I'm a fanofschooloffgreatnessover $100 millionSowelcometoshow.
Butlookit, lockitdown, Welockitdown.
Sosharewithus a littlebitaboutyourjourney.
Maybegiveus a like a thief.
Fiveminutes.
Howyougotintoentrepreneurship.
I wantedtobe a professionalathlete.
Since I wasfiveorsixyearsold.
I alwaysdreamedaboutsports.
Thatwas a thingthatmydadadmired. 00:01:55.480 --> 00:02:0.810 We'd watchTVtogether, collegefootball, andhewasalwayssoexcitedabouttheseallAmericanathletesfromtheoutside. 00:02:0.810 --> 00:02:1.460 Youwanttobethat? 00:02:1.470 --> 00:02:4.090 Yeah, I waslike, Yeah, I wanttobeallAmericanathletes. 00:02:4.090 --> 00:02:8.900 SomygoalwastobeanAllAmericanathleteandthentobe a proathleteand I accomplishedboththosethings. 00:02:8.900 --> 00:02:11.050 I didn't have a backupplanafterthat.
Mylifewentuntilprosports, andthat's asfaras I coulddrink.
Sowhenthedreamwasover, I gotinjuredpointfootball.
Andwhenthedreamwasover, I alsowentthrough a verychallengingexperiencewithmydad.
Mydad, rightbefore I wenttoplayprofootball, had a traumaticbraininjury.
Andit's somethingthat I actuallydon't talkabout A lotget a traumaticbraininjury.
Andhealwaystoldme, Youknow, gochaseyourdream.
Whenyou'redone, youcancomesellinsurancewithme.
Hehad a lifeinsurancecompany, and I remember I gotitwaswithNorthwesternMutual.
So I remembergoingtodotheinternship. 00:02:56.050 --> 00:03:0.610 I didmy I can't rememberthetestwaas, butwasn't serious, seven. 00:03:0.610 --> 00:03:8.950 Butitwaslikethelifeinsurancetest, andyoucanonlytakeitthreetimesbeforeyouhavetowaitlike a yearortwoyearstodoitagain. 00:03:8.950 --> 00:03:15.110 And I failedtwice, Okay, soifformetesttakingwastheworstthing, I wouldgetnervous.
It's hardformetorememberthingsfrom a bookthatwaslike, I don't know.
I learnedwithmyhands.
I learnedfromplayingsports.
So I remember I passedonthethirdtribebarelybarelypassed.
So I hadthis, like, backupplan.
I guessitwasn't something I wantedtodo.
Yeah, somydadgetsinjured.
Hehad a caraccident, wasin a comaforthreemonths, andwedidn't knowifhewasgonnaliveordie.
Soisthisveryuncertaintime?
Andwhenhewasinthecoma, I said, youknow, whatwouldhewant?
TodoHe'd wantmetogowithmydreams.
Andso I wentafterplayingprofessionalfootballrightafterthat, andheeventuallywokeup, butwehadtoteachhimhowtowriteout a talkoutof, youknow, youknow, changehimconstantly. 00:03:58.690 --> 00:04:1.910 Likehewasn't a functioningpersonthatheusedtobe. 00:04:1.910 --> 00:04:2.980 Itwasn't mydadanymore. 00:04:4.140 --> 00:04:9.910 Soitwasanemotionallychallengingexperiencebecause I losttherelationshipwithmyfather. 00:04:9.920 --> 00:04:12.400 Buthe's stillinfrontofmeeither.
Sowhenthatwaswhenthatrealizationcametomelike I nolongerhavemydadtofallbackon, I nolongerhave.
I playedfootballandgotinjured.
Hewasn't therefromhewasn't abletobethereforme. 00:04:57.020 --> 00:05:0.670 Financially, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, as a mentor. 00:05:0.670 --> 00:05:1.930 Hewasn't gonnabethereforme. 00:05:2.640 --> 00:05:4.850 And I didn't havehiscompanytofallbackon. 00:05:5.070 --> 00:05:6.130 Nordid I reallywantto. 00:05:6.140 --> 00:05:8.010 I mean, I almostfaileditthreetimesin a row. 00:05:8.010 --> 00:05:9.010 I didn't reallylikeit. 00:05:9.020 --> 00:05:11.410 Yes, I likepeople, but I don't wanttosellinsurance.
