydrive.
I diditbecause I lovedit.
Onda.
I thinkitwasalwayspassionateaboutitfromfromtheminute I starteddoingthatstartedactingprofessionalfromtheageof 10 whichisquiteunusualaboutGrabinIslingtoninnorthLondon.
There's a verygooddramaclubaroundthecornerfromwherewelive.