Youknow, maybe I'llmovetothebigcityofColumbus, Ohio, youknow, but I soisMuchas.
It's sadformetakestoknowthathe's stillalive, butit's like a completedifferentrelationship, andit's sadformetoknowthathappened.
But I alsothinkithadtohappenformetobebecomethemanthat I amtodayandtohavethethecouragetobeabletogoaftersomethingthat I didn't evenknowwaspossible. 00:05:52.230 --> 00:06:0.440 Sowhenthathappened, I wasonmysister's couchafterthisaccidentforabout a yearand 1/2 tryingtofigureoutwho I amintheworld. 00:06:0.640 --> 00:06:3.320 Youknow, whoam I withoutthisidentityasanathlete? 00:06:3.430 --> 00:06:5.860 Youknow, everyonelikedmebecause I wasgoodatsomething. 00:06:6.330 --> 00:06:7.700 Butnow 2.0, yeah. 00:06:7.710 --> 00:06:9.940 Butnowthat I can't dothis, whataremyskills? 00:06:9.940 --> 00:06:12.350 Oneofmytalents I'd likedirection.
I hadsevenyearsofcollege.
Ittookme a graduatelike I wasn't skilledatanythingbutsportsandpeople.
I learnedhowtoatanearlyage, observepeople, and I becameveryintuitiveabouthowpeoplethinkwhytheydothethingstheydo.
And I startedtobeaware, insensitiveandveryemotionaltopeople's feelings, theirdesires, theirdreams, theirpast, theireverything.
I didn't knowthatwasskillthat I coulduseformygreatergoodandthegreatergoodofeverything.
Uh, and I startedtofindmentors, andthisisgoingonmorethanthreeminutes, but I startedtofindmentorsduringthattimebecausemydadwasmymentor.
Nowhewasnolongerabletobetherelookingfor a moment.
I waslike, Who's thefather? 00:06:59.430 --> 00:07:1.670 Figurethat I canfinallylookuptoyourespect? 00:07:2.340 --> 00:07:6.920 And I neededtofindmanyofthembecausehewas, youknow, a greatmentorinallareasofmylife. 00:07:6.920 --> 00:07:13.950 So I hadthreekeymentorsthatsothefirstmentorwas a guynamedChrisHawker.
Sowhen I gotit, when I hadsurgery, I brokemywristandtheyhadput a bonefrommyhipandmyrecords.
Youseethiscar?
Thiscarheretook a boneoutofmyhead, putitonmywrist.
I wasin a castfrommyshouldertomyfingersforsixmonthslikethiswasinthisposition.
Andwhenyou'retocastlikethis, I couldmoveithere.
I canmoveithere, ithere, butcastratemyarm.
Soitkindofarrested.
Anditwouldliketoscratchmyshirts.
When I wasshirtless, itwouldliketoscratchmyskin.
Itsmelled.
Itwasdirty.
Allthesethingsdidn't lookgood.
So I inventedthiscastcover.
Actually.
Stillhaveonehope.
I thinkit's inthatlocker.
It's sortofthatthisisover.
15 yearsago, I think I inventedthiscastcoverthatactuallywentinalibabadotcom. 00:07:58.460 --> 00:08:0.300 I had, like, 60 buckstomyname. 00:08:0.360 --> 00:08:8.720 I waslike, Here's what I wanttohearisthedesign I wantedtobelike a wristbandbecause I worerespondsinfootballwaslike, I need a longwristband. 00:08:8.730 --> 00:08:10.540 Yes, that's doublethickness.
Yes, that's differentcolorsthatit's a thumbhole.
Always.
Youwerejustthinkingdoingitforyourself.
I justwanted a solution.
You'recreating a product.
I need a solutionformypain.
Yeah, that's it.
ThatwasItwasmyfirstentrepreneurialidea, but I didn't knowwhatwhatitwace.
So I gotthisthingbackfromChina.
Thatwaslike, sixweekslater, after I sentit, wiredthismoney, I waslike, I'm nevertogetthismoneyback.
Yes, andnoclueisgoingonwithyou.
Waswas a difficultcommunicatingwithyou.
Emailsbackandforthdon't understand.
Trytounderstandwithincludingyou.
But I wantanAliBabaand, youknow, postedsomethingisYeah, and I gotthisboxbackwithallthesethescastcovers.
Rightthat I madeandrememberseeingmyself.
Wow.
Thisthingisamazing.
It's I couldchangehimoutwithdifferentcolors, Youknow, itfitsoverthethumbhole.
Looksbetter. 00:08:59.990 --> 00:09:2.540 Howdo I make I canmakesomemoneywiththisone, though? 00:09:2.540 --> 00:09:3.540 WhoAliceneedsdid. 00:09:4.460 --> 00:09:5.510 There's lotsofguyswouldbreak. 00:09:5.510 --> 00:09:8.400 Thelady's got a fewofthemmorethanyouknow. 00:09:8.480 --> 00:09:11.170 So I remember I wasdating a girlatthetime.
I wasjustlike, I needtomeetaninventor.
Someonewhohasdonethisbeforethatcanhelpme.
Thisisaninvention, right?
Eventhoughit's just a pieceofcloth.
Yes.
Andshegoes, I knowaninventorandhejustmovedbacktoColumbus.
Ohio's where I waslivingatthetime.
Hejustmovedback.
I needtobethisguynow, like, putmeinfrontofhim.
Callhim.
I needtomeetnow, OK, I mean, theguythenextday, andatthetime I was a couplemonthsoutoffootball.
Itwas a footballplayer.
I waslookedlikeprettymuchlike a thug.
I waswearing a backwardscap.
I hadbaggypants.
I had, like, I wasjustthisathletejockmentality s.
So I showupwiththesebaggypantsandbackwardscaptoe a bartomeetthisguyinthiscast, and I wasjust, like, sopassionateaboutthisidea. 00:09:57.960 --> 00:10:2.940 Whatisscaredofyou, like I gottagoimagining a littleintimidatingrougharoundtheedges. 00:10:4.350 --> 00:10:10.720 Andhe I wasjustlikeconvincedthisguyknewtheanswerbecausehe'd doneitbefore.
But I broughtthispassioninthisenergythatwasjustlike, I didn't makethishappen.
And I wanttoworkwithyouontomakethishappen.
I don't knowwhy, buthebroughtmeonforsixmonths.
I workedintheforfreeforhimforsixmonthsathisinventionshopinthekitchen.
Hehad a closetthat I had, like, a littledeskthatheputinforme.
And I wasworkingforhimdoingphonecalls, tryingtopromotehisotherproducts, goingtotradeshowswithhim, justlearningabouthowtotakeanideaandbringintoreality.
Sohowdoyoumaketheideasomethingthatismarketable?
Howdoyoubrandit?
Howdoyoudesignit?
Three D model.
Everything.
PattonPatton s.
So I learnedthiscrashcourseonbringinganideauntillifefromideaconceptprototypetothemarketplace, and I wasprobablysomeofthebesteducation I everhadbecause I justhadanideaforthissolutionof a painthat I had.
I rememberbeingsoafraidtospeakinfrontofpeopleatthetime.
I couldn't speakinfrontofanaudienceoffivewithouttrembling, stuttering, veryinsecure.
Eventhoughyou'reproathletelikeyou, that's a present.
Yeah, yeah, but I washorribleinschoolcommunicationformonschool, theteacherwouldalwaysaskus, say, openupchapterwhateverPagethree, andreadaloudtotheclass. 00:11:58.240 --> 00:12:0.550 And I wouldjustwishtheywouldn't callmyname. 00:12:1.180 --> 00:12:3.310 Theyalwayslike, Likelikelikedon't callme. 00:12:3.510 --> 00:12:7.640 Butwhen I tellyouthat I wassuch a slowreader. 00:12:7.650 --> 00:12:11.500 Itwasjust I couldn't evenreadthesimplestthings, and I stutter.
So I justalwaysfeltlikeeveryonewaslaughingat E.
Alwaysprobablywaslaughingatmeallthetimewhen I wouldreadaloud.
Yes, Dad.
Kindofconditions.
Youdon't youwanttea?
Youwanttobeinfrontofanaudience.
Unless I'm playing a sport, something.
I'm comfortable.
Youdon't havetospeak.
That's thewayitis.
A healthyseek.
Yeah, because I couldinspirepeoplethroughmywayofbeinginmyperformance.
So I wasalwaysveryinsecurearoundspeakinginfrontofotherpeople, and I can't remember.
Someonetoldmeatsomepoint, ifyoureallywanttochangetheworld, youneedtolearnhowtocommunicateinfrontofanaudience, whetherit's a boardroomofpeopletryingtoshare, youknowyou'remessingwiththecompanyoneofone, orifyouwanttomove a society, youneedtobecommunicate.
Yeah, withconfidence.
Yes, and I don't know, whatever. 00:12:56.770 --> 00:13:2.720 Itwasthereason I think I waswillingtoexplorealltheareasofmylifethat I wasnotgoodatthetime. 00:13:2.720 --> 00:13:4.460 Yeah, becausemydadwasn't around. 00:13:4.460 --> 00:13:5.290 I hadmoney. 00:13:5.290 --> 00:13:6.850 I wasSoundstomealways. 00:13:6.850 --> 00:13:9.260 Youtryingtofindyourselftryingto I waslike, What? 00:13:9.260 --> 00:13:11.480 Can I d'ohtoimprovemylife?
JoinedToastmasters.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah.
You'llbeshocked, likeeverythingyoushare.
Well, okay.
Mydadwentbankerwhen I was 17 yearsold, so I hadtofigureitout.
But I wouldgoformonthaftermonthtowwatchthesepeopledancethatwouldnevergetonthedancefloor.
Terrifiedyougirlswouldaskmetodance.
Andyouknow I don't makeyoulookbad.
I justsitinthecornerandbeingmesmerizedbytheseLatinosjustliketwirlinggirlsaround.
Unbelievable.
Eventually I gotoverthefearand I wentonthedancefloorforthefirsttime.
I wastrembling.
I waslookingdownonmyfeet. 00:14:56.950 --> 00:15:2.460 I wasembarrassed, likeeveryone's laughingatmeand I lookupafter 10 minutesandnoonecares. 00:15:3.140 --> 00:15:5.570 I don't carewhat I lookedlike, that I was. 00:15:5.790 --> 00:15:6.500 Theyweredoingtheirown. 00:15:7.600 --> 00:15:12.280 Andthatwas a bigturningpointformebecause I lookedaroundandeveryonewaslike, havingfundoingtheirthing.
Noonestoppedtolookatmetobelike, Whatanidiot.
Noonesaidthattome.
They'reall, like, greatjobyougotoutofthere.
Good.
Yeah, thatwasthemoment.
I said, Like, I'm gonnaovercomeallmyfearsandinsecuritiesofwhatpeoplethinkaboutme.
I'm justgonnadoit.
So I startedsalsadancingeverydayreligiouslyforthenextthreeand 1/2 monthsuntil I gotto a pointofsemimasterywhereitwasn't afraid, right?
Proficient, proficient.
Then I met a salsadanceroneofthesenights, and I waslike, Whatdoyoudofor a living?
Hewaslike, I'm a professionalspeaker.
I speakaroundthecountry.
Oh, yougetpaidtojustspeak.
Yeah, it's a fulltime.
Itissuch a thing.
It's a thingthat I couldgotocollegeisspeakingcorporations.
And I waslike, I wannalearnhowyougotintothat.
He's like, let's gohaveconfidentMara. 00:15:59.400 --> 00:16:0.410 I'lltake a coffee. 00:16:0.590 --> 00:16:6.820 BarnesandNobleStarbusrightinColumbus, Ohio, and I said, What I needtodoisyouneedtojoinit. 00:16:6.820 --> 00:16:9.020 Toastmasters, I said, OK, Don. 00:16:9.500 --> 00:16:17.260 Nextweek I wenttofiveToastmastersinmycitybecause I wantedtoresearch, whichwasthemostchallengingonefromYes, I finallywenttoone.
Thatwaseveryonewasinsuits.
Therewas, like, Professional.
Oh, man, that's exactlywhat I did.
Therewerelike, That's exactlywhy I wenttovisit.
Yeah, right.
Thosemyhad a cutoff T shirtbecause I hadthishugecastandtheseguysareallinsuits, and I'm watchingthem.
Andmesmerizing.
Yeah, I'm soyoungguywhere I needtobe.
And I wentthereeveryweekfor a year, everysingleweek, and I met a guyatToastmasterswhobecamemynextmentor.
God, I sawoneofthefirstones I wentto.
Hewaspresenting, and I wasjustsoamazedbyhischarisma.
Confidence, if I coulddothatright?
Whatif I couldbelikethat?
Youknow, modelthat I askedhim.
Thisissofunny. 00:16:59.070 --> 00:17:4.780 Thestoryhetellsthestorytime I hadnomoney, andtherewaslike, a littlebitoflike, bread. 00:17:4.780 --> 00:17:8.830 And, like, HamasandchipsandcarrotsinthebackofthisToastmasters. 00:17:8.840 --> 00:17:9.840 Oh, yes, yes, yes. 00:17:9.840 --> 00:17:10.600 Itwas a gift.
I'm puttinglikebreadwrappingit, andtheguycomesuptomebecausewhatyou'redoing, I waslike, I thoughteverybodylovedthefood.
A bigguy, because I'm gonnatakeyoutolunchrightnow.
Sohetookme.
Hepaidforlunch, became a mentorofmine.
Hisname's FrankReagan.
Andhewaslike, I'm gonnahelpyou.
Like I loveyourpad.
I lovethatyou'rehere.
You'reshowingupbecauseyou'reshowingupon a showforyou.
So I wouldtrainwithhim.
I wouldrecordmyspeeches.
Theywerehorrible.
I usedtothinkoffiveminutespeechwasfivehours.
Youshouldfeellikethiswasforever.
Youknow, thefirstspeechiscalledtheIcebreaker.
Oh, yeah?
Sowhat I'm gonnatalkaboutforfiveminutes? 00:18:0.350 --> 00:18:2.290 I don't knowtotalkaboutnow. 00:18:2.290 --> 00:18:14.620 Youcan't get a stayforfivehoursaheadoftimeislikeSohewasmysecondmentorandhealsohelpedmewritemyfirstbook, whichisthebookaboutbecause I wasusinglinkedintobuildrelationshipsatthat.
I boughtyourlinkingcoursebackthen.
Likeit.
Manlinked.
Working.
Yeah.
Linkedinfluence s o what?
Theboys.
That's good, man.
Soduringthistime, I wasjust, like, tryingtolearnasmuchas I could.
I wasonlinkedinallday.
I wasdoingpublicspeaking.
Wereyoutryingtogoonthedownsidetogetspeakinggeeksagain, learninghowtodothatatthebeginning, I wasjusttryingtogetontheretofindopportunities.
Thenoneofmymentorswaslike, let's write a booktogetheraboutlinkedinokay, speakingcoachmantoldwhohadwritten a bookislike, I'm gonnahelpyouwriteyourfirstblow.
Sowesharedthattogether?
Yes.
Whenyouhaveyourstep.
Whendidyouhaveyourfirstbreakinbusiness?
Youfeellikeokay, Becausethisdistantwas a longtime.
Itwassummerof 2009.
Okay, Itwasthistime 10 yearsago.
Okay, sothiswasfrom 2007 untiltwodozennineofmehavingfreementors, publicspeakingtrainingeveryweekfor a year, salsadancing, training, learningtowritemyfirstbook, buildingonLinkedineverydaywitheverythinggoingtomeetandjustlikelearningasmuch I canaboutmyselftwoyearsofthiswhilerecoveringwith a castonrehab, trainingeverything.
And I started a buildlike a kindof a nameand a personalbrandaround.
BeinglikethislinkedinguyTwitterwasbecomingbigin 7 4000 18 yearswhere I wasgoingtotweetupsandpromotingmyselfwaslinkedinguy.
Andoneday I wenttoaneventcalledAffiliatesSummit.
Oh, youknow.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I washosting a LincolnnetworkingeventinCleveland, Ohio, and a guywhocame?
Hisname's JimCookrolewas a marketingguy.
SaidyouneedHe's like, howareyoudoingallthisfrom?
Linkedin.
Howdoyouget 500 peopletoshowuphere?
Justlinkedin.
Yeah. 00:21:59.720 --> 00:22:1.790 YouneedtocometothisconferencecalledAffiliatesSummit. 00:22:2.800 --> 00:22:5.630 I waslike, I don't haveanymoneytill I gettoVegas. 00:22:5.680 --> 00:22:6.730 I can't payfortheticket. 00:22:6.730 --> 00:22:7.190 Hegoes. 00:22:7.200 --> 00:22:9.500 I knowtheeventowner.
I'm gonnagetyou a presspasssoyoucouldget a freeticketifyoulike.
Write a postaboutthisonyourvlog.
Youjustgottagetyourselfthere.
So I think I'vegot, like, a $39 flightonSouthwest, likemiddlebackseat.
Yeah, I got a freeticket.
I wentthereinthefirsthour.
Therewas a kindofnetworkingobsession.
Peoplehavetables?
Yes, and I wentuptomyfriendwhotoldmeabouttheeventHehad a littlebooth.
Yes, Andwithinfiveminutes, thisguynamedJoelCalmwalkedupand I knewhewasn't a timeinyourtime.
Bestyouexpected.
I thinkfocusonSNCJoe.
Yes.
Yeah, yeah.
hehadoneofthebiggest I phonetapsatthetime.
Called I fartTheapsecameoutinthestory. 00:22:55.640 --> 00:23:1.810 Hewasmakingsomuchmoneyonthisfartingappthatwaslike, Youpush a buttonandmakes a forcethathecrushedit. 00:23:2.080 --> 00:23:6.190 Sohehadthiskindofbigpersonaatthetimeinthatspace, Remember, hecameup. 00:23:6.200 --> 00:23:7.060 I wasreallynervous. 00:23:8.430 --> 00:23:15.340 And, um, myfriendJim, whointroducedme, whowasthere, Hesaid, ThisisLewis.
How's theLincolnguy?
You'vegottoknowhim.
Uh, Joel.
Joel, Listen.
Andhegoes, Tellmewhy I needtoknowaboutLincolnon 36.
I don't rememberwhat I said.
Justlikeelevated.
Whatdid I justhadthis, likeenergyandleakedhisamazing.
Here's what I coulddoaboutit.
Okay.
Cool.
And I didn't hearfromthemafterthat.
Okay, sixmonthslater, hemessagesme e mails, Mayandsays, I'm doingthissocialmediabootcamponlinelikethis.
WebinarSiri's.
I'vegotthepersononFacebooktotalk.
I'vegotthepersononYouTube.
I'm doing a sessionwe'relinkingThinks I don't knowanyoneelsewho's talkingaboutlinkedinthisisstill 2009.
Noonecaredaboutyou.
He's likenooneelseistalkingaboutit. 00:23:58.990 --> 00:24:2.520 ButyoudoyouwantComeon, I said, Yes, let's doit. 00:24:2.600 --> 00:24:4.960 I haveneverdone a webinarpresentation. 00:24:4.960 --> 00:24:8.210 Still, I waslikeearlystagesofit, publicspeaking. 00:24:8.210 --> 00:24:11.460 And I wasnot a pro, Yes, but I said, I'lldoit.
I watchedtheotherpeoplebeforehand, kindofjustmimictheirpresentation.
EmpoweryouloveAnd I beggedmybrothertotakemein, sohemademepay $250 a monthfor a roominhishouse, whichwasgreatformebecauseitmademehavemoreresponsibility.
Ifyouwant I I'vedonetwointerviews. 00:27:58.980 --> 00:28:1.900 Howcome, like I'm notgeneratingleads? 00:28:2.140 --> 00:28:3.710 Howdidyougetintothepodcasts? 00:28:3.980 --> 00:28:5.610 So I movedthio. 00:28:5.820 --> 00:28:13.420 Soonce I starteddoingthewebinar, I starteddoingthatprettymucheveryweekwithanotherbusinesspartnerofminethat I that I foundinColumbus.
Westartedpartyingonthemforabout 34 years, 34 years.
We'rejustdoinghim, anditkindoftookoff.
Sofromthat 1st 1 totherestoftheyear, wegeneratedinsaleshalf $1,000,000 rightaroundhalf a $1,000,000 insixmonthsbecauseyouinsist I justdiditeveryweek.
I justsaid, Let's keepdoingthis.
Youkeepdoingthis.
And I wasusinglengthentopromotemywebinarstogetpeopleon, so I justkeptdoingthat.
So I learnedaboutaffiliatemarketingat a timetomake a lotofmoneypromotingotherpeople.
Therewas, whatwouldyou 2010 11 startedwinningaffiliatecontestbeing a top 10.
Andthen I learnedaboutthemasterminds, andthat's wheneverythingshifted.
E wenttomyfirstmastermind, todosixmonthaftermyfirstwebinar.
Yes, because I wasinthetop 10 forthisthingwithRyan, DicePerryBelcher.
And I remembergoingtotheirmastermindsand I metfirst. 00:29:58.890 --> 00:30:0.670 I learned a tongue, A lotofstuff. 00:30:0.670 --> 00:30:6.490 I didn't knowaboutit, but I alsometfivepeoplethatbecameaffiliatesinthenext 30 days. 00:30:7.240 --> 00:30:10.300 250,000 salesin 30 daysafterthat.
Mastermind.
Yes, sosixmonthsdidhalf a 1,000,000.
30 dayslater.
15 ago.
Wow.
Relationships.
MasterMontes, be a partofthese.
I knowyou'vegotyourownmastermindsandhighlevelcoaching.
It's likeeveryoneneedstobe a partofyourgroupifthey'renotyetbecauseofthepowerofthatcommunity.
Because I betyoufolksinlengthandwomenareYoumaynotbeawareoftheseoutofthebooth, noclue.
So I startedlearningsomuchconnectingpeople, andthatwentonfor a coupleofyears.
Wehad a nicerun.
Mybusinesspartnerand I haddifferentvisions.
I wantedtogomoremainstream.
HewantedtokeepintheInternet. 00:30:56.350 --> 00:31:6.350 Marketingwasmakinglotsofmoney, but I sawthatasahforme, I gotreallytiredofliketradinglistsandreally, formewasjustexhausting. 00:31:6.610 --> 00:31:10.960 I feltterrificandandandand I didn't And I diditexactlythesameway.
And I didn't also, like, respector a linewithsomeofthethecontentofothercourses.
Andhowdiditbusiness?
I thinkitwaslike, rightorwrong.
I justdid a linewithyou.
It's notwhat I wantedtogrowinto.
Soitwaslike, I don't promoteanyoneelse, youknow, inthatway.
Andso I soldmycompanytohim.
I movedout, layfor a girlthat I fellfor, waslivinginNewYorkCityatthetime I movedinyourcityfellforgirl, movedhereforher.
Webrokeupveryquickly, and I waskindofgoingthroughanotherphaseofmylifeoflikewho I am.
Meaningthisisinteresting, becausewhen I observedyourjourney, evenfromOsakaprospectiveArlington.
Oh, howcomeitwasjust, like, kindofchanges?
Yeah, like, that's interestingbecause I couldseeitfrom a marketingbrandingperspective.
Oh, that's goingtoomanystream.
I wouldcuttheselfgrowthselfdevelopment, right?
Butthat's firstofalllinkedintothisway.
What?
Whatisgoingon?
But I didn't understandit.
Now.
I'm notpleased.
Peopleunderstandit.
Andpeoplethought I wascrazy.
Whywouldyouhavesomethingthatwasmakingsomuchmoney?
Theythought I wascrazy.
Yeah, youbuiltthisbrand.
Everyoneknowswhoisthisguy.
Forsomereason, I justknew I wantedsomethingdifferentinmylife.
ButwhenitwasnotbuilttobetheLincolnmarketingguyswithmylife, Yeah, it's notmymission. 00:32:57.720 --> 00:33:3.740 And I movedhere. 00:33:4.510 --> 00:33:5.020 I kindofhadit. 00:33:5.020 --> 00:33:6.420 Notanotheridentitycrisis. 00:33:6.430 --> 00:33:8.080 I wasin a relationshipended. 00:33:8.830 --> 00:33:13.300 I kindoffeltlikelotsofthingswereendinginmylife, Likethisbusinesspartnershipended.
Rightthentherelationshipended.
Rightthen I didn't knowwhat I wasgonnadowithmyfutureanymore.
And I startedtoget a lotofargumentswithpeople.
I startedarguingwithpeople.
I gotin a fightonthebasketballcourtrightonthestreethere, whichkindofwokemeuptobelike, Whatam I doing?
Whyam I reactive?
There's a lotofkindof a questionofaggression.
Yeah.
Youknow, as a footballplayer, I had a safewaytolegallyhurtpeople.
Now, I can't getmyaggressionoutsafe.
Maybemartialarts.
Youhave, like, a safeenvironmenttobeaggressivewhenyoulosethat, andthat's thatenergyisstillinsideofyou.
Andyouhaven't healedcertainthingsinyourpast.
I'm sureyou'reawareofthis.
It's likeitcomesoutsomewhere.
Yeah, triggerstriggers. 00:33:57.560 --> 00:34:4.450 So I remember, I rememberisdrivingdownthestreetonedayand I pulleduptoelike a stopsign. 00:34:5.500 --> 00:34:7.780 Andinsteadoflookingright, I lookedleftfirst. 00:34:7.780 --> 00:34:11.600 Youusuallylooklefttoseeifthecar's coming, and I think I putuptoofast.
Mycarswilledoutaftertheguyforabout 10 minutes, hewouldturn, I wouldturn.
Heturnedaround.
Hesawmechasingyou.
Turnandstoptraffic.
Itwas a stupidman.
Yeah, I gotoutofmycar, startedchasing, Wasthattriggeredon.
And I rememberthinkingthatthisisjustwho I amuntil I gotin a fightonthebasketballcourt.
Whyreactedto a guyheadbuttedme, and I reactedtohim. 00:34:57.540 --> 00:35:2.460 And I got a reallybigfight, physicalfight, bloodeverywhereontheground, everything. 00:35:3.370 --> 00:35:5.350 Andmyfriendsaidtomewhowaswithmeatthetime. 00:35:5.350 --> 00:35:6.820 Hegoes, I don't hangoutwithyouanymore. 00:35:7.740 --> 00:35:9.180 Andthatwas a bigturningpointforme. 00:35:9.180 --> 00:35:11.350 I waslike, mybestfriendthat I knowforover a decade.
Doesn't wanttospendtimewithme.
Doesn't likewhoyou'rebecoming.
Yeah, yeah.
Itwaslike I don't likewhoyouare.
ThisinstanceYou'resoreactive.
You'resofrustrated.
Nowis a loving, friendly, happyguytakingtriggered.
Itwaslike I couldn't controlthefrustrationofrankorwhateverWill.
And I startedThio.
I startedto a lotofworkonmyself.
Duringthattime, I askedmyselfwhat I wanttodo.
Thisis 2006 and 1/2 7 yearsago, 2012 13.
Yeah.
So I remembersaying, like, whodo I wannabe?
What I wanttodoinmylife?
Personallife, businesseverything.
And I waslike, Man, I reallywanttodevelop a schoolofmyownschool. 00:35:59.180 --> 00:36:6.520 Ofallthethings I wasnevertaughtgrowingupthat I needtoknowYes, because I wishtheywouldhavetaughtmecertainthingsthat I learnedinsports. 00:36:6.530 --> 00:36:16.910 Certainthingsthatthesementorshavetaughtmeincertainthingsthat I needtoknowabouthowtoovercometheseemotionsand I waslike, I'm gonnacallitlikeschooland I wasintraffic.
I wasdrivingintrafficduringthistime, stuckintraffictriggeredbyotherpeoplearoundme.
And I waslikesomething.
He's a shift.
Yes, I wanttocreatesomethingtohelpmyselfbutalsohelpeveryoneelsewhofeelstucklikeme, stuckintrafficorlife.
And I wasjustlikeschoolofschool, likegreatness, like I wanttobegreatandit's almostlikeyou'rebuilding a schoolforallthis.
Also, almostputting a spookforyourselfalways.
It's alwayslike, Yeah, human.
Yeah, everything.
Andit's funnyifpeoplefollowmyjourneyoflastseasonofyearsusuallybringpeopleonthat I needtoworkonthemost.
Yeah, and I'llaskthequestionsforme, butalsofor, youknow, listening.
I said, Okay.
I calledtwofriendswhohad a podcast.
I wasinthecar. 00:36:59.230 --> 00:37:1.210 Yeah, calledtwofriendsduringthatcarride. 00:37:1.440 --> 00:37:5.160 I knewat a podcastandaskedthem, Whatisthispodcastingthing? 00:37:5.170 --> 00:37:11.240 Thisisbeforepodcastingwas a thingonthiswhen I was, likejust a coupletechpodcasts.
Youknow, 67 yearsago, right?
Andbothofthemwerelike, It's mymostfavoritething.
D'oh!
I getthebestleadsformybusiness.
Yeah, andit's just I havesomuchfundoing.
Yeah, I thinktheseguysdothis.
I couldfigureitout.
I'veneverdonethisbefore, but I couldfigureitoutandtalktopeopleYoucango.